ShanMcGyver
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- Jan 19, 2018
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I'm gonna be brutally honest on this post.
I'm 23. I've never had sex before or done anything you could consider sexual with another person. I've never even had what could be considered an actual boyfriend. And yet, I constantly have this desire to let a hypothetical person that I trust essentially be my dom. I often daydream about kneeling for someone and just letting them tell me what to do. It's not even really anything sexual, most of the time. It's just relaxing to think about. In my profession I'm constantly expected to make decisions that could kill someone or change their lives forever, all while risking my own life and safety. I guess I just want someone who will take me away from that, even for a short period of time. But I have trust issues and a constant need for validation that what I'm doing is either right or wrong (if that makes sense). Im not looking for anyone to do that for me here. So I guess I'm just trying to figure out where to go from here or where to start, what to do, etc. I know a good bit about the bdsm scene from personal research I'm just feeling kind of lost at this point. Thoughts? Suggestions?
I'm 23. I've never had sex before or done anything you could consider sexual with another person. I've never even had what could be considered an actual boyfriend. And yet, I constantly have this desire to let a hypothetical person that I trust essentially be my dom. I often daydream about kneeling for someone and just letting them tell me what to do. It's not even really anything sexual, most of the time. It's just relaxing to think about. In my profession I'm constantly expected to make decisions that could kill someone or change their lives forever, all while risking my own life and safety. I guess I just want someone who will take me away from that, even for a short period of time. But I have trust issues and a constant need for validation that what I'm doing is either right or wrong (if that makes sense). Im not looking for anyone to do that for me here. So I guess I'm just trying to figure out where to go from here or where to start, what to do, etc. I know a good bit about the bdsm scene from personal research I'm just feeling kind of lost at this point. Thoughts? Suggestions?