Good, Loving Sub (Male) Nickname

seethelightattheend said:

Heyo, I'm just looking for some good nicknames for male submissives. So far, all I've got are "love" and "pet". (My love or my pet, if he's been really good.) I want to reward him for being good with something loving, but my experience is (obviously) lacking.
Like, for instance, I know you can call a girl "princess" or "babygirl" or "cutie". But that doesn't really work with a man. Even "beautiful" feels to feminine and "handsome" has the wrong connotation.
Any advice?

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bluekitty69 said:

Well in my case I find simple praise works best for expressing pleasure in his behavior.

It's not that I'm hard to please, (well maybee a little!). So when I do feel he has done well in a task or has shown his deviotion, he knows my praise is sincere and well earned.

I think a nickname is someting that would be dependent on your relationship dynamic, what type of domme are you what kind of sub you want.
Once I praised a boyfriend by saying "you're a good boy Charlie Brown". He blew up, and declared he wasn't a "boy". Gee I thought it was cute, but he took it the wrong way.

My present fav nickname for a sub is Buck, it's strong but also the name of a male bunnie lol.
So i quess it something you just have to find wh a t works for you and you're sub.

Have fun!

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Michael_Warren said:

I agree. As a sub, I take pride in my submissiveness. So when a woman praises me for that, I feel acknowledged and appreciated for who / what I want to be for her in that situation. Trusting and desiring her enough to show her my vulnerability. "It always moves me to see you kiss my feet so obediently/respectfully. I'm so proud of you." hopefully followed by, for instance: "Would you like to be my [whatever is applicable, in case you feel the generosity to reward him]?" (For instance, say, "Bummylick" could do it for me (=including some sub trait). Whatever works for you.)
Also -to me, at least- I prefer a woman addressing me from the (relational) "I" perspective ("I feel [so]... by your ..." or "It moves me [so]... to see/feel you ..." or "I find you [so]... when you ...") instead of from a seemingly "objective" (detached) perspective ("You are [so]..."). Feel the difference? He, too, needs to know what his actions mean to you, the woman he respects/reveres/worships. Wouldn't he be excited to hear how pleasurable it feels to you, looking down on him just he the way he wants to be looked down upon by you? Enjoy! Mike.

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bluekitty69 said:

Well in my case I find simple praise works best for expressing pleasure in his behavior.

It's not that I'm hard to please, (well maybee a little!). So when I do feel he has done well in a task or has shown his deviotion, he knows my praise is sincere and well earned.

I think a nickname is someting that would be dependent on your relationship dynamic, what type of domme are you what kind of sub you want.
Once I praised a boyfriend by saying "you're a good boy Charlie Brown". He blew up, and declared he wasn't a "boy". Gee I thought it was cute, but he took it the wrong way.

My present fav nickname for a sub is Buck, it's strong but also the name of a male bunnie lol.
So i quess it something you just have to find wh a t works for you and you're sub.

Have fun!

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