The Phonebook - meet, greet, hook up

DirtySecrets11

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So I wanted a place - with people that do enjoy phone sex and up for it - that can get together. A place for people to mingle, shoot the shit and let your own colors show and appeal to potential playmates.

I'm hoping it helps other people find satisfaction and make new friends. Feel free to post about experiences, likes, dislikes and/or self introductions.

I had posted this on page 2 (my answers are there) but someone suggested I post it here as well so why not :) I added a few questions so that we can get to know you a bit better and it's nice to be able to reply to something instead of a 'hi everyone' :)

1) Are you the quiet, talkative, dominate or laid back type? Are you typically shy or outgoing?

2) Do you like to lead or wait for her/him to lead?

3) What's a trait you look for in a phone buddy?

4)What's your favorite food?
 
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My dirty little secret fetish...I enjoy phone sex. Quite a bit.

So I've been meaning to put out a personal to beef up my skype contacts for when I want to play. I enjoy rubbing one out with company on voice more than porn, though porn is still good as well. Sex is a beautiful thing haha

The problem is...it's awkward with new people. When I did give it a shot, it was either a hit or a hard miss. I met some really awesome, awesome guys and then some...not the greatest. I like to be able to talk, laugh and converse with someone before the play. It makes it much more enjoyable and comfortable.

So I wanted a place - with people that do enjoy phone sex and up for it - that can get together. A place for people to mingle, shoot the shit and let your own colors show and appeal to potential playmates.

This is not just for myself (though this may just fail horribly lol), I'm hoping it helps other people find satisfaction and make new friends. Feel free to post about experiences, likes, dislikes and/or self introductions. Or if you wanna say hi to me if you're lost/shy, I'll do my best to be a good thread host. :cattail:

Don't be creepy, don't just put up your addy and expect people to hit you up.

great idea!

I love phone sex too, love all audio things audio. From listening to audios to having fun on the phone ( or voice). It's always better when it is with someone you know, someone you can laugh and get on with when you are not in the mood for naughtiness.

I look forward to meeting new people and I'm sure more of my friends will be posting here at some point too :)
 
Thanks for dropping in :D

Sciwi is a prime example of meeting awesome people out there. Doesn't hurt that he's got a panty dropper of an accent :cattail:
 
Hello Im a huge fan of phone sex I think there is nothing hotter then hearing a woman get off to sound of my voice.Im hoping to make new friends and see where things go.
 
Thanks for dropping in :D

Sciwi is a prime example of meeting awesome people out there. Doesn't hurt that he's got a panty dropper of an accent :cattail:

*laughs* I will pay you for that compliment later, what did we agree on, $10?

it was a fun 'getting to know you' chat we had. Loved your voice, innocent sounding with a side of naughty :D
 
Hello Im a huge fan of phone sex I think there is nothing hotter then hearing a woman get off to sound of my voice.Im hoping to make new friends and see where things go.

Hi Firefighter Scott, thanks for dropping in

Serious question lol...occupational perk, how many times have women asked you to wear the uniform to bed? :cattail:

Hope you enjoy my little thread :)

*laughs* I will pay you for that compliment later, what did we agree on, $10?

it was a fun 'getting to know you' chat we had. Loved your voice, innocent sounding with a side of naughty :D

No no we agreed on something else in exchange, we should uh...hash out details next chat ;)


This sounds like a great idea

Thank you! Hopefully we get some women in here too despite Lit ratios

I'm a pretty good wingwoman for my guy friends at clubs as well :cattail:
 
Fantastic idea, dirtysecrets11!

A little black book just for phone sex has been long, long overdue! I hope this thread takes off and the masses sign up.

Come one, come all, share your addy and have an aural ball!
 
Great thread. I would be very new to this, but I really love the thought and would love to give it a go.

I do enjoy role play online, in participial taboo themes or age play and it would great to try that with this. I also enjoy a slow build up, just regular chat getting to know one another's thoughts and desires and perhaps it leading to more.

If there are any ladies out there who'd be willing to give someone relatively new at this a try or anyone similar to me who'd want to give it a go, please do get in touch :)
 
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Hi Firefighter Scott, thanks for dropping in

Serious question lol...occupational perk, how many times have women asked you to wear the uniform to bed? :cattail:

Hope you enjoy my little thread :)



No no we agreed on something else in exchange, we should uh...hash out details next chat ;)




Thank you! Hopefully we get some women in here too despite Lit ratios

I'm a pretty good wingwoman for my guy friends at clubs as well :cattail:

Lol I have been asked that a few times not on here but in person.I hope this takes off im very intested in meeting new people hoping my inbox fills up.
 
A nice idea indeed.

But how to make sure it doesn't become a sausage-fest indeed (and yes I know my posting isn't helping on this matter :D )

Or alternatively, how to make sure female posters don't get spammed to death.

Lets put on our thinking caps!

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A nice idea indeed.

But how to make sure it doesn't become a sausage-fest indeed (and yes I know my posting isn't helping on this matter :D )

Or alternatively, how to make sure female posters don't get spammed to death.

Lets put on our thinking caps!

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that is the million dollar question(s)
 
Fantastic idea, dirtysecrets11!

A little black book just for phone sex has been long, long overdue! I hope this thread takes off and the masses sign up.

Come one, come all, share your addy and have an aural ball!

Thank you ;)

What client is everyone using? I know for some reason yahoo is big on Lit.
I myself am a Skype girl. :cool:

Great thread. I would be very new to this, but I really love the thought and would love to give it a go.

New is good, it's a fun thing with the right people. Thanks for dropping in

Very long overdue I mould love to join the black book pls lol

lol gah so many sexy accents! :cattail:

A nice idea indeed.

But how to make sure it doesn't become a sausage-fest indeed (and yes I know my posting isn't helping on this matter :D )

Or alternatively, how to make sure female posters don't get spammed to death.

Lets put on our thinking caps!

*crawls out from the pile of PMs*

It's not that bad...enthusiasm is good guys lol. But maybe we can try to keep a friendly chat going and keep it to the threads until there's a pretty clear 'green light' to take it to PMs.

Let's not scare or intimidate anyone with the Inbox spam death hug...

hmm do you drive a hard bargain?

Oh I'll show you a hard bargain ;)
 
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Good luck with this. Although I do not currently do any phone or audio, I have enjoyed it a lot in the past. And you are right that it is hit or miss.

There is no right or wrong, but there is match and mismatch. I always enjoyed some chat and friendly smalltalk too. It was always exciting to me to transition from that either gradually or abruptly into sextalk.

I enjoy using and hearing very dirty talk. As with cyberchat, one must be aware of certain "hot button" words that either excite or totally put off a partner.

I have used the voice and video features of yahoo with some success too.

Have fun and good luck. Perhaps I will join you sometime in the future.
 
Great thread! Thanks for sharing it!
I've been having issues with this too lately. I love chatting but I just don't feel it when I'm talking dirty on text... I need the voice interaction. Makes it much hotter!
I like to use Yahoo or Skype!
I love pm's also... But with the idea to move on.
Hit me up if you would like to get to know me better!
 
Thanks for This Great Thread DS...

This is a great thread, something I've really sought after.

I'm a married man so I sneak here. I've found Yahoo is the easiest chat application for me to use both text and voice as well as receive off-line messages. It makes for a great way to play at adultery and carry on a cyber affair.

I've used Skype a couple of times but since I'm on shared computer equipment I have to delete the app since no one else uses it and I don't want to raise any questions.

Being 47 I know I should be more modern but I still us a pay-as-you-go flip phone and my wife has access to it so phone sex is difficult for me. I've been thinking of getting a pay-as-you-go phone that I can hide at work so it's number is just like my Yahoo account, secret. Than I could use it for sexting, voice mail, and phone calls with other women who don't have to worry about my wife seeing the number.

So before I rattle on too long let me end this post with a thank you to all. I look forward to the advice here and hope to make a friend or two. I enjoy a build up to audio sex because it's so much hotter with a mutual connection for me and hopefully my female friend.

Best wishes to all. Let's enjoy this.
 
Ds

Thanks for starting this thread. I hope to get the pleasure of speaking with you one day! I'm an older gentleman, 42, who loves sex in all it's forms. However, I am similar to you in that I get extremely turned on by erotic sexual phone conversation mixed with pleasant, fun, relaxing conversation. I would love the opportunity to PM you my Skype to be added to your potential Skype black book and hopefull have the pleasure of spending some quality time speaking with you!

Keith
 
Hmmm

Hey DS...
I've never thought of phone sex as a fetish...
Hmmmm, I guess I'm guilty!
Wow, I've got another fetish! Amazing!
 
i also enjoy the personal connection of voice chat either yim, skype or phone. pm's welcome. im a 37 wm.
 
Great idea

DS,

great idea for a thread. As for me I am a man who likes the excitement of playing while I'm at work. I use Skype, yahoo, and the phone all from my smartphone. I find voice is the most erotic way to enjoy mutual masturbation. I would move up to cam with the right woman.

Also I agree with you about getting to know someone first by chatting a bit. Having an enjoyable conversation that can lead to something sexual is much more satisfying.
 
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