midwestyankee
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I don't like punishment. I like discipline. I hate it when my husband asks if I've been a bad girl and need a spanking. Hell no. I've not been a bad girl. I WANT a spanking though and if he wants to do it, let's just call it what we enjoy,how about that?
My sentiments, exactly. In my world, spankings happen when I want to give one and don't require any additional reason whatsoever. I also don't believe in doing the whole rules-and-punishments thing. That said, I sometimes like to establish short-term rules (i.e., today there will be no use of the word "I" until after we have finished dinner this evening; infractions will be dealt with by periods of complete silence) and the consequences are spelled out in advance. But this is usually more about Fun with Self-Discipline or Fun with Being Unreasonable just because I can.