A few times in the past couple of months I have gone to bars attempting to pick up a guy, but I haven’t had a ton of success. I’m not about to be a porn star but I’m hardly ugly; I think the problem is more that I don’t really know how to approach guys (or, ideally, get guys to approach me).
What is the best way get a guy’s attention in this scenario? Show a ton of cleavage and seductively chew a cherry? Am I supposed to pick out the “target” and just hope he doesn’t blow me off? Just make eye contact and smile until someone comes over to me? Or are there more subtle things that I can do to get noticed or turn the odds more in my favor?
I will freely admit that I am an introvert and a little bit shy, so I could use some advice in this regard.
What is the best way get a guy’s attention in this scenario? Show a ton of cleavage and seductively chew a cherry? Am I supposed to pick out the “target” and just hope he doesn’t blow me off? Just make eye contact and smile until someone comes over to me? Or are there more subtle things that I can do to get noticed or turn the odds more in my favor?
I will freely admit that I am an introvert and a little bit shy, so I could use some advice in this regard.