gamegamale
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It's important to realise that there are women in the same position perhaps not as many but we do exist. When two people have been married a long time and the sex drives become very different it is very difficult to know how to deal with it. In my case my older husband has been losing interest in sex and it's become very infrequent and predictable. Whereas for me as his sex drive has diminished mine has grown perhaps frustration I don't know. At least I have this safe place to come where I can talk openly and honestly about my situation as it is so hard in real life to talk to friends and family about the subject even difficult to talk to my husband about it. Other than cheating which I feel is not an option for me there is very little you can do about it if you wish to keep a marriage in tact you just have to get on with life make the most of it and make the most of your fantasies. Xx
It's an unfortunate situation all around. Despite the difficulty it may be worth taking the chance and discussing the issue with your husband. Easy for me to say, I know.
I'm very fortunate, as is Larkfield, where as my wife knew that her change in interest in carnal activities would be a sacrifice for me and gladly suggested that I meet someone else. She even went as far as to offer to introduce me to a couple of her co-workers who expressed interest in me.
It's a shame that life issues that can easily be resolved are so difficult to cope with.