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Old 12-11-2017, 06:44 AM   #1
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How would you seduce a bi curious guy?

If you had a chance to seduce a bi curious guy, and give him his first m/m sex, how would you go about it? Assume he knows you're bi, and you know he's curious... so the situation is ripe and ready. How do you make him comfortable enough to drop his pants and go with his desires?

Invite him over for a beer? ... a nude hot tub... go to the gym together and make sure he sees you naked? Offer him a massage? Invite him to an all male party?

I think I'd have him over for a beer and hot tub. I'd leave gay magazines out where he could see them. I'd get in the tub naked, and direct the conversation towards gay sex, somehow.

Or maybe I'd keep it simple, and let him know that I'd love to suck his cock, and nobody else would ever know.

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Old 12-11-2017, 07:02 AM   #2
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I think I would invite him over one night for drinls, then after a while offer him a full body massage...and escalate it from there as he is more and more comfortable
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Old 12-11-2017, 07:11 AM   #3
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Tell him about your first time M2M and how easy your tutor made it for you. How it was safe and that there was no need to take any action on your part. All you had to do was relax, let it happen and have a good time. Tell him how liberating it was to have an experienced lover for your first time. See if he will talk about his fears.
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Old 12-11-2017, 07:23 AM   #4
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Well I've been seduced by another guy.

I offered no resistance, I think he guessed I was ripe.

He was just friendly and talkative.

Didn't try too hard.

It's possible to try too hard you know.

I reckon it's best not to play any games and just be honest.

Game playing might have creeped me out.
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Old 12-11-2017, 08:58 AM   #5
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Well I've been seduced by another guy.

I offered no resistance, I think he guessed I was ripe.

He was just friendly and talkative.

Didn't try too hard.

It's possible to try too hard you know.

I reckon it's best not to play any games and just be honest.

Game playing might have creeped me out.
That is how i have seduced other guys depending on the situation i might mention past m/m sex experiences and how fun it is
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Old 12-11-2017, 09:35 AM   #6
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If he's "curious", why would he need to be seduced?

I think a straightforward proposition of, "Do you want to have sex?" would suffice.
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Old 12-11-2017, 01:50 PM   #7
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If he's "curious", why would he need to be seduced?

I think a straightforward proposition of, "Do you want to have sex?" would suffice.
Yep, pretty much just waiting for the right person to ask.
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Old 12-11-2017, 02:00 PM   #8
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Asking might still need to happen in a non threatening manner. If the guy is scared of being exposed, just asking might not get the response that you are looking for even if the true answer would be "Hell Yes."
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Old 12-11-2017, 02:31 PM   #9
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If you had a chance to seduce a bi curious guy, and give him his first m/m sex, how would you go about it? Assume he knows you're bi, and you know he's curious... so the situation is ripe and ready. How do you make him comfortable enough to drop his pants and go with his desires?

Invite him over for a beer? ... a nude hot tub... go to the gym together and make sure he sees you naked? Offer him a massage? Invite him to an all male party?

I think I'd have him over for a beer and hot tub. I'd leave gay magazines out where he could see them. I'd get in the tub naked, and direct the conversation towards gay sex, somehow.
Same way you would a straight guy or girl or anyone else
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Old 12-11-2017, 03:34 PM   #10
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There's a difference between being curious and actually doing something about it. I think somebody has to set up a situation, making sure it's comfortable, private and non-threatening.
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Old 12-11-2017, 03:45 PM   #11
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Usually, I just kind of guide the conversation towards gay sex and curiosity and let things take their course from there.

Or in the heat of the moment during a supposed MFM threesome, "accidents" can happen.
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Old 12-11-2017, 05:47 PM   #12
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I am so curious to. I wish someone could try to seduce me. They would have no trouble. I have even tried exhibition in public showers, and only got lots of looks.
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Old 12-12-2017, 09:48 AM   #13
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If you had a chance to seduce a bi curious guy, and give him his first m/m sex, how would you go about it? ......
The times I have been seduced, the guy was friendly and talkative and definitely steered the subject to sex, first about women then perhaps blow jobs, then explained what he'd do to me if I liked. In the cases where he was feeling me up I offered no resistance.
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Old 12-12-2017, 09:53 AM   #14
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Seduction

My first experimental experience was at a teen. Whenever I knew my friend was coming over, I would conveniently be laying in my room taking a nap or getting ready to shower. Any chance I could get to let him see me naked. I would walk around my room innocently showing myself off. Of course, I would be somewhat hard. He told me later how hot it was. I could also see the lump n his pant. I still get turned on by the memories
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Old 12-12-2017, 10:17 AM   #15
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I'm usually pretty masculine, but if the right guy pushes the right buttons, I'll willingly submit to his desires. And when I'm trying to seduce a guy, I do what I'd want done in his place. Just take it slow, not push hard and see how things unfold. But I can't remember ever trying to seduce someone that I didn't think was willing.
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Old 12-26-2017, 08:59 PM   #16
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Take him out to do something HE enjoys. That way heís relaxed and apt to be more talkative about anything. Ease into the sex talk. Once we are on the subject make sure he knows Iím not pressing him but that Iím interested in being his first. Also assure him Iíd be careful and respect all his boundaries. If he backs off then drop the subject for now and give him time. If he wants to get together again for something non-sexual, to me it means heís thinking about it and I still have a chance.

My approach would be very non-aggressive. I donít want to scare him away and I want him to know he can trust me.
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Old 12-26-2017, 09:53 PM   #17
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In my case it would be to find an attractive woman who wants to be part of the action or at least watch. :-)
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Old 12-27-2017, 12:07 PM   #18
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If you had a chance to seduce a bi curious guy, and give him his first m/m sex, how would you go about it? Assume he knows you're bi, and you know he's curious... so the situation is ripe and ready. How do you make him comfortable enough to drop his pants and go with his desires?

Invite him over for a beer? ... a nude hot tub... go to the gym together and make sure he sees you naked? Offer him a massage? Invite him to an all male party?

I think I'd have him over for a beer and hot tub. I'd leave gay magazines out where he could see them. I'd get in the tub naked, and direct the conversation towards gay sex, somehow.

Or maybe I'd keep it simple, and let him know that I'd love to suck his cock, and nobody else would ever know.
You could just tell me to get on my knees...
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Old 12-27-2017, 01:59 PM   #19
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Of course, all humans are different...so there isn't one magical approach. But for me, I think the most important thing is to be sincerely interested in their insecurities and try to encourage him to open up about his concerns. And of course, try to help him resolve them, if possible. Obviously, this isn't really seduction...more of just a bit of kindness.

I don't really even like the idea of "seduction", as it implies a covert attempt to make someone do something they wouldn't ordinarily do. To use some trick (booze), technique(porn), or other device to intentionally try to inflame his lust or lower inhibitions would be wrong...and the aftermath of guilt/regret may very well kill off any true self acceptance he may have. In short, basically be there for him and make him feel safe...that's the way I would like to be treated
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Old 12-27-2017, 09:58 PM   #20
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I don't really even like the idea of "seduction", as it implies a covert attempt to make someone do something they wouldn't ordinarily do.
My first sex with a man involved a very nice form of seduction. The guy kept telling me, "I am not going to ask you to do anything you don't want to do," but inwardly he knew that I loved sex as much as any man, and that I would like getting sucked to completion by him. So, he took his time, kept repeating that mantra, turned his offer of a massage into naked fun, and ended up with me furiously fucking his mouth.

I was 20 or 21 years old at the time.
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Old 12-27-2017, 10:05 PM   #21
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Simple honesty

If I met a guy who was curious, I would tell him I used to be also. But I knew that I really wanted to blow a man, and it's all I could think about. It was a desire that consumed me.

I'd tell him the steps I took to make it happen. I'd tell him I really want to blow him, and to make him cum in my mouth. He would not have to touch me, or play with my cock. I can't be more honest. I'm a cock sucker.
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Old 12-27-2017, 11:29 PM   #22
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I recently opened up to my own curiosities which have been brewing the past few years. I tried finding a guy I was comfortable enough with, but the connection just never happened. Finally, it was actually a MF couple that made it happen. Somehow having a female present made it so much easier. She didn't participate, just watched and masturbated, but it was so hot watching her while her husband took care of me!

If a woman isn't available, just putting on some bi-threesome porn would do the job. Just asking isn't enough for some - we have years of built up assumptions about our sexuality and letting those go isn't always the easiest. It's stupid, if not outright silly and nonsensical, but we are conditioned in certain ways.
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Of course, I still wonder - how do you know if another guy is bi or not???
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Old 12-28-2017, 01:27 AM   #24
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Honestly, I think I would just dress up in something sexy and very feminine, drop to my knees, and tell him desperately I wanted his throbbing cock in my throat.

Too direct?
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Old 12-28-2017, 07:20 AM   #25
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Honestly, I think I would just dress up in something sexy and very feminine, drop to my knees, and tell him desperately I wanted his throbbing cock in my throat.

Too direct?
I have no doubt you on your knees begging for my cock would do the job!
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