tiedtits4me
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I'm trying..
That's all you can do
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MarathonATL
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Damn...this thread sure took a turn south.
tiedtits4me
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It'll turn back. All familys have little spats now and again.
RjThoughts
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Yes, that we do.
peachesmelba
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"What Serene said honey. I had a great (male) judge who let my ex play those games for a while because everything that he did was documented that way. Then the judge put the hammer down and he wound up owing a LOT more than just the child support. Just make sure that ALL conversations regarding the divorce and child support issues are handled by your attorney. He'll keep trying to wiggle around it and talk to you but you can hang up on him - refuse to answer the phone or to talk to him if he calls the kids and asks to speak with you. It's hard I know, but ultimately this is about and for the kids. Hang in there. If you like you can send me a PM for my phone # - that way you have some where to vent when needed..."
RubenesqueAphrodite
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@Peaches,
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I'll apologize.... maybe
..lol When I need to get it out..I just need to get it out..Ergo, the vent. I know my friends here will understand, and respond if they want to. 
INeedLove
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INeedLove
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I'll apologize.... maybe
You don't need to apologize one iota, dear RA. This is our "home" and we should feel safe in venting when life gets heavy. I continue to keep you in my prayers. My divorce was in Texas and my ex threw a fit over child support too. I relented to a lower amount against my attorney's advice because 1) I wanted to leave the state with our child and 2) I am a peace keeper. A few years later, I regret the choice. It's been hard financially but I am stronger for it. Stay the course and listen to your lawyer (gosh--I can't believe I'm saying that--LOL). You aren't asking for the moon. He is being selfish and childish in his behavior.
HUGS!!
peachesmelba
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I'll apologize.... maybe
"Absolutely and you have NOTHING you need to apologize for!
back atcha!"
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peachesmelba
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"What she says!"
This is your first post in the thread and you are critical?
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INeedLove
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Sarcasm is not a natural language for me. But sheesh! It's one thing to lurk in the thread. (although I'd hope folks would interact or add to the thread instead). But really---to be negative with your only post in the thread? It struck a nerve.
Hugs to sweet Peaches!
INeedLove
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"We need to form a club...or maybe a support group??? 'Those with Texas exes'???
LOL!!! I wonder how big the group would get? Do you ever miss the friendliness of the people in Texas? I sure do. But I don't miss the heat and geckos. Ick!
peachesmelba
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Have a great Sunday everyone. I hope everyone is doing well.
"Doing GREAT here sweetie. SO and I figure we've seen each other more during the past two months than we did during the entire previous year...and we're not bored (or fed up) with each other yet either....
And my (new) Boss has told me to let her know in time when he is scheduled to be home and she'll schedule my off day(s) for then. Have I mentioned recently how much I LOVE my new job - and that my Boss has recommended me for Assistant Manager training???"
INeedLove
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"Doing GREAT here sweetie. SO and I figure we've seen each other more during the past two months than we did during the entire previous year...and we're not bored (or fed up) with each other yet either....
This is awesome news!! I'm so happy for you. It was a hard bit of time when you were apart. The new job sounds MUCH better than the old one. And a possible promotion on the horizon is great too. Yay!!! I'll keep my fingers crossed.
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(((Hugs you back)))
(Giggles) "I don't know but it suddenly seems there might have been a LOT of us.
I miss a LOT of things about Texas. We had a little farm up in the panhandle near Amarillo so I never got the geckos - I do NOT miss the tarantulas and the Horny Toads, although I do miss the farm (and all the lovely characters...er...critters who inhabited it with us). The heat wasn't so bad up there either and there was that constant wind from the North to take the edge off things. I remember a few months after we'd moved there a driver stopped at the Truck Stop I was working at - he asked if the wind 'ever stops blowing'? I had to tell him I didn't know yet since I'd only lived there for 4 months..."
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This is awesome news!! I'm so happy for you. It was a hard bit of time when you were apart. The new job sounds MUCH better than the old one. And a possible promotion on the horizon is great too. Yay!!! I'll keep my fingers crossed.
"Thank you sweet Sister!"
INeedLove
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(((Hugs you back)))
(Giggles) "I don't know but it suddenly seems there might have been a LOT of us.
Oh, you had potential for scorpions too. Eek. I think the spiders would be awful too. I didn't know there was a constant wind over there. The gulf coast was always so humid and hot.
I hope you have a good day. I'll peek back in later.
DappleDoxie
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It's hard I know, but ultimately this is about and for the kids. Hang in there. If you like you can send me a PM for my phone # - that way you have some where to vent when needed..."
What the other girls have said, Sugar!! The Support is about the kids and they deserve what the court deems right, not what the weasel feels he can afford. Stick to your guns and let your attorney do the job you pay him for.
No kids here, and no exes in Texas ... but my Auntie is a Family Law Specialist and I can tell you that what the girls are telling you is the advice she'd give.
Hang in there!! You have a circle to lean on ... only wish I was closer, we'd have a glass of wine.
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Boss has told me to let her know in time when he is scheduled to be home and she'll schedule my off day(s) for then. Have I mentioned recently how much I LOVE my new job - and that my Boss has recommended me for Assistant Manager training???"
That is just wonderful!! Hoo-Ray!!!
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I got a at as divorce too, but mine was less complicated because (thank a deity I don't really believe in) we didn't have any kids. I didn't contest anything and didn't want anything (though I could've asked for and gotten support as well as half the equity in the house - but half equity in a house we moved into six months before isn't much - certainly not worth lawyers fees. I signed a paper stating that I didn't have to be present, then signed papers from the court. Easy and relatively painless, though she didn't keep an oral agreement that she and I had when we separated. Ah well.
We lived in West Texas, in the southwest corner of the panhandle. The people were very friendly and the traffic nonexistent (compared to Los Angeles, where we'd previously lived). However, it was the brownest, flattest place I'd ever seen, and I couldn't get used to the haboubs and smaller dust storms that happened so regularly.
Living there 18 months was long enough.
We lived in West Texas, in the southwest corner of the panhandle. The people were very friendly and the traffic nonexistent (compared to Los Angeles, where we'd previously lived). However, it was the brownest, flattest place I'd ever seen, and I couldn't get used to the haboubs and smaller dust storms that happened so regularly.
Living there 18 months was long enough.
tiedtits4me
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"Doing GREAT here sweetie. SO and I figure we've seen each other more during the past two months than we did during the entire previous year...and we're not bored (or fed up) with each other yet either....
That's so awesome Peaches.
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