Many stories I enjoy boil down to A and B find each other attractive. A hits on B, but for some reason B is trying to say "no". Over time, A gets past all of B's defenses and much sex occurs. ;-)
While I prefer breeders or lesbians in my reading, really any gender combo could work for this sort of story. B could have any of a bunch of reasons for wanting to say "no" to A;
B or B's family or B's boss is really prejudiced against A for race, culture, national origin, social class, education level, or marital status.
B is married
B is in some religion that does not allow B to have sex
B is trying to set an example for nosey kids
(And I'm sure there are more)
As for how A gets past defenses, I would think that would need to be tailored to the nature of the defense.
While I prefer breeders or lesbians in my reading, really any gender combo could work for this sort of story. B could have any of a bunch of reasons for wanting to say "no" to A;
B or B's family or B's boss is really prejudiced against A for race, culture, national origin, social class, education level, or marital status.
B is married
B is in some religion that does not allow B to have sex
B is trying to set an example for nosey kids
(And I'm sure there are more)
As for how A gets past defenses, I would think that would need to be tailored to the nature of the defense.