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Ethanol always works on females. Stop trying to re-invent the wheel.
pink pill for women?
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To the OP
Probably the best libido enhancer is being with someone you find attractive and they you. As someone else above also said, being with someone who is not just willing but happy to do the things both mentally and physically to arouse you and give you pleasure is also the treat libido enhancer. In my day, one of my favorite things is to use fingers, tongue, words, and time to get a woman to the point of asking for more. It's what works naturally when you're with someone you feel comfortable and safe with.
What are your fantasies? Are there thoughts and fantasies that get you aroused? Do you masturbate? If not, you should. Sexual arousal and satisfaction absolutely fall into the "use it or lose" it category. Sex is one of those things where the more you have it, the more you want it. I think a small amount of abstinence helps to make you horny. Long term abstinence makes you just plain lose interest. I've never gone long enough without to know if that's true.
Have you had your hormone levels checked? Low hormone levels and/or other physical issues can have a libido reducing effect for both men and women. Have you had any life altering stress like illnesses or death of loved ones? A healthy libido won't necessarily be provided by a pill. The comment was made about ethanol.....the old "liquor is quicker" approach. For happy people, a little alcohol can often reduce inhibitions and bring the pants down. However, for people who are depressed or suffer from loss of libido for other reasons are often only made more depressed and withdrawn by alcohol. Booze is NOT the answer.
Good luck
Probably the best libido enhancer is being with someone you find attractive and they you. As someone else above also said, being with someone who is not just willing but happy to do the things both mentally and physically to arouse you and give you pleasure is also the treat libido enhancer. In my day, one of my favorite things is to use fingers, tongue, words, and time to get a woman to the point of asking for more. It's what works naturally when you're with someone you feel comfortable and safe with.
What are your fantasies? Are there thoughts and fantasies that get you aroused? Do you masturbate? If not, you should. Sexual arousal and satisfaction absolutely fall into the "use it or lose" it category. Sex is one of those things where the more you have it, the more you want it. I think a small amount of abstinence helps to make you horny. Long term abstinence makes you just plain lose interest. I've never gone long enough without to know if that's true.
Have you had your hormone levels checked? Low hormone levels and/or other physical issues can have a libido reducing effect for both men and women. Have you had any life altering stress like illnesses or death of loved ones? A healthy libido won't necessarily be provided by a pill. The comment was made about ethanol.....the old "liquor is quicker" approach. For happy people, a little alcohol can often reduce inhibitions and bring the pants down. However, for people who are depressed or suffer from loss of libido for other reasons are often only made more depressed and withdrawn by alcohol. Booze is NOT the answer.
Good luck
simplegirl
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Thanks for the tips and concern. I can see why my post is confusing, but my libido is (thankfully) quite active. My concern is on a more global scale: that women may be deprived of treatment because of stereotypes...the very same stereotypes that encourage treatment for men for a similar issue. Of course, this may not be the case at all, but I can't help but wonder. Big pharma research and develop treatments, but ultimately, it's the government (the FDA) that approves them. How much of a stumbling block will those stereotypes be? Completely obstructive or a non-issue?
I know it's a much more complex question than just breaking it down into black and white, but I very much appreciate reading people's responses.
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Update
Just saw this over at ThinkProgress: Fight Over ‘Female Viagra’ That’s Been Raging For Years Pits Scientists Against Feminists
Upshot: Sprout Pharmaceuticals re-submitted Flibanserin to the FDA for approval yesterday.
Just saw this over at ThinkProgress: Fight Over ‘Female Viagra’ That’s Been Raging For Years Pits Scientists Against Feminists
Upshot: Sprout Pharmaceuticals re-submitted Flibanserin to the FDA for approval yesterday.
satindesire
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Well what a lot of people misunderstand and what this thread gets wrong is confusing libido with ability to have sex.
When a person with a penis has ED, they may WANT to have PIV intercourse but cannot due to ED. There is nothing wrong with their libido, just their ability to get erect.
Viagra is not for libido. All it does is allow erections to happen in people that WANT them.
TLDR: Libido ≠ Ability
When a person with a penis has ED, they may WANT to have PIV intercourse but cannot due to ED. There is nothing wrong with their libido, just their ability to get erect.
Viagra is not for libido. All it does is allow erections to happen in people that WANT them.
TLDR: Libido ≠ Ability
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