Prince Albert
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Well said Naughty. I also feel it is still the "old double standard" in place. People often mistake how someone looks for who they are!! (PS, THAT EXPLAINS THE STARES i GOT WEARING MY CHAPS TO THE MARKET!!!!)Whether male, or female, we all dress and act in a way to avoid trouble, I don't think that has anything really to do with feminism, its part of being a member of society.
What is acceptable to wear when at a nightclub, isn't necessary acceptable to wear when picking up the kids from nursery, but I have seen that happen, and the strongest reaction against it was from other women.
What is acceptable to wear in a gay club, crotchless chaps for example, would certainly get an adverse reaction if worn at the supermarket.
A way a women or man dresses is no excuse, for them to molested or raped and that is without question. In reality I do not actually think that occurs more than rarely.
I think it s a way a person will behave especially under the influence of alcohol and drugs, that can unfortunately lead to sex that is not consensual, or is thought of as non consensual by one of the participants afterwards, this can often be the case when people have sobered up and realised what they have done, especially if married or in a relationship. Whether male or female we both have a responsibility to ensure the signals we give off can not be misinterpreted.
Personally I avoid taking anyone to bed when I have been drinking or if they are under the influence of drugs or are drunk.