s'lara
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FungiUg said:Two hands? Clapping?
Fungi ... this needed a spew alert. i swear.
lara
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FungiUg said:Two hands? Clapping?
Pure said:Hi James,
I do have a _Gray's Anatomy_, and the 'ring' of bone is called the "pelvic outlet". It has a front-back measurement and a traverse one. The front back one has a little 'give' since it's the coccyx (tailbone) at the back. Average figures (Gray's 15th ed, p. 152)
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These numbers agree with my 'beer bottle' proposal for the male (that that's about the max for something rigid), and the experience of double "fist "(palms together, cupped, fingers bunch and extended straight) for the female.
Check this stuff out.
s'lara said:Fungi ... this needed a spew alert. i swear.
lara
Pure said:Well, James, I take it the dr said, regarding anal/rectal penetration:
1The pelvic outlet, bone ring, and its size is unimportant.
2Presumably it's all skin musle etc. involved in such penetration
3Hence the same sizes are possible for both men and women, AND
4There's no real limit to size, though things tear eventually.
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Rather than go on without more data, I'm going to leave aside the 'no difference' claim.
I agree an anus can stretch from here to Chicago.
So if he's talking very shallow, say a couple ins. I can see it.
I say you can't go, say 6 ins into a vagina or rectum without the pelvic outlet coming into play: I.e. you pass through it.
Please note that your dr contradicts your woman authority, and her 15 in circumference figure, which she gave as a max. (which agrees with Gray, as we've seen) (I leave aside the 'stretching of the pelvic outlet during childbirth)
Are you saying there's no max for deep penetration and that, say the average woman could take say 18 in circ-- 6 in diameter?
And that you, or a male could too?
I simply dont believe it, but I have no new data. You might try sitting on a 1.5 l wine bottle to test your theory--- or check your male friends and see about a 5 in diameter rigid penetrating object.
Have you ever had a hand up another's ass, btw? Is your hand bunched somewhere around 10 in circ?
J.
Ebonyfire said:I saw a film where this bald headed guy put his whole well lubed head in this woman's pussy.
I thought I had seen everything, but this even had Me speechless!
Anyone else seen it?
Is this an actual film or is it something that can be e-mailed? Even if it's a fake, I'm curious!James G 5 said:Yep, I have a copy...I showed it to a few eople, 2 medical people, and 3 that make films, and they agreed it was a clever fake
As the women who saw it said "At least we certainly HOPE so!"
Etoile said:Is this an actual film or is it something that can be e-mailed? Even if it's a fake, I'm curious!
Etoile said:Is this an actual film or is it something that can be e-mailed? Even if it's a fake, I'm curious!
mskittykatt said:i don't even know where to start. this topic has become a two headed monster in my mind. i've been fisted twice in my life, once was almost exactly as described above... slow, gentle, loving not to mention by a woman with very small hands!
the second was against my will and was *not* any of those things, it was the worst thing i've ever been through.
i've done the therepy, and groups... they've done all they can. anyway the point is, i'm in a pretty okay place with sex and men most of the time now, what i'm worried about is exploring this after, without triggering a flashback or anxiety.
there are some things i can do, make sure the room is brightly lit and make sure he never stops talking to me... are there any other suggestions?
i guess the main reason this is so important to me, is that i have healed a lot, and i want to make a new, happy memory with this and not always have that one experiance come to mind when i hear the term fisting.
he's taken enough of my life... i'm not giving him the rest!
Limbhugger said:I thought this post was definately worthy of a rebirth for all who may be curious. It degenerates into a bit of BS'ing by the end but the original post is very good.
LH
Esclava said:I agree, LH. Then why don't we take it back to the original premise. I've seen the question asked, at least, twice; but only remember seeing one answer.
Any others out there with personal a self fisting story to share?
From personal experience, all I can say is it is an incredible adventure into self loving and give a whole new meaning to "masturbation".
Esclava
rosco rathbone said:Fisting has been on my bean extra much lately.
I read a Pat Califa essay about her fisting a guy, with commentary on his "soft, sucking gut" around her forearm, and his splayed, trusting openness. Sometimes the homos are so bold it blows my fuse. I can't picture me having the cojones to do that to someone in the ass, much less have it done to me. But I really want to vagina fist a lover. It just seems heavy as hell.
Netzach said:What's neato keeno, having done this with both orifices, is how remarkably alike they feel around your forearm. The ass I fisted was that of a very beautiful CD, it was really easy for me to lose track of her cock as a cock at all.
Limbhugger said:Well I will try Esclava.
Do I understan you correctly that this something you have done to yourself? As in through masturbation but not with a partner? Or both? Just curious is all.
<snip>To know the feeling of being completely consumed by her. To achieve such a difficult physical task. To marvel and my own willingness to stretch every limit in an effort to please her and to show her my love of and need for her. The entire idea of that just makes me soar.
Just a comment - my husband has huge hands, and his fists are definately larger than my daughters head at birth, and she had a large head.Etoile said:(oh goody, I get to talk fisting!)
No, the depth of your vagina does not mean no fisting for you. Remember, you can have a baby (unless you've been told you can't by a doctor, which you didn't mention so I assume that's not the case), and a baby's head is bigger than anybody's fist. If you want to, you can. As per usual, the key is communication - your partner should never force it. If he's decided you're going to try fisting, that's his decision as your top, but once the scene is underway you should be the one in control. He can encourage you to relax and submit to the penetration - and you may need to open your own mind about how much of this type of pain you can take, if you're finding it hurts - but you are the one who should ultimately say stop if it gets to that point.
short_circutz said:Fisting has intrigued me for quite some time now. <snip>
I've experimented on myself with various insertions. Attempted self fisting once, but I'm a little on the large size, and don't quite have the flexibility to (
I would like to attempt to be on the receiving end of anal fisting once I find the "right" person.