Mutual Masturbation

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I am really curious... does anyone have any experience with Mutual Masturbation with the opposite sex? How did you find a partner? What fuels your sex drive? Do you watch porn together? And if so, what do you watch? Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other? If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities? What are your age differences?

I am looking for a stranger to begin Mutual Masturbation with... yes, ran an ad on CL... I'll keep you all informed as to what success I might have. I would appreciate any advice that anyone has to offer. :devil:
 
I am really curious... does anyone have any experience with Mutual Masturbation with the opposite sex? How did you find a partner? What fuels your sex drive? Do you watch porn together? And if so, what do you watch? Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other? If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities? What are your age differences?

I am looking for a stranger to begin Mutual Masturbation with... yes, ran an ad on CL... I'll keep you all informed as to what success I might have. I would appreciate any advice that anyone has to offer. :devil:


I have done this before but I did this with an ex at the time and it was sometimes part of forplay. She would start rubbing her pussy or using her toys in her pussy or on her clit then I would stroke my hard cock and we would watch each other. After me getting close and watching make herself cum I would then lick her pussy til she came again then slide my.cock inside her but only after she came another time or two would I then cum inside her.

Never had the chance to do it with a stranger but that does sound like it would be a lot of fun to do.
Good luck on finding someone and would love hear how it went when you do ;)
 
If you find a girl that's into it, or willing to try, go for it. It's awesome. Just dont do it the way you do alone. Don't act like you're watching a pornstar, act like you are a pornstar
 
We did it as part of our long distance relationship. Almost every night, we would go online on Facetime and "make love", me with a Fleshlight, she with a remote-controlled Vibease or other toy. It was remarkable how such a private act became a staple. Now, when we are together, we haven't done it, but perhaps it would be a fun part of the foreplay.
 
many years ago my when my good friend broke up with his fiance I ended becoming friends with her. we just seemed to hit it off as friends, at the time I wanted nothing more. the first christmas after her breakup she was going home to see family but did not want to go alone so I tagged along. we shared a room, I slept on the couch and her the bed. in the middle of the night I woke up to what I though was soft sobbing sounds. thought she was crying. as I listened it hit me she was masturbating. i got aroused and started to jerk my self off. before I knew it we were both going at it and came at the same time.

the next day we did not speak of it at all and acted like nothing happened. that night we just sort of started to mutual masturbate again. then when the day came we acted like w were just friends.

by the third night we did it again with the lights on so we could see each other. it was very erotic.

our relation ship never went beyond mutual masturbation. but by sure we did it a lot over that winter.
 
When you get into sexting/cyber, it's all about mutual masturbation, baby! ;) But to answer your questions:


Does anyone have any experience with Mutual Masturbation with the opposite sex?
Yes, most definitely with sexting, though with all the sexes, not just one. ;) But only since I’ve been on Lit, which isn’t long. Though, you’d be amazed at how many experiences a girl can rack up in a short time. ;)

How did you find a partner?
I pimped myself out in the Lit personals for an hour and got enough interest that has got me still going after two months. You can get lucky finding people that way but I find the most rewarding partners are ones I interact with first in the threads. Then it usually moves to PMs, then a messaging or streaming platform. But, I have struck it rich with a lot of my cold contacts too. There are some good quality people on Lit.

I find you get two types of partners: the self satisfiers, who say they want everything done to ‘me’, and the glorifiers, who say they want everything done to ‘you’. The glorifiers are the ones to pick as they invest in their partners - it’s them you want to find and keep.

What fuels your sex drive?
A clever sexy one liner piques my interest, but it’s usually the way my partner expresses their sexual intentions that gets me going. It’s hard when you’re with a cold call contact as you don’t know their intentions or their flow, but with regular contacts, we have our groove - I know what to expect - so I can get hot for them just thinking about them… Dick pics help, though I’m not your average girl. ;) And, on my own I often masturbate to the thought of my special contacts.

Do you watch porn together?
Yes, well, kind of together. With my closer contacts, we share porn. If we find something that turns us on or proves a point in a discussion, we watch together but separate…lol. Though, I think it would be kind of cool to watch the same porn together and mutually masturbate while telling each other what parts is making them hot. (I haven’t done that... yet. ;) )

And if so, what do you watch?
Well, it depends on who I’m chatting with. For example, my foot fetish guy sent me an amazing foot bukkake - damn, that girl knew how to flaunt her feet!

Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other?

Oh gosh, I wish we had physical contact! lol. My sexters live all over the world but I travel so it’s always fun to have the op to hook up. ;) And, when we do, we don’t need to watch porn as we make our own videos. :cool:

If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities?

Hell yes! - I am not going to waste the opportunity to get down and kinky…lol.

What are your age differences?
Sometimes ten years younger, sometimes ten years older - it’s only the connection that matters.

I would appreciate any advice that anyone has to offer.
Don’t have expectations, they are a setup for disappointment. Go in with the idea to enjoy and discover - treat every encounter as an adventure. Never, ever, “commit” (I use that word loosely) to just one person. And, whatever you do, no matter how much you fall for a person, never get too attached - It's a setup for heartbreak. (It is also typical to be ghoshed or dropped even by the ones you thought you had something special with.) And, most importantly, real life always comes first.

It's been fun :kiss:

:heart:


I am really curious... does anyone have any experience with Mutual Masturbation with the opposite sex? How did you find a partner? What fuels your sex drive? Do you watch porn together? And if so, what do you watch? Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other? If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities? What are your age differences?

I am looking for a stranger to begin Mutual Masturbation with... yes, ran an ad on CL... I'll keep you all informed as to what success I might have. I would appreciate any advice that anyone has to offer. :devil:
 
I've done it, and also been just watched a few times. Definitely something you need to do at least once! Being seen doing it takes it to a whole new level. Its something so private, and you're letting someone else into your private world.
 
Mutual msturbation

I am really curious... does anyone have any experience with Mutual Masturbation with the opposite sex? How did you find a partner? What fuels your sex drive? Do you watch porn together? And if so, what do you watch? Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other? If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities? What are your age differences?

I am looking for a stranger to begin Mutual Masturbation with... yes, ran an ad on CL... I'll keep you all informed as to what success I might have. I would appreciate any advice that anyone has to offer. :devil:

I have enjoyed this with several women. It is enjoyed best during sex - intercourse - cunnilingus - fellatio (her). Then we lie side by side on my bed and cum. Then -- rub my cum all over her breasts... watch her quiver. :)
 
Yes. One of us starts out first - sort of like a masturbating strip show. Slow and easy until the other joins in with their own show. Most of the time it leads to joint efforts.
Do not watch porn, instead watch the show.

On Lit only on PM with some guys - not really sure if they were masturbating or not, but I was throughout the discussion. Also watched porn as they responded to my questions giving me details, etc.. I liked hearing (reading) their description of what was going on as I told them what I was doing and how it felt.
 
I have done this a few times, it's really hot watching her masturbate as I do the same. It also is great to see how she likes to be touched, after all, it's all about education!
 
I have done this a few times, it's really hot watching her masturbate as I do the same. It also is great to see how she likes to be touched, after all, it's all about education!

It's always good to have a partner that learns both by watching and hands-on;)
 
We did it as part of our long distance relationship. Almost every night, we would go online on Facetime and "make love".... Now, when we are together, we haven't done it, but perhaps it would be a fun part of the foreplay.

My wife and I had a similar experience. We met online, on the Compuserve forum for our favorite band and not on a dating site or sex related forum. We both had been recently divorced from partners that left us intellectually and emotionally starved. We weren't looking, but we found each other.

Regular contact on the forum turned into private messages, then one-on-one chats, and eventually into frequent phone calls. In a relationship that did not involve the "distraction" of a physical relationship, but only sharing our pasts, our feelings, and who we were and what we believed via written and spoken word only, I chance to say that by the time we met in person we knew the other person better than couples that had been together for years.

Eventually, and as I recall without originally having that intent, one talk got very intimate and we had phone sex. Occasional phone sex became a frequent but not every day occurrence. We exchanged many photos, some of them naked and of a very sexual in nature but mailed them since neither of us had a digital camera at the time. I took mine with a self timer on an SLR, her sister took hers for her. (way to go sis !!) These added a visual dimension to our phone sex which is, of course, mutual masturbation.

She finally flew out from NJ to CA for a visit and I proposed on Pismo Pier (before we'd ever had in person sex...that night). She had many loose ends to take care of back east and it was going to be at least six months before she could move to CA. While she was out here on that trip, we spotted the Connectix Color QuickCam in a CompUSA, bells went off in our heads, and I bought two.

For the next six months, we regularly used the Quickcam for videochats, as an adjunct to phone sex and cybersex. Even with the technology limitations of the era, slow speed, low resolution, unreliable software, it was a big turn on.

Of course our mutual masturbation didn't stop once we were physically together and it's still big part of our sex life...as it should be for all couples.
 
I am really curious... does anyone have any experience with Mutual Masturbation with the opposite sex? How did you find a partner? What fuels your sex drive? Do you watch porn together? And if so, what do you watch? Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other? If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities? What are your age differences?

I am looking for a stranger to begin Mutual Masturbation with... yes, ran an ad on CL... I'll keep you all informed as to what success I might have. I would appreciate any advice that anyone has to offer. :devil:

In addition to my previous response to a post regarding mutual masturbation and cam sex (which kind of hijacked the thread) , I'll offer more direct response to the questions posed by the OP.

Start with the definition. I generally don't favor Wikipedia but this ones pretty on the spot.
Mutual masturbation (also called manual intercourse) usually involves the manual stimulation of genitals by two or more people who stimulate themselves or one another.This may be done in situations where the participants do not feel ready, physically able, socially at liberty, or willing to engage in any penetrative sex act, or a particular penetrative sex act, but still wish to engage in a mutual sexual activity.

Yes. Of course many of us have extensive experience with mutual masturbation with the opposite sex. I would imagine that for many of us, myself included, our first sexual experiences involved mutual masturbation in the form of girls giving the guys handjobs and guys stimulating the girls with our fingers.

I regularly participated in mutual masturbation with early girlfriends. At a point in our relationship where she wasn't ready for intercourse, but wanted to give me pleasure and be pleasured herself, she (they) regularly gave me handjobs while I used my fingers to stroke her labia and clitoris and/or to penetration her vagina. Didn't everyone do this?

Other times, and I guess especially for hormone crazed young people, we engaged in mutual masturbation when intercourse wasn't possible or convenient like in a small car or while trying to be discreet in a public place. I've been stroked off, and diddled my girl to orgasm, while in the backseat of a car while a friend and his girlfriend did the same in the front. I've secretly done the same, while huddled under a blanket "for warmth" in a public place or in situations where privacy couldn't be assured.

Beyond that, my wife and still engage in mutual masturbation as a regular part of our sex life. On that note, you might want to read this similar thread.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1282980

How did you find a partner?

Kind of the same way you find any sexual or romantic partner. I don't know that there's any way to find someone for just "mutual masturbation" as opposed to finding someone that would do anything else intimate with you.
What fuels your sex drive?

Hormones! The desire for pleasure and to give pleasure. Heaven forbid....love?
Do you watch porn together? And if so, what do you watch?

Not in my youth, when porn wasn't all that common, but certainly sometimes now. There is little that is "out of bounds" as far as sexual practices between my wife and I, and little that we haven't experienced individually or as a couple, so just about anything goes when we watch porn.

Do you have physical contact or are you just talking and watching each other?

YES. BOTH. Sometimes. All of the above.

If you do have physical contact does it lead to other sexual activities?

Yes. No. Sometimes. As I said in the thread linked above,
"If we're kissing, petting, and just generally being intimate, sometimes with my intent that it is foreplay leading to intercourse, she'll just let me know, "Not tonight," or rather "Not exactly that tonight," by taking my hand and moving it down to my penis. It's one of her ways of showing that she wants to be intimate, she wants to pleasure me (and her as well), but she doesn't want to have intercourse." All that to say that mutual masturbation isn't necessarily just a path to intercourse, it's an intimate act unto it's own.

What are your age differences?

Our age differences? Six years. I'm six years younger. But at 59 and 65 it really doesn't make much difference and we still mess around like rutting teenagers.
 
I have done this a few times, it's really hot watching her masturbate as I do the same. It also is great to see how she likes to be touched, after all, it's all about education!

My wife and I often indulge in mutual masturbation, side by side in our bed, watcing each other or with eyes closed, fantasizing. Sometimes to mutual climax...sometimes as a prelude to intercourse.
 
When we were dating in high school and college, my future wife and I masturbated each other on almost every date. We had vowed not to screw until our wedding night, but we needed some kind of release. I was surprised to find out after we were married that she had been screwed by several guys in college who wouldn't stop with mutual masturbation.
 
This is a fav staple of mine. During sex I'll often throw a curveball to my partner and start stroking in front of or on her while straddling. Few things get me hotter than watching a woman touch for me and to me. And I love being watched myself.

Probably the hottest experience was with a friend years ago in a private hotub. It was Jan so it was super cod outside but the water felt great. Talking lead to touching which lead to making out which turned into intercourse. For an hour we were going at it in the hot water and she needed a break. Since she had already came I needed to finish myself off. So I stood up in the tub, steam rising up into the early morning air around me, the lights illuminating from below and stroked for her. I still remember how big her eyes grew as she watched me perform in full glory just for her which only made me harder. Maybe it was the look in her eyes, or an hour of holding back, or the fucking cold air nipping my bare ass but I finished strong and shot out huge spurts into the darkness. It was quite erotic and something I've never forgotten.
 
I've done it, and also been just watched a few times. Definitely something you need to do at least once! Being seen doing it takes it to a whole new level. Its something so private, and you're letting someone else into your private world.

The wife and I have done this many times. She is very visual and likes to watch me and I love to perform for her.
I love it when she asks me to get naked and make myself cum on her tits, it's even better when she wants me to do it on our deck.
 
Yes

Her fingering herself, filling herself with fingers or toys -- the sounds, and me so turned on holding her....
 
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