What is a high "number?"

My bf and I recently discussed our number. Hm. But neither of us knows what might be considered "high." Particularly for him. I KNOW my number is high, and a bit embarrassing. He is 40 and has been with 19 women. I think that's high, but not outrageous. He thinks it's even low.

What do you guys think? I'm not asking you to reveal your numbers, unless you want. But I'm trying to get some perspective on this.

Before getting married 3 for me. After marriage 40+. Hubby and I have been enjoying sharing me,

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jennyxiaoxoxo said:

A high number = my number + 1

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Allow me to make your number high

CarnivalBarker said:

My bf and I recently discussed our number. Hm. But neither of us knows what might be considered "high." Particularly for him. I KNOW my number is high, and a bit embarrassing. He is 40 and has been with 19 women. I think that's high, but not outrageous. He thinks it's even low.

What do you guys think? I'm not asking you to reveal your numbers, unless you want. But I'm trying to get some perspective on this.

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I agree with your thinking. 19 is high but not outrageously so. My number is 7. The Mr.'s is lower than mine. I'm 42 and he's 40 so those are low. To me anyway. But does it really matter? Unless it for some reason is causing a problem in your relationship, who cares?

My husband lost count (he guestimates that it's around 50)..but he was smart, always wrapped it, no diseases so whatever.

Oh and to contrast that...I'm in the single digits. His sexual exploits before me don't bother me. *shrugs*

My husband met me during a party during a bukkake train, so he believes me when I say I lost count somewhere in the thirties. He never told me how many he has ben with, but I think he may have lost count too.

I've had 5 partners. I think I'm the rookie of this group!

AnAmericanDarling said:

I've had 5 partners. I think I'm the rookie of this group!

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I only had 1.Childhood sweetheart.

Actual sex? 4

CarnivalBarker said:

My bf and I recently discussed our number. Hm. But neither of us knows what might be considered "high." Particularly for him. I KNOW my number is high, and a bit embarrassing. He is 40 and has been with 19 women. I think that's high, but not outrageous. He thinks it's even low.

What do you guys think? I'm not asking you to reveal your numbers, unless you want. But I'm trying to get some perspective on this.

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When compared to my wife's and mine combined numbers , 19 is pretty high. We got together young so my wife is my one and only. She had one boyfriend before me. Then through out our marriage she's dropped her panties for three other men.

Only 4 partners for me too.

Doesn't matter what number, just that we respect each other.

IMAO the only number that matters is "1" as in Iʻm THE ONE in my hubbyʻs life.

~m

The number is what we make of it. It's only too high if it's no longer healthy for us.

malia123 said:

IMAO the only number that matters is "1" as in Iʻm THE ONE in my hubbyʻs life.

~m

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You have a beautiful and sexy AV. Hope you don't mind my saying so. It caught my attention.

Leaping_Lagomorph said:

The number is what we make of it. It's only too high if it's no longer healthy for us.



You have a beautiful and sexy AV. Hope you don't mind my saying so. It caught my attention.

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Thanks hun. I used to post quite a bit of pics here, but alas age has caught up to me!

malia123 said:

Thanks hun. I used to post quite a bit of pics here, but alas age has caught up to me!

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I'm sure that can't be entirely true. And if you ever decide to post pictures again, I'm sure I'll not be the only one whose attention you get. Best wishes.

CarnivalBarker said:

My bf and I recently discussed our number. Hm. But neither of us knows what might be considered "high." Particularly for him. I KNOW my number is high, and a bit embarrassing. He is 40 and has been with 19 women. I think that's high, but not outrageous. He thinks it's even low.

What do you guys think? I'm not asking you to reveal your numbers, unless you want. But I'm trying to get some perspective on this.

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This right here is why I NEVER want to get into the number discussion with someone. I'm 37 and my number is in the range of your bf and I am single again. I don't consider my self a slut or easy, but I had a wild time at one point in my life. Is that something I will be judge down upon because the person I am with is more conservative or was lucky enough to have a few really good long term relationships?

malia123 said:

Thanks hun. I used to post quite a bit of pics here, but alas age has caught up to me!

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Leaping_Lagomorph said:

I'm sure that can't be entirely true. And if you ever decide to post pictures again, I'm sure I'll not be the only one whose attention you get. Best wishes.

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While it is no secret that even the GREAT malia is not immune to the passing of time......

...I can say with a great amount of certainty that she is without a doubt still a beautiful, sexy, desirable woman, no matter what her 'number' is, or even what kind of shape she is in......

Some woman possess eternal beauty and what she has inside her will always make her desirable......

Denny

That very question came up a few days ago. It had little do do with sex, yet does affect a man's ability.
I recently completed radiation treatments for prostate cancer. My PSA numbers were originally high. I called Monday for the blood results after a 30 day wait for the sample to be taken.
I was given a number. I had no idea whether it was good or bad. Yes I was told it was good and would decrease in the next month, never to be zero.

I decided to search and see what those numbers meant. I was happy to find as we age the numbers do increase. My number was for a male in his 60's. I am well above that so am below my age bracket. Numbers can be confusing and these, like BP, are only averages.

I write this because we joined to share our secrets. Secrets of real life experiences. They involve numbers also.
Getting back to males over 50. Have a doctor stick his finger up your ass and take a blood sample from your arm for a PSA reading before it's too late. I said no many times but found the radiation treatments are painless and for most insurance pays.

This has been a public service announcement and numbers do count. You are just a number. Yet someone loves and needs you.

QUOTE=mikendel;85781074]Before getting married 3 for me. After marriage 40+. Hubby and I have been enjoying sharing me,

/QUOTE]Denny wrote..... I have had one girlfriend and my wife one boyfriend. I've had only one wife. Dull huh?

AnAmericanDarling said:

I've had 5 partners. I think I'm the rookie of this group!

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See above. Still what does one partner mean? Until recent years and thanks to a few porn sites I have had more female lovers than I can remember. My wife had lovers but no intercourse with others.
That changed thanks to years of begging and talking. My wife finally agreed to try a few male friends. In a few short active years she's had intercourse with way more men than I have women. She's also outdone women friends who were being screwed by others all of their adult lives. We have no real numbers, just a lot!

malia123 said:

Thanks hun. I used to post quite a bit of pics here, but alas age has caught up to me!

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We say age is just a number. We do many things people half or age still do. As the joke, we just do it for less time.
We're old, fat, and wrinkled. As long as a few look my wife will dress like a teenaged slut. If it bothers you don't look.

3 not sure if that's low or high

Dollie

BiAsianGirl said:

3 not sure if that's low or high

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I had more men than that just this morning. Hopefully four more tomorrow.

I'm almost 26 and honestly, I don't know what my number is. I haven't kept count but I do know I'm at least in the triple digits.

LIVINRFANTASIES said:

I had more men than that just this morning. Hopefully four more tomorrow.

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Lucky you...

If we are counting intercourse of some type, my wife is 11 and I'm at 9. We are 30 and have been married almost five years, but there is no "high" number. I don't think all the sex in my pre-married life is even 10% of the amount of sex since getting married.

CarnivalBarker said:

My bf and I recently discussed our number. Hm. But neither of us knows what might be considered "high." Particularly for him. I KNOW my number is high, and a bit embarrassing. He is 40 and has been with 19 women. I think that's high, but not outrageous. He thinks it's even low.

What do you guys think? I'm not asking you to reveal your numbers, unless you want. But I'm trying to get some perspective on this.

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My wife is shy about her number, but will admit that between age 15 & 23 she had over 60 guys and 10 girls.

Nightclubs, drugs and no self esteem would appear to be the reason.

That counts as high?

(She's had more women than me)