Lord Pmann
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On second thought ....
I didn't realize I'd be going up against Suz_anne.
Be careful. She's a dick puncher.
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On second thought ....
I didn't realize I'd be going up against Suz_anne.
It's early spring. Signs are everywhere, crocus, tulips, robins, green grass. Spring will not be denied and we are thankful for that. But what about that same trait in a person. The "I won't be denied" trait. Is that such a good trait? Something at all costs? No matter what? Is this a trait you want in a partner or friend, do you some that can't take no for an answer? While we admire that approach in business it's a crime in relationships. Why do we accept it in some situations?
It's early spring. Signs are everywhere, crocus, tulips, robins, green grass. Spring will not be denied and we are thankful for that. But what about that same trait in a person. The "I won't be denied" trait. Is that such a good trait? Something at all costs? No matter what? Is this a trait you want in a partner or friend, do you some that can't take no for an answer? While we admire that approach in business it's a crime in relationships. Why do we accept it in some situations?
I don't appreciate this 'trait' at all. People who bulldozer through life with only their own wishes in mind tend to overrun people crossing their paths.
In business as in private life better ideas as theirs get lost due to their 'bulldozering', 'compromises' are always to their benefit, they lack empathy, mask their egoism by saying they are confident, and so on.
Why do we accept it in some situations? Sometimes they do have the better idea, better solution or we have to obey because we are to low in the hierarchy, or we are worn out and don't have the strength for yet another fight. Or we simply love them.
I was once asked in an interview and the guy asked "Sorry, I gotta ask this...if you were an animal what kind of animal would you be and why?"
I immediately shot back with "I'd be a bald eagle. Because when I take off I FLY."
I didn't get the job and the place closed down a few months later.
I interviewed someone recently and asked the animal question. He said he would be a snake.
I did not recommend him for the position.
The "I won't be denied" trait. Is that such a good trait? Something at all costs? No matter what? Is this a trait you want in a partner or friend, do you some that can't take no for an answer?
It'd be a lion for me. If I was placed under the sorting hat I'd be in Gryffindor house.
Good call. Snakes & snake like people are deeply envious, most often for no reason & can cause all sorts of damage.
it depends on perspective. If you study tribal medicines, snake medicine is often a rare and desired trait. These are the people who readily accept change and do not judge position as the highest reason that a person holds value. They tend to seek continuous improvement. Only in a negative context would this answer have indicated a reluctance to change.
That being said, maybe the guy watched the new Jungle Book trailer in the interview and really had nothing else on his brain. The snake is pretty powerful in that movie.. lol
Persistence is good. Stepping over people to get what you want is bad. I don't like that.
Medicine is one thing. That's an example of making lemonade with lemons. Making a negative into a positive. Someone with great knowledge & skill can do the same with plant toxins such as belladonna & even datura.
What I speak to is the character of an entity. What is the cause of a snakes venom? What is the character of a creature that is capable of injecting poison before it has hatched from it's egg? What is the character of a creature that can spit it's poison into the eyes of someone or something that is "perceived" as a threat? What is the character of a person who would willfully betray another who supported, protected & stood up for them? Why is the creature that enticed Eve to go against the Lord's wishes & eat the apple depicted as a serpent? What not a wittle puddy tat or a wascally wabbit, critters that don't inspire feelings of loathing?
Why did I even get into this?
Ah! Missed it then. I guess that'll learn me to next time read your mind instead of your post.lol.. I was discussing spirit animals.. that was the original question!
It's early spring. Signs are everywhere, crocus, tulips, robins, green grass. Spring will not be denied and we are thankful for that.
Absolutely this. Not being willing to compromise or hear the other person is unattractive in any surroundings. To me, it demonstrates low emotional intelligence.
I agree that persistence is good but isn't there a line where it just becomes annoying? That mosquito buzzing you, that dude is persistent but yet annoying as hell.
I agree that persistence is good but isn't there a line where it just becomes annoying? That mosquito buzzing you, that dude is persistent but yet annoying as hell.
In a partner or friend, an "I won't be denied" attitude might be playful, and appealing, but it can also be a precursor to more serious circumstances were that will, physical or emotional, is forced, and someone feels trapped or gets hurt. We here all see many references to a dark side in sexual activities and personas, the appeal of dominance and the effect many feel and enjoy when it is exercised. But we also know that abusive relationships take many forms. Empathy and emotional intelligence really would make the difference in how this trait was demonstrated and handled. Without that, I couldn't see a friendship or relationship continuing.
Did you all spring ahead, well all "us" Americans, anyway. Is there value in this yo-yo time ritual? Ahead, back, should there be just one time. Will you take advantage of the "Extra" hour of daylight today? Or does life march on without regard to daylight or time?
I think it's a useless endeavor. Like you asked, life marches on regardless. I'm awake before sunrise anyway so it doesn't matter what the clock says. I read a while back that this was started to facilitate business. Whatever.
In my personal life, I've seen it matter in sports. If you golf, throw a baseball, or run, it allows you to still do these things even though the rest of the world expects other things to be accomplished.
Did you all spring ahead, well all "us" Americans, anyway. Is there value in this yo-yo time ritual? Ahead, back, should there be just one time. Will you take advantage of the "Extra" hour of daylight today? Or does life march on without regard to daylight or time?