When a girl masturbates
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Re: Re: When a girl masturbates
While there MIGHT be women out there that don't masturbate, I personally feel more comfortable with one who does. She obviously knows her body better than anyone else & how to please herself better than anyone ever could... but I'd like to think that I add a bit of a nuance to it too!
Cakegirl said:
While there MIGHT be women out there that don't masturbate, I personally feel more comfortable with one who does. She obviously knows her body better than anyone else & how to please herself better than anyone ever could... but I'd like to think that I add a bit of a nuance to it too!
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What A Sexy Thing to Share
Hey....I know there's different strokes for different folks.
I even had a girlfriend once who loved sex, but swore she didn't masturbate. Hey....maybe she didn't. I don't know. But that's her choice.
Personally, as far as I'm concerned, there's nothing sexier to share with your partner than masturbating. First, it's damned erotic; secondly, its so educational to share...and one can learn so much from seeing just how your partner likes to be touched.
But if he or she isn't comfortable doing it in front of you, hey....if everything else is good, don't rock the boat!
Hey....I know there's different strokes for different folks.
I even had a girlfriend once who loved sex, but swore she didn't masturbate. Hey....maybe she didn't. I don't know. But that's her choice.
Personally, as far as I'm concerned, there's nothing sexier to share with your partner than masturbating. First, it's damned erotic; secondly, its so educational to share...and one can learn so much from seeing just how your partner likes to be touched.
But if he or she isn't comfortable doing it in front of you, hey....if everything else is good, don't rock the boat!
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very good points 
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abiamarie said:
What a lovely table setting that must be! Somehow I don't think that's something you can order from Pottery Barn or Ikea, but if they did.....!
To me there's nothing more delicious that seeing a woman in the throes of exstacy. Mmmmmm.
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Re: What A Sexy Thing to Share
There is a very good point right there.
If you want to completely please your wife/gf, husband/bf...the best thing to do is watch them. See what area is most sensitive, watch how they do it, what area(s) do they touch the most?
By letting my husband watch me, he can see the exact spot that I like to be rubbed/licked/sucked.
I think any guy that is repulsed by it, was probably just raised to think a certain way. He was maybe taught that a female just doesn't do that. So be it. A guy like that needs to find a female that is conservative and doesn't enjoy it then.
As for me....I always made my men learn what to do and what not to do to me. They knew I masterbated, and I never had a problem with any of them masterbating. I always found it very natural.
I've always had a fantasy of a man catching me pleasing myself and watching me and then pleasing himself while he watched me (without me knowing he was doing so) I think I have a bit of that whole voyeur/exhibitionist in me
I use to masterbate all the time. I don't know if it is age or what, but I don't so much anymore. *shrug* But, if I was horny/turned on more often, then you better believe I would be!
MrBates said:
There is a very good point right there.
If you want to completely please your wife/gf, husband/bf...the best thing to do is watch them. See what area is most sensitive, watch how they do it, what area(s) do they touch the most?
By letting my husband watch me, he can see the exact spot that I like to be rubbed/licked/sucked.
I think any guy that is repulsed by it, was probably just raised to think a certain way. He was maybe taught that a female just doesn't do that. So be it. A guy like that needs to find a female that is conservative and doesn't enjoy it then.
As for me....I always made my men learn what to do and what not to do to me. They knew I masterbated, and I never had a problem with any of them masterbating. I always found it very natural.
I've always had a fantasy of a man catching me pleasing myself and watching me and then pleasing himself while he watched me (without me knowing he was doing so) I think I have a bit of that whole voyeur/exhibitionist in me
I use to masterbate all the time. I don't know if it is age or what, but I don't so much anymore. *shrug* But, if I was horny/turned on more often, then you better believe I would be!
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There's something to be said about being a voyeur/ exhibitionist. I definitely fall into that category. There's a part of me that just enjoys watching a woman bucking & heaving a she touches herself. Hearing her moan as she carresses her little secret spots & moaning lightly is such a thrill for me. On the other hand, there's something very nice about stroking myself, grunting & groaning for her to watch too.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
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Lust Engine said:There's something to be said about being a voyeur/ exhibitionist. I definitely fall into that category. There's a part of me that just enjoys watching a woman bucking & heaving a she touches herself. Hearing her moan as she carresses her little secret spots & moaning lightly is such a thrill for me. On the other hand, there's something very nice about stroking myself, grunting & groaning for her to watch too.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm....
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sxgoddessjw said:are you following me
Oh I dunno... are you watching me?
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wouldn't you like to know
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abiamarie said:
A lot of young guys see their wife/girlfriend masturbating as threatening because they see it as meaning that they aren't measuring up or that ther partner is unhappy with them.
When they get a bit more emotionally mature, nothing is a bigger turn on. I love it.
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Re: Re: When a girl masturbates
I already know I don't measure up to a woman self pleasuring herself! She knows her body better than anyone else. I'll be the lucky one if she lets me share in discovering some of her nuances.
I'm also confident enough in myself to know that as a guy, I offer something completely different too so I'd never see a woman mastubating as a threat. To me it's a joy!
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I already know I don't measure up to a woman self pleasuring herself! She knows her body better than anyone else. I'll be the lucky one if she lets me share in discovering some of her nuances.
I'm also confident enough in myself to know that as a guy, I offer something completely different too so I'd never see a woman mastubating as a threat. To me it's a joy!
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Re: Re: Re: When a girl masturbates
Well Hon you did a great job on this one...hehehe...Great subject and I agree so far some great responses...Hope thread continues for a long time!!!
abiamarie said:I enjoy this thread as much as you, lookn4funruit.
I try to come up with interesting topics for threads. I do my best
So far so good on the responses! Yay.
I love hearing everyone's opinion.
Well Hon you did a great job on this one...hehehe...Great subject and I agree so far some great responses...Hope thread continues for a long time!!!
We all do it sometime
Dont believe them, we all masturbate at some time in our life, some like to do it alone, some like to share, some do it all the time as well as have intercourse with there partner.
Masturbating can be more satisfying, some times because you can give as much or as little as you need, you control the outcome. But there is nothing quite like sharing the experience with some body else, both watching or helping the other to achieve. Kissing touching each other while you both enjoy it is all part of sharing and having a loving, sexual relationship, no matter if it is man - woman, man - man or woman - woman
For some it is a private happening they feel it is wrong to share and perhaps they are doing something that they shouldnt. My fantasy is for someone to find me masturbating, then help me to get off. Any offers mmmmmmm
Dont believe them, we all masturbate at some time in our life, some like to do it alone, some like to share, some do it all the time as well as have intercourse with there partner.
Masturbating can be more satisfying, some times because you can give as much or as little as you need, you control the outcome. But there is nothing quite like sharing the experience with some body else, both watching or helping the other to achieve. Kissing touching each other while you both enjoy it is all part of sharing and having a loving, sexual relationship, no matter if it is man - woman, man - man or woman - woman
For some it is a private happening they feel it is wrong to share and perhaps they are doing something that they shouldnt. My fantasy is for someone to find me masturbating, then help me to get off. Any offers mmmmmmm
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Hazguy said:
I take it your a re-enactor judging by the unifrom and springfield...
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abiamarie said:
I have no problem with ladies who masterbate as long as I can watch or join in helping her to cum, I love see a lady cum.
As for "WHY WOULD A GUY HATE HIS GIRL MASTERBATING?" I have no idea at all.
Howmany ppl find that masterbating is more relief than pleasure ??? As thats all it is to me unless I'm masterbating with a lady.
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Hazguy said:
Well hi fellow re-enactor I'm with 1st NYLA Reynolds Battery L
