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SashaGaga999

SashaGaga999

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I would say more than half of my various fantasies/fetishes involve some form of non-consent. I don't know why, but the idea of being somehow obliged to perform sexual acts on other people has always turned me on. Whether its because I am physically unable to resist or are choosing to perform under duress, something about it just gets me wet.

But I wonder what its like on the opposite side--guys, how many of you would say you have fantasies of fucking/getting with girls in non-consent type scenarios? Is it a big turn on for you, the idea of someone letting you fuck them not because they like you per se, but because they somehow are required to or have no say in the matter?

Perhaps this is too risque a topic?? Thoughts?
 
The topic is okay. It seems more women I chat with like the non consent scenarios then men do. It appears they can be uninhibited without owning up to the fact they like rough or kinky sex.
 
SashaGaga999 said:
I would say more than half of my various fantasies/fetishes involve some form of non-consent. I don't know why, but the idea of being somehow obliged to perform sexual acts on other people has always turned me on. Whether its because I am physically unable to resist or are choosing to perform under duress, something about it just gets me wet.

But I wonder what its like on the opposite side--guys, how many of you would say you have fantasies of fucking/getting with girls in non-consent type scenarios? Is it a big turn on for you, the idea of someone letting you fuck them not because they like you per se, but because they somehow are required to or have no say in the matter?

Perhaps this is too risque a topic?? Thoughts?
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Interesting thought...I have never been big in the non-consent but thinking if it was someone from a working environment that I didn't care for...then yes...some non-consent form would be fun.

I would enjoy submitting or being tortured by a female thought!!
 
I think both genders like letting go of the responsibility of what is happening to their body as long as what is happening finishes in great pleasure - for women who were raised to believe that sex was dirty, or not for nice girls it goes a bit deeper
 
I have found a niche writing Nonconsent/Reluctance stories for Lit. Most of the stories I write and those that I prefer to read involve a choice that must be made between two bad alternatives, one of which is sex. I don't care for the rapey kind of stories where physical force is used.

The stories I write differ slightly from my actual fantasies, however. In my head, I fantasize about a desperate woman offering sex as a way out of a predicament, such as a traffic ticket or getting caught shop lifting. But if I were to write it as a story, I would have the cop or store owner offering her the choice to put out or deal with the consequences of her actions.
 
My GF is very submissive and I enjoy being dominant. There is a trust and respect that goes with it. Non-Consent would make me feel like a rapist so I have no interest in that.
 
I can enjoy non consent fantasies from both angles, either being the person in control, or being the victim. My scenarios for non consent fantasies, most often involve more than one controller, and usually have quite a strong bdsm element.
 
I really enjoy the non consent stuff because I know the woman wants me to do it. I have had to girl friends who wanted me to do this for them so I did and it was amazing. It was planned out and we had safe words and everything In place so we were safe and enjoyed it. They both a Had a time frame at night for a week to leave their door unlocked so I could sneak in and "rape" them so there was the surprise element of not knowing when it was super hot for both of us
 
SashaGaga999 said:
I would say more than half of my various fantasies/fetishes involve some form of non-consent. I don't know why, but the idea of being somehow obliged to perform sexual acts on other people has always turned me on. Whether its because I am physically unable to resist or are choosing to perform under duress, something about it just gets me wet.

But I wonder what its like on the opposite side--guys, how many of you would say you have fantasies of fucking/getting with girls in non-consent type scenarios? Is it a big turn on for you, the idea of someone letting you fuck them not because they like you per se, but because they somehow are required to or have no say in the matter?

Perhaps this is too risque a topic?? Thoughts?
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I'm glad to see this thread. It brings up a question I have had for a long time. How do you make a non-consensual fetish/scenario happen? For example: if a woman says I want to have non-consensual sex, in effect she has given her consent, and it is not non-consensual. On the other hand, even if you know the woman wants to have non-consensual sex, if you do not in some way get her consent, it becomes rape. Which can create all kinds of legal problems for the man. I do understand the need/desire for non-consensual sex some women have, but how do you actually make it happen?
 
I like the tension and progression of those scenes more than anything else.
 
For me, the most erotic version of non-consent is when a woman physically wants me to fuck her, but believes that she shouldn't let me do it. Like, a married co-worker is reluctant to respond to my advances, but eventually submits to me. Or, a friend's wife/gf is hesitant to let me have her (perhaps despite his urging), but allows me to take her.

I have role played more violent non-consent scenarios with women before, as well. Those were incredibly hot... but, they weren't real acts of violence.

Kudos to you, Sasha, for putting yourself out there!
 
Yes, I have fantasies and have written non consent stories for women. I also have fantasies about being used, especially by a group of women, not really fem dom, but more fun use for their own pleasure.
 
When I was young. my main fantasy was pleasing a lady or a group of ladies. I had a common theme in my most stimulating fantasies of being forced to please a woman and whoever she choses.I now have similar fantasies about being ganged up on by a group of guys at the beach. or where ever. I look for scenes in porn of guys being forced. Or threatened to have sex. It really turns me on to think that while I am being forced I am getting to live out my fantasy of completely letting go and let my inner slut out.

The fantasy with women remains super hot. but the fantasy with guys adds a taboo naughtiness that resonates with me.
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I think this fantasy is either a) becoming more common or b) becoming more acceptable.. I too have this fantasy and its certainly developed and pushed itself as time has gone on x
 
SashaGaga999 said:
I would say more than half of my various fantasies/fetishes involve some form of non-consent. I don't know why, but the idea of being somehow obliged to perform sexual acts on other people has always turned me on. Whether its because I am physically unable to resist or are choosing to perform under duress, something about it just gets me wet.

But I wonder what its like on the opposite side--guys, how many of you would say you have fantasies of fucking/getting with girls in non-consent type scenarios? Is it a big turn on for you, the idea of someone letting you fuck them not because they like you per se, but because they somehow are required to or have no say in the matter?

Perhaps this is too risque a topic?? Thoughts?
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Over 90% of the stories i read here are in the non-consent/reluctance category.... i'm not a guy into inflicting pain, but it is very erotic to me to have a woman service me to pay the rent... help her hubby... get out of some kind of trouble.... pay other debts etc.....
 
Sasha,
This is definitely a fantasy of mine. It's very sexy to think that you're in complete control of someone that you're with, and not just a submissive/dom relationship. you're so in control that they are letting you fuck them because they either have to or are unable to say no. It's a transfer of power and very sexy!
 
rc_in33 said:
Interesting thought...I have never been big in the non-consent but thinking if it was someone from a working environment that I didn't care for...then yes...some non-consent form would be fun.

I would enjoy submitting or being tortured by a female thought!!
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Hmmm interesting reply. Do you mean to say that you would be more apt to want to put a female co-worker (i.e. someone who you have only a passing/superficial relationship with) into a non-consent scenario, than someone you are closer with??
 
Can't say that turns me on. Personality I guess. Many times I am forceful and rough. Nothing wrong if you like it.
 
I rather be on the other side I really don't like non-consent with women unless she is making me
 
BiTodd said:
... I had a common theme in my most stimulating fantasies of being forced to please a woman and whoever she choses.I now have similar fantasies about being ganged up on by a group of guys at the beach. or where ever. I look for scenes in porn of guys being forced. Or threatened to have sex. It really turns me on to think that while I am being forced I am getting to live out my fantasy of completely letting go and let my inner slut out
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That's been my experience, too.
 
Sasha,

I love that you posted this... I've occasionally had a fantasy about being the aggressor but I actually really get turned on when I fantasize about being completely dominated and forced to pleasure a woman. I'm thinking about being tied up, fucked in my ass, having a woman straddle my face...maybe even being peed on...

Can't believe that I just admitted that..
 
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