Once more with feeling.

Thanks morninwould, you've always been very,erm, complimentary towards me, so thanks for that.



Thanks sofiredog, take care and thank you for always being nice to me.



Haha, I'm sure you look fine in the mirror mustang :D anyway I would never dream of saying anything negative to someone about their appearance. Thanks for regularly commenting on my thread.



Chi I was never that abusive towards you ;). Thanks you for supporting me on here and always being nice. I will miss your cat avatar :cattail:



Thanks Muff, you know that I think highly of you and the way you speak to people on here :D.






I guess I'll answer these things together. I agree with what muffalo said. I know you didn't mean fat. You meant weird. I never used to show my stomach because I knew it looked weird, probably because my abdominal muscles got ripped to shreds, quite literally. it's taken me 2 years of yoga and pilates and massaging and torturing myself to make me feel remotely secure about that area again. I'm sorry that not every part of my body conforms to some photo-shopped ideal, and I should have hidden it and just shown my ass.

The thing is though, that I'm not just a pair of fucking ass cheeks and after a while I started to think that maybe it would be okay to show the rest of me, but that has just left me feeling embarrassed about myself.

fuck that guy, i hope HE leaves. There is NOTHING wrong with any part of your body. I'd hate to see you leave, I love your sarcastic banter even if I rarely get to take part in it because of work.
 
the only thing wrong with your body right now is its not on top of me this morning :)





that would be a thanksgiving indeed :)
 
The thing is though, that I'm not just a pair of fucking ass cheeks and after a while I started to think that maybe it would be okay to show the rest of me, but that has just left me feeling embarrassed about myself.

No you are soooo much more more then that!

And I won't stand here pretending you are 100% perfect all over,
But I will stand here saying, Neither am I!
And neither is anyone else here.

We all have some part of our body we wish we could change,
a part that we would like to set back in time 5 years or more.

Nobody is perfect, and nobody has to be!

Please know that overall, you're still an A++!!!
 
No you are soooo much more more then that!

And I won't stand here pretending you are 100% perfect all over,
But I will stand here saying, Neither am I!
And neither is anyone else here.

We all have some part of our body we wish we could change,
a part that we would like to set back in time 5 years or more.

Nobody is perfect, and nobody has to be!

Please know that overall, you're still an A++!!!

this. this is worded pretty much perfectly, well done.
 
:rolleyes:

Keep my fingers crossed...

Fuck, find a new porn sight or something. Just don't waste your time here.

Oh, I'm not going anywhere. And my time here is not wasted. :D

Stop crying dude, she did not leave yet.:cool:

I guess I'll answer these things together. I agree with what muffalo said. I know you didn't mean fat. You meant weird. I never used to show my stomach because I knew it looked weird, probably because my abdominal muscles got ripped to shreds, quite literally. it's taken me 2 years of yoga and pilates and massaging and torturing myself to make me feel remotely secure about that area again. I'm sorry that not every part of my body conforms to some photo-shopped ideal, and I should have hidden it and just shown my ass.

The thing is though, that I'm not just a pair of fucking ass cheeks and after a while I started to think that maybe it would be okay to show the rest of me, but that has just left me feeling embarrassed about myself.

I did not know about your insecurities. And honestly, I take no pleasure in offending people. Specially not someone who selflessly shares her beautiful body with us, to make our boring evenings fun. Besides, I like not only your buttocks- I like everything about you.

I Just wish I could take back that comment. In fact, why don't I edit my post and erase that part. Then we can pretend like I've never ignorantly commented on your stomach. :)
 
Coming from one who has lurked amongst this thread for a long time I have always been in awe of the TOTAL package that is the young lady going by the name of "Connubium". From her gift of words, her sharp sense of humor at times, her tenderness displayed at others and without a doubt a gorgeous body that any person would be lucky to lay down next to if for nothing than just to cuddle if she does leave I'll surely miss her! To Connubium let me say directly to you for your efforts in restoring what must have be a painful injury no matter how it occured to your abdomin let me tell you how impressed I am with all your hard work and willingness to do so. Whether or not you choose to leave is as we know your decision and yours alone but please know like many others I willl miss you for all the reasons I stated at the top of this paragraph.

Thanks for sharing yourself with us!!!
 
Hey Nube. You know how I feel, so I won't prattle on. If you go, all the best to you and yours. You're one cool fucking broad.:heart:
 
fuck that guy, i hope HE leaves. There is NOTHING wrong with any part of your body. I'd hate to see you leave, I love your sarcastic banter even if I rarely get to take part in it because of work.

Thanks Nitrile

No you are soooo much more more then that!

And I won't stand here pretending you are 100% perfect all over,
But I will stand here saying, Neither am I!
And neither is anyone else here.

We all have some part of our body we wish we could change,
a part that we would like to set back in time 5 years or more.

Nobody is perfect, and nobody has to be!

Please know that overall, you're still an A++!!!

Thanks kudram, I know what you're saying. I think I have realised that I had no business doing this in the first place, I was leaving myself open to criticism which I suppose I deserve. At the end of the day this isn't about who I am it's about the way I look and these days the normal standard of beauty seems to be perfection and I can't bring that to the table. I know all of my flaws and I shouldn't have displayed them so fucking brazenly. It should make me feel empowered not ashamed. Oh well.
 
Thanks Nitrile



Thanks kudram, I know what you're saying. I think I have realised that I had no business doing this in the first place, I was leaving myself open to criticism which I suppose I deserve. At the end of the day this isn't about who I am it's about the way I look and these days the normal standard of beauty seems to be perfection and I can't bring that to the table. I know all of my flaws and I shouldn't have displayed them so fucking brazenly. It should make me feel empowered not ashamed. Oh well.

How many perfect ampic threads are there? that don't prove to be fake in the end.

And how many ampic threads are there with a big fanbase?

I think question number two will result in a bigger number.

Perfection gets booooooring!
It's why so many people prefer a home cooked meal over the "perfectly balanced" pre-made one.

I'm here because I like your flavor, the whole of it.
 
Coming from one who has lurked amongst this thread for a long time I have always been in awe of the TOTAL package that is the young lady going by the name of "Connubium". From her gift of words, her sharp sense of humor at times, her tenderness displayed at others and without a doubt a gorgeous body that any person would be lucky to lay down next to if for nothing than just to cuddle if she does leave I'll surely miss her! To Connubium let me say directly to you for your efforts in restoring what must have be a painful injury no matter how it occured to your abdomin let me tell you how impressed I am with all your hard work and willingness to do so. Whether or not you choose to leave is as we know your decision and yours alone but please know like many others I willl miss you for all the reasons I stated at the top of this paragraph.

Thanks for sharing yourself with us!!!

I didn't suffer an injury, thank goodness, I suffered from hypermesis for the first half of my pregnancy meaning that I didn't gain any weight and I was already underweight, then during the second half when I was better my kid grew rapidly and as a result my stomach muscles basically just tore because of the pressure on them. I can tell ya'll that now because I'm going so who cares if that suddenly makes you find me repulsive. Thanks for noticing me and for the kind words.

Hey Nube. You know how I feel, so I won't prattle on. If you go, all the best to you and yours. You're one cool fucking broad.:heart:

thanks Adre :heart:
 
The pleasure has always been mine. You are and always will be a very amazing woman and I'm truly blessed to have aquired your friendship.
 
You have a very beautiful body and nothing to be ashamed of for sure. To much pressure is but on girls these days to look like perfect models. You work hard and take great care of yourself and should be proud. I will certainly miss you if you leave, but if you must I wish you the best.
 
I will miss you very much! Multiple hugs for you.

Bye Thomas, thanks for always calling me pretty :) (when you used to do that)

You are a real life beauty, sad to see you go.

Bye MM, hope you continue to have fun in your own thread

The pleasure has always been mine. You are and always will be a very amazing woman and I'm truly blessed to have aquired your friendship.

:kiss:

You have a very beautiful body and nothing to be ashamed of for sure. To much pressure is but on girls these days to look like perfect models. You work hard and take great care of yourself and should be proud. I will certainly miss you if you leave, but if you must I wish you the best.


Yep there is, unfortunately it seems that any imperfections women have do get pointed out and we do get scrutinized for them, people have acclimatised to images of perfection.

In my experience those that want perfect women tend not to actually get laid to often though;). Thanks for your comments.:)
 
Wait..what'd I miss? Conn, are you bouncing? Somebody mess with my Conn?
 
Ok. Caught up. Conn, you already know what I think of you. There's no need to rehash it. While your body is so beautiful, your mind has always been my favorite part.
 
You are definitely one of my favorites here on this site so it'll be a shame if you actually leave us. You're a serious babe and you actually have something to say. I do hope you reconsider. If not, thanks for the good times. xo
 
Oh, I'm not going anywhere. And my time here is not wasted. :D

Stop crying dude, she did not leave yet.:cool:



I did not know about your insecurities. And honestly, I take no pleasure in offending people. Specially not someone who selflessly shares her beautiful body with us, to make our boring evenings fun. Besides, I like not only your buttocks- I like everything about you.

I Just wish I could take back that comment. In fact, why don't I edit my post and erase that part. Then we can pretend like I've never ignorantly commented on your stomach. :)



What does it matter if you knew that I was insecure or not? It doesn't change the fact the meant it, does it? Go and erase it if that makes you feel better. To quote meddlesome, I can't erase it from my hippocampus.

Anyway,I'm sorry you felt the need to make that comment and I'm sorry you feel the need to reply to my friends in such a patronizing, condescending way.

I'm sure that you commented because you are an Adonis who is used to cavorting with models so your comment was probably out of ignorance of the way that real bodies look. Please don't reply anymore, the damage is done and I'd really like to just say my goodbyes to the guys who I've got to know a little bit.

I'll leave you with this pic, I hope it's good enough for you...

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdjodbm3Yi1qa83gdo1_400.jpg
 
This thread isn't and shouldn't be for anyone but you. You are a beautiful person, your pictures are only window dressing and only begin to capture a hint of what makes you so. If the thread isn't helpful to you, then I understand the need for it to go. No matter how many people tell you you're beautiful, you have to believe it for it to mean anything.

But regardless, you are beautiful, no matter what you might currently think... ;)
 
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