I want to surprise my husband with full access to anal sex. We've played a little in the past but it's never gotten to the point of me enjoying anal sex. I want to use butt plugs to 'train' myself...what is more important when buying plugs, length or width? How big should I aim at reaching before anal play will be more enjoyable for me? How long should I aim at wearing a plug each day? Any advice would be great!