jason28053
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Ladies, I am curious if any of you ever PM a guy first.. or do you just wait to get a PM?
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SweetSam42
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jason28053
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What tempted you to PM? if I may askI think I did twice. Ages ago. I pretty much just wait
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<==== Must not be worthy
Aquagal
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A comment to a post, profile, avatar.
Don't do that, it comes off as desperate.
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thanks
ShyGuy1855
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On an average basis I do. Although I couldn't tell you exactly what that average is. Why wait when you can go after what you want?
And that is great life advice!
Wild_Honey_66
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Yes, I do.
I usually try to find something in common as an excuse, but not always. Sometimes I just pm to say Hey!
I'm a friendly kitty.
Aquagal
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thanks
You're welcome.
Be engaging and interesting in your posts.
I don't understand why PMing is not equal opportunity, that is not something I have knowledge about why someone would wait for their box to fill.
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And why would one wait to fill such a beautiful box?
I believe I will go George Orwell on this and say, as far as PMs go:
All initial PMs are equal, but some are more equal than others.
L0tus
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I thought this was quite amusing and funny.
We've all got drums and I hear you're beat. I'll walk to it and just smile.
SweetSam42
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One was someone on Ampics who had a really great thread, the other was to someone who had been post chasing me for a while. He seemed interesting, and hadn't PMd me.
For me, that I don't send PMs first is mainly about time - I had a pic thread that was work to maintain, and a full inbox that I try to get to. I do try to respond to everyone, but again, I just don't have the time. Since I've abandoned my thread, my inbox is much more manageable though. Perhaps I'll be more proactive with those PMs . . .
Aquagal
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And why would one wait to fill such a beautiful box?
I believe I will go George Orwell on this and say, as far as PMs go:
All initial PMs are equal, but some are more equal than others.
Awww, hello tim. Thank you!
Callmetim
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As she states, that's usually all it is. Post with (not stalk) people. If there is some common interest, you'll likely see it on the threads and one party will PM the other. Play, patience, PM. For some of us with deliciously saturated audio samples, their PM box might be more unmanageable than others.
Welcome, as always.
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I have done that quite often. If you said something cool or interesting or you just have an amazing sense of humour, ya I am gonna tell you.
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I've PM'd a guy first before. If I had to guess, the ratio is that they've usually sent the first PM. However, whoever PMs first isn't the determining factor of whether or not the relationship gets on to the next level.
Just sayin'.
Just sayin'.
Wild_Honey_66
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I have done that quite often. If you said something cool or interesting or you just have an amazing sense of humour, ya I am gonna tell you.
yup. this. ^^^
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Yeah, so...
I do. I send dudes unsolicited PMs anytime I want to, especially if I wanna say something to 'em.
For some reason, I'm reminded of when I was in the fourth grade and wanted to call Sean Ware (my crush) to ask him if he'd switch dance partners so he'd be my partner, not Eileen Whatshername's, in the school's upcoming Maypole Dance (seriously... it's called that). My mom told me girls aren't supposed to call boys. I was like, "Okay. I'll just ask him when I see him at school." Btw, I did ask him, and he did switch partners... Maypole dance... If I only knew then...
Oh crap. Forgot my point.
I do. I send dudes unsolicited PMs anytime I want to, especially if I wanna say something to 'em.
For some reason, I'm reminded of when I was in the fourth grade and wanted to call Sean Ware (my crush) to ask him if he'd switch dance partners so he'd be my partner, not Eileen Whatshername's, in the school's upcoming Maypole Dance (seriously... it's called that). My mom told me girls aren't supposed to call boys. I was like, "Okay. I'll just ask him when I see him at school." Btw, I did ask him, and he did switch partners... Maypole dance... If I only knew then...
Oh crap. Forgot my point.
NeonSubtlety
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Sean ware sounds like a maypole slut. He gets around.
GET IT?!
GET IT?!
DarlingCunt
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I PM men sometimes! But usually I'm too lazy to do it right away, and end up forgetting altogether.
RubenesqueAphrodite
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I've pm'd men before, however I don't make a habit out of it.
