Lil_nat968
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Not a bit. Itis a secret Ikeep inside like Somali.
Do they know???
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leashedbottom
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Everyone knows... even the UPS guy
UtopiaBound
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I'm positive some suspect because you can't miss the new daily neck 'jewelry' but no details or anytjing other than tongue in cheek questions. Our oldest definitely knows... He has a knowledge of symbols and I swear despite the adamant denials has looked into kinky things himself...
spellslave
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One of my former co-workers is also involved in D/s, so, he spotted my 'owned' ring pretty quickly. My parents are vaguely aware and don't care. There are some kinksters in my social circles offline, and even those who aren't active participants, are aware of D/s anyway.
Latexisland
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Nope...
Not sure anyone we know is aware of the life we lead.
Not sure anyone we know is aware of the life we lead.
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JorjaRayne
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Yes, my bestie knows and a few others. Smazing that they come to me for sec sdvice because to them i am adventurous. (I just feel most like me when i am serving and submitting to the will of a Dom)
They do not have a clue at all.
_Hawkmoon_
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No. I have a semi-public job in the private sector. Thus my private indulgences must remain private. It's an unfortunate reality. 
IrisAlthea
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I think a lot of people expect me to be a pervert..... but they know no details and have no proof.
That plunger you keep carrying around must be a bit of a hint?
Cumference
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That plunger you keep carrying around must be a bit of a hint?
You could be onto something there
(But I have stealth-plunger too, for special occasions)
cascadiabound
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No idea
None. Absolutely no idea.
None. Absolutely no idea.
thelaughingcat
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All family knows on my side and OH's sister/brother in law are aware also. Close friends all know and most friends/colleagues are aware because I don't have this useful filter thingy that stops me giggling at the wrong jokes and smirking at certain words while I'm talking to them. I believe a fair amount of assumption has gone on!
Joeknoxville
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The topic comes up quite often at my wife's "book club" meetings.
dirty_sumbit
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Not everything
Most everyone does not have a clue.
My wife knows I like to be submissive in the bedroom sometime.
Which came to a shock to her because she never pictured me giving up control
and when I told her I wanted her to wear a strap on.. I still don't think she believes me.
a few friends know from having short talks here and there. I would say. "I like a women
to take the lead. Be confident. but that's as far as I go.
To me I enjoy the secrets.
I like being in a room of people and know that none of them could picture the things I'm into
The secrets are hot
Most everyone does not have a clue.
My wife knows I like to be submissive in the bedroom sometime.
Which came to a shock to her because she never pictured me giving up control
and when I told her I wanted her to wear a strap on.. I still don't think she believes me.
a few friends know from having short talks here and there. I would say. "I like a women
to take the lead. Be confident. but that's as far as I go.
To me I enjoy the secrets.
I like being in a room of people and know that none of them could picture the things I'm into
The secrets are hot
subtle_Dom
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To "them" I am one of the most polite, respectful, straight laced guy you will every meet... so only those who have known me intimately would know..
ViktorVonK
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This is nothing that we have to be ashamed. I talk to everybody that is interesting in this or in something else about sex. I like to share my view an everything I know. I have to tell you that a lot of people have different fetishes, but they are just scared to put it out. I am not...because it s fun
this wins the internet.
YouCanCallMeDaddy
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They don't know. They think I am an upright man that takes care of business and no doubt goes home to a loving family and watches CSI reruns. They've no idea that I keep her in my basement when she steps out of line so I can give her every inch of my love while she learns the submission is the most beautiful of states.
But not in the world. I'm just a stand up guy doing stand up things.
But not in the world. I'm just a stand up guy doing stand up things.
they have no idea at all... the world i live in is exquisitely, painfully buttoned-up.
i do sometimes wonder if anybody notices what he does to me. i've caught glimpses of myself in mirrors after he's laid me bare and i look so flushed and raw and wet-eyed. that doesn't go away over time. he's got his hooks in me and that bliss is all over my body and face. i want them to see me and wonder. they'd never fucking believe it.
i do sometimes wonder if anybody notices what he does to me. i've caught glimpses of myself in mirrors after he's laid me bare and i look so flushed and raw and wet-eyed. that doesn't go away over time. he's got his hooks in me and that bliss is all over my body and face. i want them to see me and wonder. they'd never fucking believe it.
