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I just need to find out if I am truly submissive to a male and if I need cock which I have never had
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I just need to find out if I am truly submissive to a male and if I need cock which I have never had
I have been in both roles that you ask about. I will tell you that Fantasy is NOT reality. It never flows the way you want it to as a submissive. So you have to be open, wide open to new things that your Dom might throw at you.
Talk. Talk a lot with the man you want to do things with. If he is overly forceful, he's not for you. If he's sheepish and asks about everything YOU want...again, he's not for you, as he's not a real Dom.
A real Dom will ask your interests and then try to push more secret info from you.. He will not want to "claim" you on the first date, but rather get to know you better. He will be confident in his approach, and still listen to your needs and wants.
A true Dom will tell you flat out "You aren't ready for Lifestyle". They are very picky about subs and slaves.
Are you ready? Well answer this. have you considered uncomfortable pain in your fantasies? All first timers will feel pain.
Do you think about safety? No matter what you are doing, you must always protect yourself....yes the act of condoms ruin spontaneity, but it is your body at risk.
Remember that the first explorations will bring some disappointment. one must not give up because of a few failed endeavors. Find what fits YOU. then move on.
Hope that helps.