Behavior change for my mom - help/advice/guidance

Que said:

While quite true, I am convinced that people that wander into the How-to or the GB and lay a load of this sort of drivel, do so in a calculated way. Almost without exception the subject matter is such as to invite ridicule. These people have (like most people) errant, deviant thoughts that they assume are shameful to have.

Where they differ from, perhaps, you and I is that they get sexual tingles out of the idea of having those "dirty, shameful" thoughts exposed. So they open their metaphorical trench-coat and assault us with malice aforethought with their self-assessed "weirdness."

I celebrate those that feel a little weird on the inside and are happy to find that there are others with their brand of weirdness. You can tell the difference though.

What erps me is that the emotional flashers, as I like to think of them, put us all in a no win situation. You can't really unsee their deliberate, squick-worthy post, but reacting to it is exactly what they want. I chide myself for doing anything but ignoring them. What happens, as in this case, is they have an innocuous sounding opener. When you fall for the bait you want to say something to the asshole that just waggled his emotional wienie in your face.

Sometimes when you call them on it they button up their trench-coat and try somewhere else.

This guy, without a doubt, has read and fapped to every one of the legion of incest threads. He knows where they are and where he could have found like-minded people to fap along with his fantasy. He, and others of his ilk, chose an unwilling audience.

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Curiousandopen9 said:

Thank you. I think I would need to find the space where I could comfortably talk about this with like-minded people.

Cheers

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GiggLeGasm said:

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omg.. I used to drive these kids to baseball.. and bake little yellow cupcakes with Spongebob faces.. what happened?!?!

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Que said:

Well, in the vein of assuming you are sincere and not just trying get a rise out of people have you seriously not noticed the dozens (it seems like) of incest related threads over in the "fetish" area?

Also, in the story ideas area, no matter how odd your particular fantasy is they seem reasonably encouraging of exploration of fantasy.

You do realize, don't you that you mom is not at all interested in your assistance in exploring, right? Got to be plenty of women in your area that lean a little promiscuous that might find your interest in their promiscuity interesting.

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Curiousandopen9 said:

totally !.. I will just test and try, if there is a little
Spark, I want to little by little nurture and support that feeling. I won't insist or push on anything. If she doesn't respond, of course fine, everything as usual.

What I meant to say was just if she is inclined, I would make her realize that as her son I am ok with that if she is happy, if that's what she wants. It's like: if everyday different people say you have nice legs, if you hear it from
Different people, you would feel confident about yourself and use dresses that shows off that, it is that kind of things I was thinking, to see if she was interested little by little

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GiggLeGasm said:

ok. just because you don't seem to hear what people are hearing..

what on earth has your poor mother done that makes you think that she needs help with her sex life..
and why, of all the people on the planet, would she select you to help her?

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Eilan said:

Right? Sweet bearded baby Jesus on a pogo stick!

OP, you can wank to the thought of having a slutmom all you want, but her sex life is her business, not yours. Leave. Her. Alone.

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mtwain4u said:

..... But why on earth do you think she'd share her sexual life with her kid?
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Curiousandopen9 said:

I just stopped in my country to make a surprise to my mom. When I arrived to house, my mom surprise a lot , almost shocked, to see me. She was wearing very revealing dress and a table in the living room prepared for a dinner with candlelight. She called someone when j was changing my clothes. I guess she is no innocent at the end of the day

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