Curious guys

Messier82 said:

I have a self-imposed rule that, after my second glass of wine, I will only post the most innocuous things, though this has become a custom more honoured in the breach than the observance. So here is something I've been mulling over these past few days:

The general concensus is that it has to be 'the right guy' or it's a non-starter. The requirements seem to be trust, friendship, some kind of connection, mutuality etc. I'm in total agreement on that.

There's been less said about cumming in the mouth and if you/he would swallow, so we'll leave that aspect out of it for now. The 'no kissing' aspect is prevalent (though some think they'd try it) and up until I started down the train of thought I've been following for the past few days, I would have agreed totally on that as well.

There are those who've said they'd go as far as anal sex, and I'll confess that's evolved into a feature in my fantasies now (though it wasn't there a few weeks ago). For this group there's still a tendency to adhere to the view there should be no kissing or cuddling or other-types-of-intimacy.

But let me run this scenario past you and you can select from the choice of outcomes:
You've found Mr Right-Guy. Actually, he found you and he made most of the running, it's been so easy, all you had to do was just not say 'no'. It seems like fate is guiding you to fulfil this fantasy that has been the only thing on your mind every time you've had your hand on your cock for these past weeks/months/years. The time and place is right for your voyage into uncharted territories, no one is expecting you home tonight. You're at his bachelor pad, it's in the next town, no one knows you here, you feel totally anonymous and safe. You can do and be anything you want to in this place. You've both had a few drinks, so you're feeling relaxed, yet excited about what is to come.

Who makes the first move? It doesn't matter, this is Mr Right-Guy, you're both as keen as each other, you're pulling at each other's clothes then the clothes are gone. He goes down on you first, your cock feels hard enough to burst it's skin, his feels just as hard in your hand, you move around to take him in your mouth now. It feels even better than you imagined it would. You haven't felt this hard and horny since you were a teenager, if he cums in your mouth you'll drink it all down and be sorry it didn't last longer.

No one cums yet. He wants to take it further, you've thought about this too. He'll do it just the way you want to whether that's gentle or hard. You've come this far, you're loving it, yes of course, do it, do it gently but firmly. He's as considerate as you could have hoped for. You're on your back, he lifts one of your legs over his shoulder before gently going in. It's strange, the strangest feeling, being filled up, you couldn't stop it even if you wanted too, and you don't want to. He's playing with your cock as he pushes in and out, slowly and gently at first. Until you've stretched enough and it becomes easier.

He can tell, so he does it a little harder, then more. You take your cock in your own hand because it feels so damn good. You're worried you'll make yourself cum before he does and you don't want that. You can tell he's getting closer to coming now, a little faster and harder with each stroke, and you want to feel him come, you want it to be intense, you want it to be spectacular for him because you've given him something you've never given anyone else, you need it to feel special for both of you.

You can feel it building up in him, the tension, the internal pressure, he's going to come soon, a minute, half a minute, twenty seconds, it's that close. He wants just a little something more to make it happen, needs just a little something more to take him over the edge. He leans down, his mouth is an inch away from yours, you know he wants to kiss you, you realise he is going to kiss you, and you...

a) push him away and say “No way man, that's icky”. The moment is gone, he's sorry, he knows you both said no kissing, he feels bad about it, both your erections evaporate rapidly, there's no coming back from this faux pas, the night has already ended.

b) think to yourself laughingly “Fuck it! Right now I'm up for anything” he kisses you, it's not that bad after all, at the right time, but not any old time. He comes like a freight train, then it's your turn.


Meh... just food for thought

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edgrant said:

I copied some comments that struck home for me.

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CuriousGuyVa
Those curiosities for a buddy do creep up on you, don't they?

JohnnyDoe65
I think that I am finally ready to take the plunge. Never been with a guy but willing to suck and be sucked, but it has to be with another first timer. I might kiss also. I am in South Jersey buy the way.

Heyimmark
On an everyday basis... There's not much there... But when I do some blow, holy!! I get beyond curious!!! If only I could find that one guy, a guy I can trust 110%... Nice shaved cock... We click mentally... Clean... I'm sure I would go all the way... Not much I wouldn't do! But how do you find that guy!!?? I mean... Someone I trust beyond anything... Enough for us to forego the condoms... I'm guessing someone who is married would be a good candidate... Definitely a HUGE bucket list item!!

sandles_nosocks
I'm love women but the urge to try something else is there. Never been with another guy but think about cock a lot. One of my fantasy is to be watching porn with another man and well you know how that story goes.

1960curious
I also love looking at cocks and men sucking and fucking! I want to find a man that I can trust and become friends with benefits. I already cum in my hand or on a cock shaped dildo and lick and suck them clean. I have fucked my ass with my dildo and loved it! I just want to find that right guy!!

Kissing in the hight of passion and pleasure would be amazing. Response to Messier82.

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Just need the right time and place to discover.

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mtsnowrider said:

perfect.....
really guys, your're willing to get fucked but you draw the line at kissing? seriously?

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allennow said:

Now I want it all except kissing.

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LincolnDuncan said:

Yeah there are a bunch of guys who will suck dick but not kiss.

I'm one.

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LincolnDuncan said:

Yeah there are a bunch of guys who will suck dick but not kiss.

I'm one.

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betabrad said:

Yep, this is me too. I am bi-curious but have never done anything.

I have lots of fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked, preferably while a woman is watching me and telling me what a naughty little slut I am.

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satyr987 said:

I like the idea of including a woman. Finding a couple to play with might be a good approach. I love the idea of a woman teaching me and initiating me into the pleasures of the male body.

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under2008 said:

I had a friend when i was 13, we used to suck each other. Never done anything since, but i do think about it a fair bit. Just been on Omegle, no one up for anything

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Confuzzeled said:

its nice to be able to relate to a lot of guys in this thread. I'm also way more interested in sucking a guys dick then kissing him. Kissing doesnt turn me on at all.

I would also prefer MMF threesome over just doing it with a guy. It seems so hot to have a woman involved. Adds to much more to the experience. Its not about feeling less gay. Its just more sexual to me. Not sure why.

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