ToPleaseHim
JtohisPB/Brooke :)
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- Dec 9, 2008
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I am disheartened by the use of "vanilla" as an insult. I think that kinky people, especially, should appreciate the concept of different strokes for different folks.
I discovered BDSM at lit. That was several years ago, and I have done some exploring, and am now in a lovely relationship that I would, like Elle, describe as BDSM lite. It's perfect for us and I know that not one person who isn't close enough to us to have incredibly intimate chats would ever suspect we are kinky. I expect this is the norm for most. Few of us, regardless of our flavor of sexuality, wear it on our sleeves. (I would not judge wearing it proudly on one's sleeve, either. I would find myself intrigued by a person who does so.)
I discovered BDSM at lit. That was several years ago, and I have done some exploring, and am now in a lovely relationship that I would, like Elle, describe as BDSM lite. It's perfect for us and I know that not one person who isn't close enough to us to have incredibly intimate chats would ever suspect we are kinky. I expect this is the norm for most. Few of us, regardless of our flavor of sexuality, wear it on our sleeves. (I would not judge wearing it proudly on one's sleeve, either. I would find myself intrigued by a person who does so.)