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Old 09-07-2017, 06:10 PM   #351
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Thank you to everyone for being concerned about me.

I apologize for not updating regularly anymore. I just feel like I have nothing new to report.

The thing with my father living here is not going well at all, which is more or less what I expected. I can't work like I ought to, and I'm not able to pay my bills. But, hey, it's more convenient for him, and it gets him out of my mother's hair, so that should be all I care about, right?

So, yeah, fuck me and my life and my (in)ability to pay my bills. As long as they've got what they want, it doesn't fucking matter.

Can anybody tell I'm stressed as hell right now?
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Nope.

His check goes entirely to my mother who "has" to have it to pay their bills, even though it's MY fucking house he's living in.

I get a $30/week stipend from her. Because, you know, that makes up for all that income I'm losing.

I made less than $300 last month because I can't work when I need to. My mother had to pay my bills for me, and to be honest, I didn't feel bad about it at all, given the shitshow I've been saddled with.
So are you going to wait until you're both evicted before you tell him he has to leave?
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Old 09-07-2017, 06:42 PM   #352
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That sucks. Fuck, that sucks hard.
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Old 09-09-2017, 06:09 PM   #353
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So are you going to wait until you're both evicted before you tell him he has to leave?
I have no idea what I'm going to do, but thanks for making me feel like a jackass.

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*hugs*
That sucks. Fuck, that sucks hard.
*Hugs*


In other news, my Hitachi died today. Figures.
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Old 09-09-2017, 07:06 PM   #354
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*Hugs*


In other news, my Hitachi died today. Figures.
*hugs again*
One step at a time sweet Bunny.
I always prefer fingers myself.
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Old 09-11-2017, 03:56 PM   #355
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I'm sorry I snapped at you, Blue.


Everything I own is breaking. In the last few days, one of my WiFi adapters for my desktop broke, and then my vibrator. Then, today I woke up and tried to put frozen waffles in the toaster, and when I pushed the button, the toaster wouldn't stay down.

I don't know what's going on in this house.

In less depressing news, I've played with my new friends a couple of times now. I think them and y'all are the only things keeping me from losing it completely at this point.

Oh, and I tried to talk to my mother today about how I can't work when my father is here. I might as well have been talking to a wall. She's just so glad to have him out of her house that she doesn't give a shit what it's doing to me. I'm not sure why I bothered.
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Old 09-11-2017, 04:20 PM   #356
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Not to rub salt, and you know I've been supportive, Bunz, but I'm with Con. What is going on? You are both grown ups.
You have to work.
Why does he get to sap you, and why is that okay?
How come he is there?

You are stressed enough, and now broke?

Jackass is not what is intended here. I, and probably Con, are trying to understand.
Sometimes support is tough love, too.
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Old 09-11-2017, 04:42 PM   #357
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Because sometimes...sometimes we get fucked up over family.
We can't do the rational thing, because the situation isn't based on rationality.
It is about a lifetime of conditioning, and sometimes we can't escape that.
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Old 09-11-2017, 05:03 PM   #358
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Because sometimes...sometimes we get fucked up over family.
We can't do the rational thing, because the situation isn't based on rationality.
It is about a lifetime of conditioning, and sometimes we can't escape that.
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Old 09-11-2017, 05:20 PM   #359
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Because sometimes...sometimes we get fucked up over family.
We can't do the rational thing, because the situation isn't based on rationality.
It is about a lifetime of conditioning, and sometimes we can't escape that.
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Word.
Well, then it's good that the Bunz has friends that support her in many different ways.

Escaping that is hard, but not impossible.
And I turn into a 7th grade girl around my Dad, so I get it.
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Old 09-13-2017, 01:18 AM   #360
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I have a radical idea; let us actually help a tiny bit?

Create an Amazon gift registry of all the shit that's broken lately. (I *think* it'll allow us to send stuff to you without disclosing your address? If not, I know there are other ways to accomplish this....

I can't contribute much, but maybe, collectively, we can help you out a bit.

Who knows; maybe your perverted lurker fan club will come out of the woodwork just enough to inundate you with a mountain of prosthetic proxy penises and the resulting dildo-opolis will drive dad outa your house.
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Old 09-13-2017, 06:56 AM   #361
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Well, then it's good that the Bunz has friends that support her in many different ways.

Escaping that is hard, but not impossible.
And I turn into a 7th grade girl around my Dad, so I get it.
Exactly. Support, not pointless criticism.
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Old 09-13-2017, 08:20 AM   #362
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It does suck that Bunny can't get her head above water though.
*leaves a hug for Bunny*
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Old 09-13-2017, 09:50 AM   #363
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Exactly. Support, not pointless criticism.
Your snark is amazingly helpful, too. Way to go.
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Your snark is amazingly helpful, too. Way to go.
That was not intended as snark. My apologies if it came across that way.
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Old 09-13-2017, 11:35 AM   #365
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That was not intended as snark. My apologies if it came across that way.
Back to Bunz, okay?
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Old 09-13-2017, 11:42 AM   #366
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Back to Bunz, okay?
Agreed. And I will be more careful with my tone.
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Old 09-13-2017, 12:15 PM   #367
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I have a radical idea; let us actually help a tiny bit?

Create an Amazon gift registry of all the shit that's broken lately. (I *think* it'll allow us to send stuff to you without disclosing your address? If not, I know there are other ways to accomplish this....

I can't contribute much, but maybe, collectively, we can help you out a bit.

Who knows; maybe your perverted lurker fan club will come out of the woodwork just enough to inundate you with a mountain of prosthetic proxy penises and the resulting dildo-opolis will drive dad outa your house.
I think that sounds like a lovely idea.
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Old 09-13-2017, 03:52 PM   #368
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I think you need to put your foot down. It is your house.

If you can't work with him there, then HE needs to disappear while you're working. You know your shift hours, tell him to get lost during that time. If he wants to know why, tell him you're a professional consultant who deals with the confidential personal reproductive issues of your clients and you CANNOT have him there while you are consulting. Also, tell him that you're losing business and the company you are a contractor for is thinking of canceling your contract.

Give him $5 and point him to the Starbux across town before you shove him out the door with a "I love you dad, but GO AWAY!"

If he wants more detail about your "work" you can get creative while telling him the truth. I'm sure you can come up with some sort of unbelievable story that's totally true but just sounds phony.

Glad to hear you're getting satisfied with/by your new playmates too. Good things happen sometimes. It really does sound like all you need to do is get your dad sorted out (and a new wonder wand).
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I'm sorry for contributing to this air of presuming to know how to fix your problems.

I know well that what lit provides best is a place to vent frustrations, and sometimes, that's what you really need for the moment.

We just want you to be happy bunny. Or at least; less miserable?
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Old 09-13-2017, 10:17 PM   #370
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Everyone's being wonderful, and I love you all for it.

Staggy, thank you for your offer, but I would hate to take you up on it. I'd feel guilty about it. It's such a sweet idea, though.

In further Bunny news, my father brought home a cold a day or two ago, and now I'm pretty sure I've got the beginnings of it. Which, you know, is exactly what I need when my job depends on me being able to talk.

Speaking of jobs, I've taken up a new freelance position doing transcriptions. The pay is shit, but at least I don't have to wait until my father is either not here or in bed to do it. Maybe the two jobs will keep me halfway afloat for now.

Oh, and my mother said she's going to see about keeping my father down there an extra day to give me more time to work. So y'all keep your fingers crossed for that, please.
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Old 09-14-2017, 09:36 AM   #371
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Bunny, everything that can be crossed for good luck is,

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I'm so sick right now, and all I want is someone to take care of me. But on the other hand, the last thing I want to do is give this shit to somebody else. It's times like these, when I feel so run-down and alone that I miss dumbass the most.

And, God, do I hate myself for missing him.
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Old 09-14-2017, 09:51 PM   #373
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unfortunately, perfectly normal feelings. you'll be ok, some day,
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So my birthday is in a couple of months. My best friend is in the process of moving back down here from New York, and we decided we'd have a birthday party for me. She was super-excited about it, and so was I.

So I hit up my other friends--all, like, three of them--to ask if they'd be interested in coming. I shouldn't have fucking bothered. All the answers I got were either noncommittal or outright dismissive.

Ok. I get it. Y'all only want to be around me when I can do something for you. My bad.

Anyway, this was last night. I've been feeling sorry for myself ever since.

I find myself missing him more and more lately. I thought it was supposed to be getting easier, but it's not.
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Hey, we are all your friends. Invite some of us, I'm sure anyone luving close enough would love to celebrate with you.

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