dacoach44
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6-8 a week?
Not bad, I assume a typo. My wife and I were in the same rut. She had menopause as an excuse, tho. Had more fun on PC. But then, she died suddenly and I found a new world of sissies. At my age, there are PLENTY of available women, if you got an income and some health. There are prolly plenty of gay boys, but I dont want that. I found sissies, and love them. So, I got a dame (way too soon) but travel some and round up a sissy or CD date. Now, I have a date to BE a sissy, cant wait. All I can say is I will NEVER marry again, and I have turned down 3.
A great thread. There's comfort in numbers, eh? Like many of you, it's nice to know we are not alone. But it does impact us. I'm 59. In our prime we only had sex maybe 4-6 times a month, that's just barely once a week. Now it's more like 6-8 times per week. I have found comfort with erotic chat, phone sex, cam sex. But now I wonder how all that is having a negative impact on me during the odd times we do have sex. The women here at lit are so incredibly sexy and confident in their sexuality. They know what they want and what they like... or at least they know what they want to explore.
I rarely pursue sex with wife... why bother if it will only end in rejection. When she needs it, it's often a rather cool invitation like, "Would you like to come to bed with me tonight." Which in my mind feels similar to... would you like to have the fish or the chicken for dinner. When what i really want is a goddamn steak. Juicy. Tender. Bursting with flavor. Succulent. I want to savor every scent and every bite.
I don't masturbate a lot. I'm hard a lot, thanks to a few Lit ladies who reach out. But I mostly enjoy the sensations of being aroused. About once a week I'll actually get around to an orgasm. Our lack of engagement is affecting my sensitivity, both physical and emotional. And now even when we have sex, I'm thinking about or wishing it was really hot and erotic like what I've become accustomed to via chat and porn. Perhaps a classic case of porn addiction?
Not bad, I assume a typo. My wife and I were in the same rut. She had menopause as an excuse, tho. Had more fun on PC. But then, she died suddenly and I found a new world of sissies. At my age, there are PLENTY of available women, if you got an income and some health. There are prolly plenty of gay boys, but I dont want that. I found sissies, and love them. So, I got a dame (way too soon) but travel some and round up a sissy or CD date. Now, I have a date to BE a sissy, cant wait. All I can say is I will NEVER marry again, and I have turned down 3.