Stella_Omega
No Gentleman
- Joined
- Jul 14, 2005
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I love cumming, and I LOVE to make people come. I', pretty good at it, I think.
However, after doing this thing called sex a whole lot I've learned that 'keep going until she cums' is a good way to chase a lady right out of my bed.
When the lady expresses doubts that she will cum-- I believe her. She knows her body much better than I do. What I like to do, in a BDSM context, is say something like; "That's fine. We're going to do this activity for a half hour, here's the clock. I don't care if you cum or not, I just want to play with your clit for one half hour. In fact, if you do cum? You'd better hope you can hold off because I won't stop untill the time is up, and you know how hard it is to handle someone playing with your clit when you've just come..."
Takes all the onus off of her, you see. My stated goal is to enjoy myself, with no particular outcome demanded of her. I like the idea of her hanging on while the hands creep around the dial, too...
However, after doing this thing called sex a whole lot I've learned that 'keep going until she cums' is a good way to chase a lady right out of my bed.
When the lady expresses doubts that she will cum-- I believe her. She knows her body much better than I do. What I like to do, in a BDSM context, is say something like; "That's fine. We're going to do this activity for a half hour, here's the clock. I don't care if you cum or not, I just want to play with your clit for one half hour. In fact, if you do cum? You'd better hope you can hold off because I won't stop untill the time is up, and you know how hard it is to handle someone playing with your clit when you've just come..."
Takes all the onus off of her, you see. My stated goal is to enjoy myself, with no particular outcome demanded of her. I like the idea of her hanging on while the hands creep around the dial, too...