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What is the "Miss/Pet" relationship?

Hi, recently I met this older woman through Literotica, and she kept making implications about us possibly having this "Miss"/"Pet" relationship. I am bi, but I don't know too much about the bdsm world. She indicated she was into "play D/s". I never could get her to specify exactly what these terms meant. Does anyone know what the "Miss"/"pet" relationship is all about?
 
I'm bumping this thread hoping that others will post on this erotic topic. I'm not into extreme behavior, like pain, clamps or things that belong in a toilet. But I have a developing desire for domination and submission but only with other women.
 
Oh I love to dominate girls not in like a full BDSM like in porn but having control and having a female submit to me my fiance loves it.
 
matron222 said:
It is a wonderful fantasy we all play out in our subtle ways, I am sure

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This is a beautiful picture in both topic and composition!
 
I am bi. I am submissive to my male dominant of 11 years. I am also the D in a wonderful D/s relationship with my girlfriend of almost 2 years.

She has met (and played with) my dominant with me but our relationship is mostly just between her and I. She is not a masochist. She is incredibly sexy and obedient. It's been such a joy exploring this part of myself.
 
I love feeding my sub wife well fucked cunt. Up until the first time she never consider another woman. But once I put the flogger to her and led her to this bi wife, now I can't keep her down
 
Annie, your message box is full. couldn't get to you
 
bisouthernbelle said:
Hi, recently I met this older woman through Literotica, and she kept making implications about us possibly having this "Miss"/"Pet" relationship. I am bi, but I don't know too much about the bdsm world. She indicated she was into "play D/s". I never could get her to specify exactly what these terms meant. Does anyone know what the "Miss"/"pet" relationship is all about?
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The term "pet" is used when a submissive is treated as exactly that. My pet wears a collar and is trained to do what I say. My suggestion for anyone new to BDSM is to look up any unfamiliar terms and get to know what certain phrases mean.
Also, if a Domme/Dom is not willing to explain themselves, they're most likely inexperienced, which could lead to trouble, so just be careful who you end up submitting to.
The last thing you want is a Dom who has no idea what they're doing.
 
Tresha, thank you for your concern it is very much appreciated but sometimes I secretly enjoy being forced to delay things for a bit too long, at the time it gradually becomes hell to endure but the release at the end makes it all very much worth the agony and frustrations of the delay. Your point is one that is very worth while because this kind of play is definitely not for suitable for every submissive woman.

TreshaJesuil said:
You have to be careful with whomever you talk to. As a female who is dominant towards other females, yes I do expect them to obey and serve me. However I want them to cum just as much as I do. I don't without them orgasming as a form of punishment. I enjoy making them cum. I think that if you try and find a woman whom is compassionate as well as dominant, you won't have as many issues. Just a thought.
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I posted this in a different forum, but it fits as well (or maybe I just miss her)

I feel like the idea of D/s and BDSM are a state of mind.

For me I would hope my partner wound not want to bind my hands, I would not be able to touch them. I think I have said this before but punishment for me does not have to be physical, the worst thing my partner could do to me is ignore me, or as I say "be quiet to me" that makes me crazy.

I dated a woman, who would punish me by starting a cold shower when I had dissaponted her. She would not say a word to me until I got undressed & into the shower. I have to say that was very effective. The cold shower was just that cold, however her holding me and drying me off after, while she told me just why I was punished with as very exciting and educational.

I have been known to be a little scatter brained, she had a tool for that as well. I once forgot to pick her up at the airport. She texted me after she landed and I was like an hour and a half away. After that she needed something more than a cold shower. I was surprised when I picked her up because she was not ignoring me, she was very talkative and even took me to her favorite restaurant for dinner. However when we got to her house she said.

"Jilly, you have to learn to use the tools you have to remember things. You have a phone and you are always playing with it. your calendar start using it"

She then went out to her rosebush and cut a few of the long stems out. She had me undress as she cut the flowers from the stems. Once I was undressed she had me get a sports bra and pair of tight fitting panties. She then had me put them on. I did as she asked. She put the cut up stems in to the cups of my sports bra, then put longer stems into the seat of my panties. I can't say it didn't hurt. It stung and burned and it was just really uncomfortable, and at times when she would touch me in the right spots (or the wrong spots) it was almost unbearable.

We sat on her couch, and she got caught up on her Netflix. While caressing me strategically. After what felt like forever, (like 3 hour long episodes plus me making a snack for us) she said she would need a ride to the airport Monday morning and a ride home from the airport on Friday at 2pm. I got up and put all of that in my phone. She smiled and stood me up and took all the thorns out.. It was pretty bad some of the smaller thorns were imbedded pretty deep. She used twisers for those. Yep it hurt as bad as that sounds..

She did however have me wear the underwear with small spots of blood the rest of the night. It was white cotton. The night went along pretty normal from there. The next morning she did that underware in the dryer so the stains set. A little reminder for me.

It has been almost 2 years since she moved away, but the lessons both in the bedroom and in the real world are still with me..

This started as a post about something else but went way off track. My point is that it does not take a dungeon or even like chains and whips to make D/s or BDSM happen..
 
why_not_jill said:
I feel like the idea of D/s and BDSM are a state of mind.

For me I would hope my partner wound not want to bind my hands, I would not be able to touch them. I think I have said this before but punishment for me does not have to be physical, the worst thing my partner could do to me is ignore me, or as I say "be quiet to me" that makes me crazy.

I dated a woman, who would punish me by starting a cold shower when I had dissaponted her. She would not say a word to me until I got undressed & into the shower. I have to say that was very effective. The cold shower was just that cold, however her holding me and drying me off after, while she told me just why I was punished with as very exciting and educational.

I have been known to be a little scatter brained, she had a tool for that as well. I once forgot to pick her up at the airport. She texted me after she landed and I was like an hour and a half away. After that she needed something more than a cold shower. I was surprised when I picked her up because she was not ignoring me, she was very talkative and even took me to her favorite restaurant for dinner. However when we got to her house she said.

"Jilly, you have to learn to use the tools you have to remember things. You have a phone and you are always playing with it. your calendar start using it"

She then went out to her rosebush and cut a few of the long stems out. She had me undress as she cut the flowers from the stems. Once I was undressed she had me get a sports bra and pair of tight fitting panties. She then had me put them on. I did as she asked. She put the cut up stems in to the cups of my sports bra, then put longer stems into the seat of my panties. I can't say it didn't hurt. It stung and burned and it was just really uncomfortable, and at times when she would touch me in the right spots (or the wrong spots) it was almost unbearable.

We sat on her couch, and she got caught up on her Netflix. While caressing me strategically. After what felt like forever, (like 3 hour long episodes plus me making a snack for us) she said she would need a ride to the airport Monday morning and a ride home from the airport on Friday at 2pm. I got up and put all of that in my phone. She smiled and stood me up and took all the thorns out.. It was pretty bad some of the smaller thorns were imbedded pretty deep. She used twisers for those. Yep it hurt as bad as that sounds..

She did however have me wear the underwear with small spots of blood the rest of the night. It was white cotton. The night went along pretty normal from there. The next morning she did that underware in the dryer so the stains set. A little reminder for me.

It has been almost 2 years since she moved away, but the lessons both in the bedroom and in the real world are still with me..

This started as a post about something else but went way off track. My point is that it does not take a dungeon or even like chains and whips to make D/s or BDSM happen..
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Interesting tangent, my mind wanders too.:rose:
 
If with an older couple, I think this is a common situation to develop for a 23f or younger. It certainly nurtured my bi side which only comes out occasionally but when it does is great fun. It certainly can't be forced and is difficult to fake though. Often unexplained by anything but mood, but feeling a connection and 'precense of a natural dynamic' is what makes the Dom/sub side with either sex of partner for me I think. Complicated but the best things can be and don't always need explaining or putting into neat little boxes.
 
Fadogirl2014 said:
Recently I started having a new fantasy. It al started a few weeks ago. My bf was out of town and I was kind of horny, so I watched some porn on the net, which I really rarely do. And I found some lesbian clip and one scene really got to me. In it one of the lesbians was like crouching / leaning above the other, playing with a dildo with her pussy and licking her. It really turned me on and I even started touching myself. What I liked the most was the top lesbian seemed to kind of dominate the other one. I can't forget that now. I am fantasizing about an experienced lesbian, teaching me, dominating me. Can anyone relate to this?
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That's beautiful. Wish I could set you up with a lesbian and force you to submit to her. I know you'd be willing to lol.
 
Wish a dominant lesbian would seduce my wife turning her into her lesbian lover as she mocks and taunts me. I'd love to be forbidden from touching my own wife by lesbian who beats me up if I try to touch my wife. I'd love it if as I am making love to my wife a lesbian enters the room reaches in between my wife and I grabbing hold of my cock and pulls it out of my wife's pussy saying "get this disgusting thing out of her she's mine now!" She then drags me off my wife & throws me on the floor next to the bed then takes my place making love to my wife who starts off reluctant but soon turns lesbian.
 
Lesbian supremacy

Anyone want to role play or chat about a world in which lesbians have taken control and heterosexuality is banned and girls are trained and conditioned to be lesbian and dislike men from a young age. Men are used only sperm miking machines or for manual labour. There could be a resistance group or just women who love being lesbian forcing others to conform or want to punish those who don't obey the laws. Would you like your dominate and abuse men?

Taking lesbian domination to the divine with lesbians ruling the world.
 
I worship lesbians especially dominant lesbians with a sadistic streak.
 
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