How to indulge when you have a female partner?

grant8064 said:

Hi,

My first original thread on here so be nice...please!

Basically I am male and have a long term g/f who I am very into (we're planning buying a house together, kids, the whole shebang).

I have previously enjoyed wearing panties, stockings and lately have become more into sissyfication...no harm in that obviously.

My issue is that i'd like to get more into this aspect of my sexual life as it turns me on so much. I've sucked a male stranger before a few years ago and my g/f is aware but when I first told her I shrugged it off as 'an experience that wasn't for me' in part so she wouldn't be put off me.

I'm now in a position where I fantasise about sucking dick, swallowing and receiving anal almost daily and can't decide whether to keep it to myself or not? I'm very happy with my g/f and basically don't want to scare her off now things are going so well in our life together...frankly saying you fantasise about dressing up and taking dick is not the usual for someone to hear.

I'm also very keen not to cheat on her for what it's worth as, basically, I am not a cheater.

So what should I do guys?

Any advise is gratefully welcomed.

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teddie_grl said:

You need to talk with your GF. no way should you get a house, have kids and try and hide your feelings, doesn't work out.

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grant8064 said:

Thanks for the advice...I agree it's something I need to think about, hence my thread here.

The main thing I want to make is a considered choice about what to do so any further views would be good?

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