Strap on sex- taking it like a man

sophia jane

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I just read this :
http://www.alternet.org/sex/83459/

Reading the article, I thought first- oooh I want a feeldoe (not the first time for that thought), but I also started to wonder how many men would be willing, how many enjoy it, how many think it's awful.

So, what do you think:
have you or would you let your girl fuck you with a strap on?
do you like it?
what's the appeal?
if you disliked it, why?

For the shy, feel free to pm me. :D
 
My husband wouldn't let me. He's got some very good reasons, and I'm not too keen on it anyway.

But I'd let a girl with a strap-on do me any day, and I think it might be interesting to do another girl, too. :cattail:
 
My husband wouldn't let me. He's got some very good reasons, and I'm not too keen on it anyway.

But I'd let a girl with a strap-on do me any day, and I think it might be interesting to do another girl, too. :cattail:

Ooooh something to ponder. :D

For my part, I've never used a strap on (in any situation/position), but I REALLY want to. With a girl and a guy. As the fucker and the fuckee.
 
I would -- but I doubt I'd get off on it physically. During my submissive phases, I like the idea of a woman with power over me. And butt-fucking is sort of an assertion of power. Similarly, when I'm feeling somewhat more rampant, I want to turn women around and fuck them up the ass against a kitchen cooker with the gas rings on.
 
I just read this :
http://www.alternet.org/sex/83459/

Reading the article, I thought first- oooh I want a feeldoe (not the first time for that thought), but I also started to wonder how many men would be willing, how many enjoy it, how many think it's awful.

So, what do you think:
have you or would you let your girl fuck you with a strap on?
do you like it?
what's the appeal?
if you disliked it, why?

For the shy, feel free to pm me. :D

I posted two stories on this subject, actually. The first has been pulled for publication elsewhere.

But those two stories generated so much feedback - it was amazing. So many men wrote and said they wished their women would do the same thing to them.

Not taken as a sub, not with humiliation or domination or any kind, not as a need to feel "gay" or anything, just as another way to have sex in their loving relationship.

I told many of them to print out the story and leave it under their SO's pillow, stuff it into their briefcase, whatever. Talk to them - TELL them what they want.

But it's a pretty difficult wish for many guys to ask, I guess.

:rose:
 
Ooooh something to ponder. :D

For my part, I've never used a strap on (in any situation/position), but I REALLY want to. With a girl and a guy. As the fucker and the fuckee.

I think I'd be kinda afraid of hurting someone, since there's no feeling in the plastic/material of choice. But just the sensation of taking someone instead of being taken is one I'm curious about.

On the receiving end, I think it'd be quite the turn-on. :cattail:
 
I posted two stories on this subject, actually. The first has been pulled for publication elsewhere.

But those two stories generated so much feedback - it was amazing. So many men wrote and said they wished their women would do the same thing to them.

Not taken as a sub, not with humiliation or domination or any kind, not as a need to feel "gay" or anything, just as another way to have sex in their loving relationship.

I told many of them to print out the story and leave it under their SO's pillow, stuff it into their briefcase, whatever. Talk to them - TELL them what they want.

But it's a pretty difficult wish for many guys to ask, I guess.

:rose:

I was really hoping you'd post. I loved your stories on the subject. :kiss:
 
I've written three multi-chapter stories about it. There's a thread on the Playground about it as well.
 
I posted two stories on this subject, actually. The first has been pulled for publication elsewhere.

But those two stories generated so much feedback - it was amazing. So many men wrote and said they wished their women would do the same thing to them.

Not taken as a sub, not with humiliation or domination or any kind, not as a need to feel "gay" or anything, just as another way to have sex in their loving relationship.

I told many of them to print out the story and leave it under their SO's pillow, stuff it into their briefcase, whatever. Talk to them - TELL them what they want.

But it's a pretty difficult wish for many guys to ask, I guess.

:rose:

Damnit! now, I've got another story I've got to write. Memories are such surprising things. ;):D

Uh, what category would that go under, I wonder?
 
Uh, what category would that go under, I wonder?

Anal.

I actually submitted the first story under Loving Wives! :cool:

I figured that's what it was - a loving wife, taking her husband with a strap-on.

I learned quickly. They moved it to the proper category within a couple of days.
 
I'll certainly read it.

:cattail:

Maybe I'll get to work on it tonight or tomorrow. Working in such close quarters with my daughter limits my writing time. Dad's porn writing comes under the heading of To Much Information. :D
 
Certainly down with it.

What do I like about it? I don't know.
 
It's taken a while to convince Hot Mama that it's o.k., but last time she was beginning to get into it. It's fun. It really is. Being the objective of desire is really hot, guys, and unless you've got hemeroids (sp?) the only thing it requires is plenty of lube.
 
In the article, I noticed the woman used a strapon with only one dildo. When I write about using one, on a woman or a man, it has the dildo in front and one in the socket attached to the strap under the user's crotch, to go into her pussy. You can also get them with a third socket, for her ass.
 
In the article, I noticed the woman used a strapon with only one dildo. When I write about using one, on a woman or a man, it has the dildo in front and one in the socket attached to the strap under the user's crotch, to go into her pussy. You can also get them with a third socket, for her ass.

Yeah when I get one I want either a feeldoe or a nexus so I can have some fun, too. :)
 
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