Daddy fetish (New)

Rob1514 said:

Hello Peaches, the Duchess, Tina, Mia, Heatsink, Nigel, the Surreal one, the sereneone (extremely sexy baby girl ). Hello INL ... I saw the fun and sexy thread started for you, and I contributed . Hello RJ, RA, TT, DD, and XYZ . Hello to everyone! Ready for the weekend?

One more semester for me and that's it! Done! No more school! and then I'll join back into the rat race with you all

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DappleDoxie said:

oh ... Le ... Frikkin' ... Sigh

Let everyone actually be crystal on the fact there are always two sides to any relationship, and that the bad experiences have been in my own area code - not a dang thing to do with you. Nor have I, until now, had a cross word to say about or to you in an open forum. You cannot say the same, can you?

I thought we had sorted out our differences in private, as well mannered folk do. Your latest public rant has proven much different. I had thought so much better of you, HS. I really had. My only 'crime' was returning to work full time, having a bit of a life & friends, and not being at your beck and call each and every evening. No matter your vitriolic social behavior, I still value and treasure the time I spent in your company and wish you nothing but the best. Hwyl fawr, syr annwyl.

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"My beloved sister DD - you have been both publicly and privately reticent re: matters with a certain "Daddy'. You are correct (and I wish I had the wisdom to have handled matters similarly when a certain other 'Daddy' made his big announcement) that the 'Great Room' is not the place to air differences or to launch attacks. I certainly hope you will continue to come be a regular participant in our family - you have been sorely missed those times when you have not been able to be here. I don't know what happened (nor do I wish to) but having said that I should repeat that we ARE a family - you ARE my sister - and anyone choosing to attack one of my sisters (like that R.H. stalker vermin) might expect to see the shiny side of my baseball bat!"

peachesmelba said:

"I certainly hope you will continue to come be a regular participant in our family - you have been sorely missed those times when you have not been able to be here.

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peachesmelba said:

"My beloved sister DD - you have been both publicly and privately reticent re: matters with a certain "Daddy'.

That is understandable, nobody with more than two brain cells dishes out inexcusable bad behavior and then broadcasts those realities.

You are correct (and I wish I had the wisdom to have handled matters similarly when a certain other 'Daddy' made his big announcement) that the 'Great Room' is not the place to air differences or to launch attacks.

What 'Big announcement?' there was no big announcement from me, merely my response to a less than unambiguous swipe that may or may not have been aimed in my direction, from someone I have learned, with good reason, not to give any latitude for 'Benefit of the doubt.' Also your first paragraph infers no insight into the relevant situation, but you nevertheless added your unquestioning support to the post which got up my nose?

You personally may not consider the 'Great room' a suitable venue for adult exchanges, but your view is just that-a personal one. We are all free and equal here within the forum rules and the moderators fair application of them, not so?


anyone choosing to attack one of my sisters (like that R.H. stalker vermin) might expect to see the shiny side of my baseball bat!"

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I have no quarrel with you Peaches, nor any desire for one, so let us leave the baseball bat aside, otherwise it may end up somewhere where the sun don't shine and certainly without bothering me.

RubenesqueAphrodite said:

My son made honor roll..Again.

At least I *have* a job, that I enjoy somewhat.

And I know, my boys will look back on this (really) hard time and know I did my best, that I loved them unconditionally, and never made a decision that wasn't in their best interests.

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DappleDoxie said:

RA ... you are a strong and wonderful woman. Your boys are lucky to have you as a mom. Being a supportive parent is an incredibly tough job!! Congrats on your young'uns Honor Roll!!!!
Try to find something fun and wonderful to do for you this fine day!

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Thank you..Sometimes you just need to hear it.

RubenesqueAphrodite said:

Thank you..Sometimes you just need to hear it.

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RubenesqueAphrodite said:

wishing everyone the greatest of Saturdays, wherever you are.

I woke up with a headache... Again.

I think the stress is getting to me...Again. (never knew asking for child support would be an issue. Haven't asked, required, demanded ANYTHING but child support, and I'm stunned by the reaction. Brings me close to tears every. .. single. .. day. )

Working 9+ hours a day at a desk isn't helping, either.

BUT!!!

My son made honor roll..Again.

At least I *have* a job, that I enjoy somewhat.

And I know, my boys will look back on this (really) hard time and know I did my best, that I loved them unconditionally, and never made a decision that wasn't in their best interests.

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RubenesqueAphrodite said:

wishing everyone the greatest of Saturdays, wherever you are.

I woke up with a headache... Again.

I think the stress is getting to me...Again. (never knew asking for child support would be an issue. Haven't asked, required, demanded ANYTHING but child support, and I'm stunned by the reaction. Brings me close to tears every. .. single. .. day. )

Working 9+ hours a day at a desk isn't helping, either.

BUT!!!

My son made honor roll..Again.

At least I *have* a job, that I enjoy somewhat.

And I know, my boys will look back on this (really) hard time and know I did my best, that I loved them unconditionally, and never made a decision that wasn't in their best interests.

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heatsink said:

I have no quarrel with you Peaches, nor any desire for one, so let us leave the baseball bat aside, otherwise it may end up somewhere where the sun don't shine and certainly without bothering me.

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RubenesqueAphrodite said:

wishing everyone the greatest of Saturdays, wherever you are.

I woke up with a headache... Again.

I think the stress is getting to me...Again. (never knew asking for child support would be an issue. Haven't asked, required, demanded ANYTHING but child support, and I'm stunned by the reaction. Brings me close to tears every. .. single. .. day. )

Working 9+ hours a day at a desk isn't helping, either.

BUT!!!

My son made honor roll..Again.

At least I *have* a job, that I enjoy somewhat.

And I know, my boys will look back on this (really) hard time and know I did my best, that I loved them unconditionally, and never made a decision that wasn't in their best interests.

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"Oh sweetie - I'm so sorry to hear about everything you are going through right now. I'm glad your son made Honor Roll - that is a great achievement and my Sisters are correct - you are a WONDERFUL mother and your sons will remember that and your struggles to support and care for them.

"As an aside and because I have a certain amount of experience in these areas - get yourself a lawyer as soon as you possibly can. The State of Texas, at least when I lived there, frowned heavily on fathers who did not pay child support. I didn't ask for it but was happily astonished at the amount I was granted. Not only did the state INSIST that I receive child support for my son, they immediately garnished my ex's payroll to ensure that I receive it.

"Finally - yes, medically there is sound evidence that stress can cause headaches. On a personal note (and knocking on wood as I write the words) I have not had one migraine at the level I used to have them regularly - not since I moved and took my new job. I may make less money but the freedom from working 10+ hours a day and from the stress of that job - well, I am a MUCH happier camper. Get some rest and, as my sister said, do something nice for yourself. (((HUGS))) and "

RjThoughts said:

Didn't a certain someone have a certain amount of apprehension of sending their progeny to public school? Didn't she worry that they wouldn't do well?

Hmmmmm

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"You're such a good Daddy to all of us Daddy RJ." "Did you get your story written down so you could sleep?"

peachesmelba said:

"Oh sweetie - I'm so sorry to hear about everything you are going through right now. I'm glad your son made Honor Roll - that is a great achievement and my Sisters are correct - you are a WONDERFUL mother and your sons will remember that and your struggles to support and care for them.

"As an aside and because I have a certain amount of experience in these areas - get yourself a lawyer as soon as you possibly can. The State of Texas, at least when I lived there, frowned heavily on fathers who did not pay child support. I didn't ask for it but was happily astonished at the amount I was granted. Not only did the state INSIST that I receive child support for my son, they immediately garnished my ex's payroll to ensure that I receive it.

"Finally - yes, medically there is sound evidence that stress can cause headaches. On a personal note (and knocking on wood as I write the words) I have not had one migraine at the level I used to have them regularly - not since I moved and took my new job. I may make less money but the freedom from working 10+ hours a day and from the stress of that job - well, I am a MUCH happier camper. Get some rest and, as my sister said, do something nice for yourself. (((HUGS))) and "

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RubenesqueAphrodite said:

I do have an attorney. And Texas requires 25% for two children. . same as NC... only thing.. He's now threatened to not sign if I can't figure out how he can get -in writing- a specific $$ amount that *he* wants to pay instead of the 25% that's mandated. . Had the nerve to tell me the *only* reason I was asking for 25% was because that's what the state said to. .Not because I actually needed it. .

Sorry mother fucker... Does he really think I*want* to be living with my sister? If I didn't need the help I sure as shit wouldn't ask him for anything but his signature. Legally I could go after half of everything he has.. But I m not.. The only thing I've asked for is child support. No more. No less.. And it's too much according to him. I'd just as soon rot in hell as to as him for anything.. so for him to threaten me now? After all I've put up with? Threaten me now that there will be no divorce because of the CHILD SUPPORT?????

I just don't understand it. And it makes my blood boil. It brings me to a place that few have ever seen and I try hard to suppress. Hence the stress...

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RjThoughts said:

Didn't a certain someone have a certain amount of apprehension of sending their progeny to public school? Didn't she worry that they wouldn't do well?

Hmmmmm

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sereneone4u said:

Don't give in.

The judge will side with you.

I dealt with family court a lot as a social worker and a GAL and that shit never flew with any judge I worked with.

Don't give him the reaction he wants either.

He wins when you allow that.

You can do this.

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I'm trying..

RubenesqueAphrodite said:

I'm trying..

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DappleDoxie said:

oh ... Le ... Frikkin' ... Sigh

My only 'crime' was returning to work full time, having a bit of a life & friends, and not being at your beck and call each and every evening. No matter your vitriolic social behavior, I still value and treasure the time I spent in your company and wish you nothing but the best. Hwyl fawr, syr annwyl.

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peachesmelba said:

"AMAZING! I wasn't speaking TO you Sir, NOR was my reference regarding using the Great Room as a venue for making his big announcement even ABOUT you! I was referring to an incident with MY OWN ex-Daddy who publicly shamed and dumped me and then came back to announce....oh never mind. The universe, Sir, does not revolve around you - not everyone is talking ABOUT you, and not EVERYTHING is relevant to you. I was telling my Sister that she has my unquestioning support because she IS my Sister and THAT is what family does. And please, TRY to take my baseball bat away..."

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RubenesqueAphrodite said:

*sheepishly answers* I know. . But even the teachers were wary of him coming in Street having home schooled from Day 1.. guess I did a better job than I previously thought. And I couldn't be more proud!!

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