Hi all, I need to lose some weight and feel like a good hard whacking could help get me going with this. I find the idea a huge turn-on as well, so it's a bit complicated I suppose. I put the idea to my wife a couple of years ago and she went along with it, using her hand and a wooden spoon, but to be honest, it didn't really hurt that much and was a bit weird and awkward and I let it drop.
I've recently wanted to give it another go, and have bought a silicone wham bam paddle which seems pretty fearsome.
Just wondering how to break the ice again. Just forget about the motivational part and ask if she's into playing around with it? Show her a few videos? I'm not into a D/S type relationship, just feel the need to get spanked hard now and again.
I've recently wanted to give it another go, and have bought a silicone wham bam paddle which seems pretty fearsome.
Just wondering how to break the ice again. Just forget about the motivational part and ask if she's into playing around with it? Show her a few videos? I'm not into a D/S type relationship, just feel the need to get spanked hard now and again.