"Women Who Love Bi Men" Fan Club

I'm a bisexual guy, and am perfectly willing to be open about it even with someone I've just met. Why should I let anyone make me feel of ashamed of who I am? And if someone's a biphobic/homophobic asshole who'll take offense, then I don't much want to socialize with them anyways.

From reading some of the earlier posts in this thread, it seems there are some bisexual guys who aren't really attracted to guys physically (as in from the torso up), only sexually. I'm not quite, but kind of close to, the opposite. While I do tend to lean a little towards girls in my preferences, neither a vagina nor a cock by itself is enough to turn me on. I could be surrounded by naked people and feel nothing. For me the face is far more important. I'm attracted to a wide variety of girls, but when it comes to boys I have a strong predilection for pretty boys (not metrosexually pretty, but *pretty* pretty). Although cute metrosexual guys can be really sexy as well. But I don't like really masculine/muscley guys. A shaved head or a buzzcut is an automatic turn-off for me. I also despise the macho man's-man sort of personality and attitude that are so prevalent in western society. A little femininity in a guy isn't a bad thing. But I'm generally cool with anywhere on the spectrum so long as he's not really masculine.

Kissing is a definite must for me. If I can't have fun making out with someone, I'm not going to enjoy having sex with them. And I'm perfectly happy to kiss in public, regardless of the gender. For me sex has to have at least an element of intimacy, a clear attraction between those involved, or there's no point. While I enjoy sex quite a bit, no doubt, I never go into it just looking to get off. I want it to be an experience worth remembering as more than simply later jack-off material.

As for myself, I see myself as neither specifically feminine nor masculine, as I possess elements of both. I don't have the... Accent that some gay guys, and a few bi guys have. I don't talk with my hands. I'm not a big fan of shopping. I don't take an hour to get ready. But I love cats (not fond of dogs) and cute animals in general like arctic foxes, panda bears, bunnies, anything with an "aaawwwwwwww" factor. I love stuffed animals. I'm a snuggling addict. Seriously, I'd snuggle 24 hours a day if I could, and if I don't have a person to snuggle with I don't mind snuggling with one of those stuffed animals, although it's not nearly as enjoyable. I'm far more sensual than brash. Far more seductive than forceful. While I hate the color pink, and enjoy watching (some) sports, I like being cute and playful in a non-cocky way. I could go on for awhile but, I guess I'm just outside the norm in a number of ways. So I suppose it's no surprise that even at 29, I have blue hair and a baby face (I get mistaken for early 20's all the time, and would still probably get mistaken for late teens if I didn't have a tattoo on each forearm, of an Anubis Mask and an Ankh, both quite colorful). My appearance usually drives off girls who go for the ultra-masculine look right off the bat, so I've found most of the girls who are interested in me also tend to be more accepting of the whole bisexuality thing.

Over the course of my life though, through my accumulated experience I've come up with a theory. Women who like the ultra-masculine look are far less likely to be into m/m stuff (and only light m/m, if they are) and are unlikely to have an interest in seeing their guy with another guy (as society has programmed them to believe that this somehow takes away from their guy's masculinity and makes him less of a man, an absolutely ridiculous notion). Girls who are into metrosexual guys, and especially those who are into pretty boys, are far more likely to be heavily into m/m stuff, and to love the idea of seeing their guy with another guy. Next up, girls who are straight are more likely to be into m/m stuff, whereas bisexual girls are more likely to be m/f and f/f focused without much interest in m/m. In both cases I'm just saying these factors increase certain likelihoods, and are not absolutes by any means. There are definitely exceptions, and plenty of them, but I do believe if a large-scale study were done, the percentages would lean the way I've perceived them in my own experiences. I actually kind of wish someone would do a study like that. Also, one final thing, and unlike the other two points, this one isn't speculation but is pretty much fact. Any girl who is into anime is *very* likely to be into m/m stuff as well. =P
 
I don't know what category my hubby would fit into. He loves to clean me up after watching me with friends of ours and he also loves cleaning or prepping them for me, but he is really only interested in the oral aspects. I do enjoy watching him suck a guy either individually or while a guy is doing me. He gives me some of the most intense orgasms I have ever had when he does this. We look at it as just one more sexual item on our sexual menu.
 
I love bi men. My husband is straight but submissive. He claims to be turned off by other men but he willingly licks his cum from my pussy and he will lick my fingers clean when he cums on my tummy and I scoop it up and feed him. I have fucked his ass with a small strapon and he was rock hard at the time. I reached around and jerked him off and I made him admit to wanting to suck cock while I fucked his ass in order to let him cum.

If I could find a nice looking bi boy toy to join us my fantasy would finally be realized

Oooh, pick me! ;)
 
I quite enjoyed this thread and wanted to share my own experience. For 19 years of my life I was strictly straight, I thought that two men getting together was disgusting, although naturally I considered two women getting together to be hot. I was actually quite of a bigot towards gay men, perhaps overcompensating for the fact that I hadn't discovered yet that I love cock.
When I was 19 I started dating my fantasy girl, she was very pretty, blonde, great body and even greater tits. She was 19 also and knew her way around a cock like a seasoned professional. The sex was always fantastic. One day she was giving me a blowjob and she asked me if I would like her to stock something up my ass. I was shocked. Why the hell would I want her to stick something up my ass, it sounded so gay. She told me her ex boyfriend loved it and always got off so much harder. I wasn't buying it though, it was far too close to gay for me.
A couple of months later and after a few drinks I told her I wanted to try a threesome with a second girl. She didn't even hesitate to agree, I couldn't believe my luck, it had been a fantasy for so long. But she quickly added that she would only do it if we did a threesome with another guy first. Talk about being torn! There was no way I wanted to share a bed with a guy but my ultimate fantasy was on the line here. I thought about it for a while and told her I would agree as long as I didn't have to touch the guy and he didn't have to touch me. She said that she was happy with that but that if I wanted her to do anything with the other girl I would have to do things with the other guy.
The day came that we were to have our MFM threesome. She invited the guy to our place, we started drinking and then kissing, undressing, groping etc. Soon she was on her knees sucking him, which made me feel quite uncomfortable just standing about watching. She asked me to help her suck him. I told her there is no way I was doing that. She told me that if I just tried it for one minute, she would do anything I wanted in our MFF threesome. I wanted to see her with another woman so bad and this was my opportunity. I agreed to do it for a minute but made them both promise that they could never tell anyone about it. They agreed and soon I was on my knees in front of my first cock. She held his cock and I put my lips around it, it felt so big and warm. I started to suck on it as she told me how sexy I looked with a cock in my mouth. Soon I was wanting to take more and more in my mouth, greedily shoving as much in as I could. He rewarded my efforts with precum, a delicious sample of what was to follow. I sucked his tasty gift down and kept working it. My minute had long since passed but I was addicted, I wanted to taste him squirt in my mouth. Soon he was pumping that delicious load deep in my mouth and I was drinking every drop.
We stayed together for two years after that, MMF threesomes became a regular thing. Eventually she even held my hand as I lost my anal virginity. We both loved my bisexuality so much and in all that time she never paid me back with the MFF threesome she had promised.

WOW! That was hot. Almost exactly as I would want it to happen. I imagine she must have been so turned on watching her BF who didn't want to suck dick not only suck it but get lost in sucking it and loving it :) Thanks for sharing
 
I love bi men. My husband is straight but submissive. He claims to be turned off by other men but he willingly licks his cum from my pussy and he will lick my fingers clean when he cums on my tummy and I scoop it up and feed him. I have fucked his ass with a small strapon and he was rock hard at the time. I reached around and jerked him off and I made him admit to wanting to suck cock while I fucked his ass in order to let him cum.

If I could find a nice looking bi boy toy to join us my fantasy would finally be realized

I enjoy a girlfriend who enjoys strap on sex and into gay/bi fantasies ... which could lead to even more explosive sex in a 3-some or 1 on 1 while she watches. :D
 
I don't know what category my hubby would fit into. He loves to clean me up after watching me with friends of ours and he also loves cleaning or prepping them for me, but he is really only interested in the oral aspects. I do enjoy watching him suck a guy either individually or while a guy is doing me. He gives me some of the most intense orgasms I have ever had when he does this. We look at it as just one more sexual item on our sexual menu.

I am so jealous of your husband that he has you. I would love to meet a woman that would let me do those kinds of things for our mutual pleasure.
 
Wow coast guy that sounds amazing hope to do the same thing one day
 
Im a single bi black woman who loves viewing gay and bi porn. Ive fantasized about having an interracial threesome with two white men. Not sure if i can handle it in real life both the emotional aspect and physical aspect of it as well as safety health etc.
 
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Im a single bi black woman who loves viewing gay and bi porn. Ive fantasized about having an interracial threesome with two white men. Not sure if i can handle it in real life both the emotional aspect and physical aspect of it as well as safety health etc.
A lotta things that are great as fantasies, get too complicated to be great in real life. Your three-some fantasy absolutely turns me on, in fact it is nearly identical to one of my own.

The closest I came was with a buddy and a local woman while we were in the service. Alcohol was definitely involved and it was awkward, but we had her together. If I had it to do over, there'd be less alcohol and more intention of making the experience a true three-way. Up your alley?
 
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I opened up to my last girlfriend about my (very strong) bi-curiosity, and she loved it, and we loved watching gay/bi porn in bed together. We never acted on it, and now I'm single :-(.
Having a woman there and turned on and talking dirty when I suck my first cock will be so hot.
If you are a good-looking couple near Boston, I have a great athletic body a nice cock, ping me :).
 
I quite enjoyed this thread and wanted to share my own experience. For 19 years of my life I was strictly straight, I thought that two men getting together was disgusting, although naturally I considered two women getting together to be hot. I was actually quite of a bigot towards gay men, perhaps overcompensating for the fact that I hadn't discovered yet that I love cock.
When I was 19 I started dating my fantasy girl, she was very pretty, blonde, great body and even greater tits. She was 19 also and knew her way around a cock like a seasoned professional. The sex was always fantastic. One day she was giving me a blowjob and she asked me if I would like her to stock something up my ass. I was shocked. Why the hell would I want her to stick something up my ass, it sounded so gay. She told me her ex boyfriend loved it and always got off so much harder. I wasn't buying it though, it was far too close to gay for me.
A couple of months later and after a few drinks I told her I wanted to try a threesome with a second girl. She didn't even hesitate to agree, I couldn't believe my luck, it had been a fantasy for so long. But she quickly added that she would only do it if we did a threesome with another guy first. Talk about being torn! There was no way I wanted to share a bed with a guy but my ultimate fantasy was on the line here. I thought about it for a while and told her I would agree as long as I didn't have to touch the guy and he didn't have to touch me. She said that she was happy with that but that if I wanted her to do anything with the other girl I would have to do things with the other guy.
The day came that we were to have our MFM threesome. She invited the guy to our place, we started drinking and then kissing, undressing, groping etc. Soon she was on her knees sucking him, which made me feel quite uncomfortable just standing about watching. She asked me to help her suck him. I told her there is no way I was doing that. She told me that if I just tried it for one minute, she would do anything I wanted in our MFF threesome. I wanted to see her with another woman so bad and this was my opportunity. I agreed to do it for a minute but made them both promise that they could never tell anyone about it. They agreed and soon I was on my knees in front of my first cock. She held his cock and I put my lips around it, it felt so big and warm. I started to suck on it as she told me how sexy I looked with a cock in my mouth. Soon I was wanting to take more and more in my mouth, greedily shoving as much in as I could. He rewarded my efforts with precum, a delicious sample of what was to follow. I sucked his tasty gift down and kept working it. My minute had long since passed but I was addicted, I wanted to taste him squirt in my mouth. Soon he was pumping that delicious load deep in my mouth and I was drinking every drop.
We stayed together for two years after that, MMF threesomes became a regular thing. Eventually she even held my hand as I lost my anal virginity. We both loved my bisexuality so much and in all that time she never paid me back with the MFF threesome she had promised.

Very hot and sexy story. This is pretty much how I would love for a woman to seduce me into sucking cock for her.
 
I am in a gay relationship with a wonderful man and have not been with a woman for many years, but we have woman friends and a few have expressed their curiosity about two men making love. They are attracted to the directness of MM sex and seem interested in participating in in one way or another. I confess it is an attractive possibility. We are very close friends with the women in question and don't feel that it would hazard our relationship if they joined in. We have enjoyed a few threesomes with younger men and found them exciting and they have never threatened our relationship. It might be interesting to try one with a woman that we trust and care for.
 
My wife would not support

I am closeted because if I came out I would be divorced and I am too old to lost half of everything
 
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