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Old 12-03-2013, 06:32 AM   #1576
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Ohhhh . . . shit, Dreamer, I'm so sorry. Yes, I know how fortunate I am. It helps that my husband is also not completely straight-minded so to speak, and we were able to share our thoughts on that at the same time. We're actually pretty perfectly matched. He is very masculine in appearance, but a gentle soul who would like to try on being a woman if such things were possible for a brief time. He is attracted mostly to lesbian women and a few men. He is extremely intelligent, and I find intelligence very, very attractive. I'm attracted mostly to women, but he's the rare exception for me.

If you ever need to talk . . .
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Old 12-03-2013, 09:45 AM   #1577
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Those of you married to men who are respectful, understanding and supportive are very fortunate. I thought my soon-to-be-ex might be shocked, at least initially, when I confided my feelings to him, but I never expected that he would accuse me of having willfully deceived him and characterize our marriage as a fraud...
Wow, that is terrible!
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Old 12-03-2013, 03:39 PM   #1578
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I'd definitely like to try it out. As you say these pics certainly fuel the fantasy
yours and mine both!!
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Old 12-03-2013, 03:44 PM   #1579
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yours and mine both!!
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Old 12-03-2013, 05:17 PM   #1580
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Old 12-03-2013, 06:16 PM   #1581
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Old 12-03-2013, 06:54 PM   #1582
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I have been on Lit for a few months now exploring girl-girl interactions with the consciously lesbian, the bi-curious, and the I-think-I-might-want-to-but-what-does-this-say-about-me women. It has been great. In between the male lurkers in the clitty threads I have met a lot of great women who have told me of their experiences and encouraged me to get out and try it myself. I have and I'm loving it.
Besides the 50-yr-old guys who try to pretend they are girls so I'll tell them things they can stroke to, there is another group of middle-age lit'ers who pm consistently: married women who are dying to try it but are afraid to admit it. They want to be part of clit lit but take only tentative steps toward making a connection and then pull back. You know who you are.
How about coming to this thread and posting publicly? In numbers, there is strength, at least strength of conviction. Instead of sending little Amy a pm and then disappearing back into the mounds of laundry that you do and the dissatisfying pump-and-snore Friday night routine, how about coming out and saying, "I want a girl's head between my thighs at least once before I die"? You'll feel better and maybe you can actually make it happen.

Who the heck knows what threads take off and which ones don't? Thought I would try. The mincing tentative email thing isn't working.
Count me in. Love clit lit and am bored with sexless marriage. I'd love to make new friends.
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Old 12-03-2013, 08:12 PM   #1583
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Those of you married to men who are respectful, understanding and supportive are very fortunate. I thought my soon-to-be-ex might be shocked, at least initially, when I confided my feelings to him, but I never expected that he would accuse me of having willfully deceived him and characterize our marriage as a fraud...
I thank my husband every day for the life he has allowed me to live. I'm indeed very fortunate.

I can't begin to imagine what you are going through, my heart goes out to you.

I hope that some day closed mindedness becomes a thing of the past. I'm sure I'll never see it, but I'll keep fighting the good fight for people like yourself who are less fortunate.

All I can say is keep your head high and find someone who will make you happy and appreciate who you really are.
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Old 12-07-2013, 02:48 AM   #1584
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Here is a nice video for woman who like to fantasize about girls and for girls that like to fantasize about older women.

http://www.redtube.com/555611
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Old 12-07-2013, 09:23 AM   #1585
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Old 12-07-2013, 09:24 AM   #1586
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thats awful Vivid.. I think maybe you made the right call
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Old 12-11-2013, 08:38 PM   #1587
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Those of you married to men who are respectful, understanding and supportive are very fortunate. I thought my soon-to-be-ex might be shocked, at least initially, when I confided my feelings to him, but I never expected that he would accuse me of having willfully deceived him and characterize our marriage as a fraud...
I feel your pain Viv although I have not discussed my bi side with my hubby because I know he would react the same if not worse. Really sucks but some people just have very limited capacity to comprehend anything beyond what fits in their perfect little world. I keep thinking someday...
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Old 12-12-2013, 10:37 AM   #1588
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I feel your pain Viv although I have not discussed my bi side with my hubby because I know he would react the same if not worse. Really sucks but some people just have very limited capacity to comprehend anything beyond what fits in their perfect little world. I keep thinking someday...
I do feel for both you and Viv.

What I don't understand is why you would marry someone with such a small world view. I'm not saying a man who you've committed to and vowed to forsake all others for, doesn't have a right to disapprove of romantic, emotional, sexual, outside relationships, I think he does. What I can't understand is if he's so hung up and homophobic that you can't even express a very important part of who you are, why, regardless of love, did you even marrying him?
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Old 12-12-2013, 10:42 AM   #1589
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I do feel for both you and Viv.

What I don't understand is why you would marry someone with such a small world view. I'm not saying a man who you've committed to and vowed to forsake all others for, doesn't have a right to disapprove of romantic, emotional, sexual, outside relationships, I think he does. What I can't understand is if he's so hung up and homophobic that you can't even express a very important part of who you are, why, regardless of love, did you even marrying him?
i understand how both baby and viv feel. i had one female encounter and it freaked me out to the point that i tried to deny my feelings. i was brought up in a very religious home. i married a good man hoping to forget about my feelings. after 5 years of marriage i found myself in the arms of an older woman. i never intended for it to happen, but it did. so i can understand how a woman can marry someone that doesnt understand our needs.
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Old 12-12-2013, 04:43 PM   #1590
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I do feel for both you and Viv.

What I don't understand is why you would marry someone with such a small world view. I'm not saying a man who you've committed to and vowed to forsake all others for, doesn't have a right to disapprove of romantic, emotional, sexual, outside relationships, I think he does. What I can't understand is if he's so hung up and homophobic that you can't even express a very important part of who you are, why, regardless of love, did you even marrying him?
I understand where u r coming from with that thought. Trust me if I realized how he was before I married him it would never have happened. I think too, my sexuality has evolved over the past 15 years and his very simply put, has not. My desires have grown significantly over the past few years, seemingly returning to closer to how they were in my early twenties. When two people grow in different directions and at different speeds it is difficult. At this point in my life however I don't want to start over when it comes to what we have together. With that said, I choose to try tofnd enjoyment where and how I can because at this point he has little interest. Hope that brings some insight to the subject or at least to my situation.
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Old 12-12-2013, 05:34 PM   #1591
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i understand how both baby and viv feel. i had one female encounter and it freaked me out to the point that i tried to deny my feelings. i was brought up in a very religious home. i married a good man hoping to forget about my feelings. after 5 years of marriage i found myself in the arms of an older woman. i never intended for it to happen, but it did. so i can understand how a woman can marry someone that doesnt understand our needs.
I'm not really being judgmental, you're not alone, many women end up married to men because they've denied their true orientation, many eventually move on. I'm assuming you've done so. I was in that place myself, denial, a long time ago, thankfully I couldn't live that way and I came out before I was sixteen.

I don't really blame a man who happens to find himself married to a lesbian feeling he was deceived, even though his wife did so without malice. I really wasn't addressing a lesbian being married to a man because even if the man you married is understanding and isn't homophobic he's still going to be hurt. For men it's much worse if you leave them for a woman than for another man. Why this is I don't really understand, leaving for someone else, regardless of which sex they are, is still leaving.

I was just addressing those who happen to be bisexual. If you have those desires why marry a man who can never understand how you feel? If however she acts on those feeling without first talking to her husband it is cheating and he has a right to be upset but only upset about the cheating not her bisexual feelings. I don't think either ViviDreamer or BabyFreyja meant they had cheated, they just have husbands who would freak out if they knew of their bisexual feelings, Vivi's apparently did.

Don't think I'm judging you for your affair with this other woman, I'm not but I do know how I'd feel if my wife cheated on me. We aren't monogamist in the strict since but what sex we do have with others is together, so if she had an affair I'd consider it cheating and I'd be so very badly hurt.
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Old 12-12-2013, 07:48 PM   #1592
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Wow, that is terrible!
It is !
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Old 12-12-2013, 07:50 PM   #1593
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I thank my husband every day for the life he has allowed me to live. I'm indeed very fortunate.

I can't begin to imagine what you are going through, my heart goes out to you.

I hope that some day closed mindedness becomes a thing of the past. I'm sure I'll never see it, but I'll keep fighting the good fight for people like yourself who are less fortunate.

All I can say is keep your head high and find someone who will make you happy and appreciate who you really are.
Lots of hugs and good wishes.
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Old 12-26-2013, 04:16 PM   #1594
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Needs to be considered

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Old 12-29-2013, 07:18 PM   #1595
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What about enganged women, fantasizing about married women??
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Old 12-29-2013, 07:24 PM   #1596
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What about enganged women, fantasizing about married women??
I think it implies to people in committed relationships, more than the actual formal marriage license. I think you would be welcomed. =)
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Old 12-29-2013, 07:33 PM   #1597
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I think it implies to people in committed relationships, more than the actual formal marriage license. I think you would be welcomed. =)
Thats nice! My biggest fantasy is to be seduced by an older women..
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Old 12-29-2013, 07:40 PM   #1598
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Thats nice! My biggest fantasy is to be seduced by an older women..
And my biggest fantasy is to have a woman that knows what to do, isn't afraid to take charge, and do all sorts of things to my body!
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Old 12-29-2013, 07:56 PM   #1599
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Old 12-29-2013, 08:01 PM   #1600
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And my biggest fantasy is to have a woman that knows what to do, isn't afraid to take charge, and do all sorts of things to my body!
I like to think I'd know what to do....I'd love to take charge of you....mmmmm
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