sereneone4u
quod nutrit me destruit
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Is there another way to properly take a woman and make her feel wanted?
Of course but don't be wimpy about it.
Be MASCULINE in your taking.
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Is there another way to properly take a woman and make her feel wanted?
Of course but don't be wimpy about it.
Be MASCULINE in your taking.
Not like I thought I'd be FEMININE
One of the encounters we often have is when she is getting dressed after a shower. ... I usually then pull out and stroke till I come on her stomach and breasts. Often times this happens before going out for dinner, family events or for the evening.
I know I Love being used hard by my Man are a G/F its just a turn on for me to be used ....I love having my face slapped and hair pulled at the same time and I am not talking about love slaps. I want it hard I want to feel the pain run down to my feet, it gets me so wet it runs down my legs.....and I so Love it. The more using me the better I love it.I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!
For me this is really mood dependent! My husband is fairly adaptable to my mood! Sometimes I can tell after a hard day he just may need to be in charge. He loves when I tell him to hurt me or be rough!
omg... this is my fantasy and all of u are living it.
My advice is to talk to her, before- during and after sex. She's the only one who can tell you what she feels. I'm very into being forced and treated rough but only with someone I truly trust. Being in a trusting relationship opens you up to be what you want. I can let myself go when my hands are bound, and when im being spanked or fucked hard that's all there is room for in my head. All the work crap and errands and that funny noise my car makes, it's gone. It's just me and him. That being said, I like to be made love to too, softly and lovingly. It's like food, I like jello and creme brûlée, I'd hate to have to pick just one for the rest of forever.
I can't stand a submissive man. I equate it with laziness and I don't do lazy.
Of course but don't be wimpy about it.
Be MASCULINE in your taking.
Let me say first off that I relish a forceful fuck. In my personal life, I'm constantly in pursuit of control. I have an anxiety disorder; feeling a sense of control lessens my irrational fear of the unknown. In my sex life, I'd prefer the opposite. Tell me what you want. Surprise me. Being dominated has its own challenges.
Once upon a time, I got into an argument after a lover made the declaration that submission = laziness. I guess if submissive means to you that you're going to lay like a bump on a log and disconnect, sure, that's lazy. If that's your idea of what it means to be submissive, I think you're missing the point. (now if you were charged with not moving -or else,- that's a horse of a different color) To me, submission isn't about who's doing what and keeping tally. It's about power play. It's about challenge. In the end, we should both get off. (orgasm denial is a fun tease for a limited time, after that I'm just going to get pissed and disengage out of protest) I want to give and take. Ever tried to struggle for fun? It takes an incredible amount of energy. Submission is not for the faint of heart, nor the sloth of the bedroom.
I could never live a 100% sexually vanilla life and be truly happy. Bdsm gives me a huge release, a balance, feeds my sexual fantasies and inspires me to be a more open-minded and communicative partner. That being said, I enjoy the occasional foray to the intimate, sweeter side of sex too. I just don't ever want to dominate you. I'm not talking slapping an ass now and then or pulling your hair. I'm talking I don't want you to call me Ma'am, Mistress, Mommy, etc. I feel like a submissive role feminizes the man to me; a total turn-off. Now if I
were dominating a woman... -that- I could get with.
Regarding the OP and anybody curious about incorporating bdsm play into their sex life- TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR PARTNER. You don't have ESP. Everybody's soft and hard limits are different. You have to develop trust and comfort with each other. Bdsm can cause serious injury if you don't know what you're doing or don't speak up. I learned that the hard way![/QUOTE
I will put it in simple words.I like to get tipsy on whisky. listen to vile words. some rough stuff like slaps or caning to make me angry and mad horny,followed by anal sex bare bottom and ejaculation in colon.soak it till it plops out soft soggy and soiled,smeared.