Good luck my friend! I am neither submissive nor a woman so this is not my cup of tea, but you sound competent and "real" and we both know that is a rare combination here in Lit Land.
I've always wanted to find someone like minded to "share" a submissive with occasionally. While I am no AP English student, I can hold my own.
Let me know if you are interested...
"We meet ourselves time and again in a thousand disguises on the path of life" Carl Jung