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Why is it even necessary to even state that decent conversation should be included?
Aren't we all a little sex crazed though? It's just hard to find guys who realize that decent conversation and getting to know the person is important for making a connection (pun intended).
I'm curious, what percentage of people who PM you jump straight to sex-related issues in the first 2-3 messages? I keep getting the impression that anyone who identifies as female on personals and dating websites is subjected to a barrage of men like this.
I really would like just normal, not married guys to get to know that is comfortable with voice, think not socially awkward or sex crazed. Why unattached? Because when it's really late at night and I'm free, I rather just talk rather than deal with a man trying to cyber secretly, typing away in the dark while his wife is in the next room
Not all of us. I'm very sex-positive and more times horny than not but I'm not sex crazed that I'm blinded and all formalities are out the window. Why is it even necessary to even state that decent conversation should be included? It's the basics. Especially with voice chat that ENGAGES two people, it's not the same as porn where you can press play, pause and stop on a person.
Bingo. This is the reason why I've never posted on this thread.
While I may be very interested in phone sex, the barrage of messages you will inevitably get is kind of irritating. It's not like you're going to get a ton of viable candidates. Typically it's a ton of one sentence messages such as: What do you like? or xx/swm Tell me what gets you off. or What are you looking for? Typically from very new people or people who only lurk so you have no idea who they are and if you would even be well matched.
Finding people on here is a difficult thing because unless you've had a chance to sample their voice or their "wares" you're basically calling up some stranger who may be a super poor fit. And getting out of that phone call has now become awkward.
Could not agree more with Mims. A decent conversation goes a long way.
I'm curious, what percentage of people who PM you jump straight to sex-related issues in the first 2-3 messages? I keep getting the impression that anyone who identifies as female on personals and dating websites is subjected to a barrage of men like this.
I'm always amazed at the amount of people that just want to jump into it. There's a learning phase, so to speak. It's not unlike courting someone. Just because i'm horny and you're horny doesn't mean we're just going to work. But when there is some sort of vibe between both parties, phone is probably the best way to self pleasure.
As a female on personals, this is how I break down my PMs from someone new and the likelihood that I will reply.
About 75% of PMs I receive is straight sex talk in the first text, in varying degrees from 'looking for fun?' to sending me dirty pics to "wanting to ravish my sopping wet pussy". I ignore these.
The next biggest percentage will send me a PM that tells me all the things HE wants to do but it's nicely written out and not rude at all. He states his name, his location and then just goes on about what turns him on or that one of my posts got him hard. This is not something you send a random person you never interacted with on the threads or in private. This is not an introduction, though I was not offended, I'm not keen on connecting. But I do reply to these PMs with a thank you but I'm not interested.
Then there's the awesome yet small percentage but they get a reply for sure. Guys that eventually became friends that I keep around for fun naughty times and good laughs . These men remember how to talk to people, they introduce themselves, say something funny or lighthearted about their own likes or hobbies and conclude the PM by asking about me but not the standard "How are you?" but something more personal like "Hey I see that you like to cook in your interests, what's your favorite dish to make?" (guys forget this is how you insure a response...get to know someone by being interested in their interests) I'm not asking for a huge essay, actually I would hate that lol but relaxed and casual PMs go a long way - for me at least.
Sensible comments like these can get a girl so hot
Bingo. This is the reason why I've never posted on this thread.
While I may be very interested in phone sex, the barrage of messages you will inevitably get is kind of irritating. It's not like you're going to get a ton of viable candidates. Typically it's a ton of one sentence messages such as: What do you like? or xx/swm Tell me what gets you off. or What are you looking for? Typically from very new people or people who only lurk so you have no idea who they are and if you would even be well matched.
Finding people on here is a difficult thing because unless you've had a chance to sample their voice or their "wares" you're basically calling up some stranger who may be a super poor fit. And getting out of that phone call has now become awkward.
wbnu99... add me
hoping to play again soon, jenibee...
I really would like just normal, not married guys to get to know that is comfortable with voice, think not socially awkward or sex crazed. Why unattached? Because when it's really late at night and I'm free, I rather just talk rather than deal with a man trying to cyber secretly, typing away in the dark while his wife is in the next room
Sweet honey nectar from a wet horny woman. Mmmm love to lick and drink up that sweet cum!So I wanted a place - with people that do enjoy phone sex and up for it - that can get together. A place for people to mingle, shoot the shit and let your own colors show and appeal to potential playmates.
I'm hoping it helps other people find satisfaction and make new friends. Feel free to post about experiences, likes, dislikes and/or self introductions.
I had posted this on page 2 (my answers are there) but someone suggested I post it here as well so why not I added a few questions so that we can get to know you a bit better and it's nice to be able to reply to something instead of a 'hi everyone'
1) Are you the quiet, talkative, dominate or laid back type? Are you typically shy or outgoing?
Talkative
2) Do you like to lead or wait for her/him to lead?
I am a leader, but i am also a giver!
3) What's a trait you look for in a phone buddy?
Trust, and a woman not afraid to say; "fuck me harder"
4)What's your favorite food?
- hearing someone else get breathless on the phone
- telling someone what you would do to them if they were next to you
- putting the phone next to different parts of your body so the person can hear
- making someone else cum over the phone
What do you love about phone sex?
Looking for people to play with. Male with a hot English accent