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I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!
 
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I think just like a lot of sexual things it depends on the person. Myself I would much rather have the girl keep stroking, it would prolong the orgasm for me, and it's just sexy thinking that she's helping pump the cum out ;)
 
Sunsport said:
I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!
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I like to continue to be jerked off until I'm completely done cumming. After that, it starts to get a little sore. As for clean-up, I once had a woman use a warm, moist, soft facecloth to tenderly clean me up, and it was such a turn-on to be so pampered. The only better way for her to have done it would have been for her to have licked me clean, I think.
 
Personally, I like it when she feels my cock getting thicker knowing I'm cumin soon, then using one hand to squeeze it by the base then use the other hand to wank it really fast until I explode then not stop until I can't take it
 
iamshaun said:
Personally, I like it when she feels my cock getting thicker knowing I'm cumin soon, then using one hand to squeeze it by the base then use the other hand to wank it really fast until I explode then not stop until I can't take it
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that's a lot of fun. The two handed handjob.
 
Thanks for the input, from the responses so far it sounds like most guys do like to be stroked while they're ejaculating. I never did really understand why my ex made me stop when he came, but regardless he still seemed to have really strong orgasms that way. It was like he was stopping right at what's supposed to be the best part!
 
Sunsport said:
Thanks for the input, from the responses so far it sounds like most guys do like to be stroked while they're ejaculating. I never did really understand why my ex made me stop when he came, but regardless he still seemed to have really strong orgasms that way. It was like he was stopping right at what's supposed to be the best part!
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I concur with u...he was making u stop right at one of the best parts! By everybody is different, I for one get a lot of enjoyment out of where I cum too...it is very sensual to cum on you!
 
When I was younger I was very sensitive after cumming. I still wanted to be jacked until I finished cumming, but it was uncomfortable afterward. Now, I want to be jacked before, during, and after, until I have finished all convulsions, and even then some more, especially if the other person gets off on cum, and loves seeing it all over my belly, my cock, and enjoys seeing it whipped to a froth. I can enjoy them keeping on until they are happy and ready to stop.
 
Bigbobnc said:
I think just like a lot of sexual things it depends on the person.
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Pretty much this.

My husband gets super-sensitive immediately post-orgasm, to the point in which he's almost ticklish. But again, just ask your partner what his preferences are, and you'll be fine.
 
no right or wrong way to finish...

Well correction, the right way is too actually finish it, wrong way is to stop and leave him hanging...lol, no pun intended. But you can stroke him with a reverse grip ( thumb towards his body) and as you pull up give a twist a little and slide back down and repeat. Or just do a basic hold and stroke (thumb up towards ceiling) and move up and down. I like to add teasing, licking lips while you stare at his penis. Or make like your going to suck it but then not. Like open your mouth and go towards it but then don't suck it. Using your other hands to gentle massage his testicles will be a nice addition to your stroking, but some guys are super sensitive and might not like their family jewels from being tugged on. Anal play is another area best "asked" before you decide to put a finger in his derier. Again some love it others refuse it. As for the finish, you can let him unload on your face, chest or in your mouth. I prefer never to waste it, so for me, I either lick my hands clean or his stomach. But a straight shot into your mouth will save on clean up, especially if your in a car. But just some suggestions, basically different strokes for different folks. Lol talk it over and see what's preferred, gets rid of the guess work. Hope I helped a little. Good luck.
 
ErikaWyte said:
Well correction, the right way is too actually finish it, wrong way is to stop and leave him hanging...lol, no pun intended. But you can stroke him with a reverse grip ( thumb towards his body) and as you pull up give a twist a little and slide back down and repeat. Or just do a basic hold and stroke (thumb up towards ceiling) and move up and down. I like to add teasing, licking lips while you stare at his penis. Or make like your going to suck it but then not. Like open your mouth and go towards it but then don't suck it. Using your other hands to gentle massage his testicles will be a nice addition to your stroking, but some guys are super sensitive and might not like their family jewels from being tugged on. Anal play is another area best "asked" before you decide to put a finger in his derier. Again some love it others refuse it. As for the finish, you can let him unload on your face, chest or in your mouth. I prefer never to waste it, so for me, I either lick my hands clean or his stomach. But a straight shot into your mouth will save on clean up, especially if your in a car. But just some suggestions, basically different strokes for different folks. Lol talk it over and see what's preferred, gets rid of the guess work. Hope I helped a little. Good luck.
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Excellent attention to detail, Erika.
You would make a wonderful sex partner.
 
My all time favorite.

BJ finish or Deep throating just as I start to cum.
 
Sunsport said:
How should I finish a handjob?
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Sunsport said:
Thanks for the input, from the responses so far it sounds like most guys do like to be stroked while they're ejaculating. I never did really understand why my ex made me stop when he came, but regardless he still seemed to have really strong orgasms that way. It was like he was stopping right at what's supposed to be the best part!
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Depends on the person you're with. You can't go by what most do or don't do. While some guys like to continue to be stroked I get too sensitive and can only take gentle caressing at that point. I prefer being gently sucked at that point. However, you should go by the person you're with. Exploring is part of the fun! Try things out and see how he responds. Talking also works. If he doesn't appreciate you asking about how to make things better for him then that's his problem.

ErikaWyte said:
I prefer never to waste it, so for me, I either lick my hands clean or his stomach. But a straight shot into your mouth will save on clean up, especially if your in a car. But just some suggestions, basically different strokes for different folks.
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Excellent suggestions in my opinion but "different strokes" is the key. Do what works best for the both of you.
 
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I am a bit sensitive after I come, so I prefer that she just hold me and very slowly stroke me. I know every guy is different, but I love handjobs ( they sure are better than when I do it myself) and enjoy it when the women starts slowly and goes faster as I get more excited. Lotion makes it feel much better btw.
 
I'm the only guy I've been with, so I can only speak for myself. The tip often (but not always) gets extremely sensitive immediately before the beginning of orgasm, and it can be unpleasant to receive friction at this time. Even when I'm very sensitive, it still feels very good to have short strokes just below of the tip. This needs to start at the very beginning of the orgasm, and can continue beyond the orgasm. Some squeezing of the tip is often okay, but friction often doesn't feel good.
 
Sounds like your former partner had a problem with being extra sensitive after he began to ejaculate.. a lot of guys enjoy the continuation until he stops cumming, but I guess like most females, every guy has there own personal likes and dislikes... In the end, any guy who is fortunate to have your hands on his cock, is enjoying your attention and wanting to make them feel great.... :)
 
DrHappy said:
The tip often (but not always) gets extremely sensitive immediately before the beginning of orgasm, and it can be unpleasant to receive friction at this time. Even when I'm very sensitive, it still feels very good to have short strokes just below of the tip.
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I'm similar. Gently stroking the shaft is usually good.
 
Sunsport said:
I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!
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There's no one answer. Everybody is different. Some might like you to keep stroking or milking and others might just want you to sort of squeeze (but not too hard). For me, a little squeeze seems to intensify the feeling. Personally, if I'm getting/or giving myself a handjob, I like lubrication. This can come from pussy juice, saliva, or a commercial lube. In my opinion, it just feels better and more like a real fuck or blowjob.
 
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