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Advice for a girl finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a girl `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the best case scenario you could have second only to having a Dom partner..

It is the most natural partnership in the world, a girl sub over her Master/Sir`s knee for the start of selection of punishments.

It does happen in many relationships, the problem is having a Dominant husband/partner to start with.

It is well known you can "turn on" a man in seconds with the female body; this is the beginning of how to try to convert a vanilla into a Dom.

You need to devise games to tempt him. A good one is to download a DVD with the storyline you would most love to be happening to you, example, it
could contain a hair brushing over the knee and the girl giving oral.

That would be a plus for you and him, the game is watch the DVD together and to you stop the DVD and mimic what you watched, so you get a hair brushing
and he the pleasure of oral.
You would tell him that every time he spanks you he receives oral.
You could try a second DVD with a belting and anal, the options are many and the DVDs readily available free on line.

A second plan would be naked on all fours on a coffee table for when he comes home and have a belt resting over your waist
.Tell him you have been naughty and need to be punished. Explain you have 3 holes he can use by walking around the table, using one as he gets to it,
but after oral he can only use a `back` hole every other time, the other time he has to either spank you red or belt you red. It really is up to you which
instruments you choose.

If it looks as though its working tell him a sub Taken in Hand, also wakes her Master/Sir up each morning with her hand and mouth, as mine still dose after
40+ years.

All the above said, let`s look alternatives, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline
Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even someone`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as jillbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.

Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.

Donbrown190@yahoo.co.u






Don Brown 2017

Advice for a boy finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a boy `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the worst case scenario you could have.

It does happen in some successful DD relationships, the problem is having a Dominant partner to start with.

All the above said, let`s look at an alternative, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even some one`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

All respectable meets or munches will provide a boy on his own with a chaperone for her first visit, just ask.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email us at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as billbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.


Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.
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Don Brown 2017

Advice for a girl finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a girl `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the best case scenario you could have second only to having a Dom partner..

It is the most natural partnership in the world, a girl sub over her Master/Sir`s knee for the start of selection of punishments.

It does happen in many relationships, the problem is having a Dominant husband/partner to start with.

It is well known you can "turn on" a man in seconds with the female body; this is the beginning of how to try to convert a vanilla into a Dom.

You need to devise games to tempt him. A good one is to download a DVD with the storyline you would most love to be happening to you, example, it
could contain a hair brushing over the knee and the girl giving oral.

That would be a plus for you and him, the game is watch the DVD together and to you stop the DVD and mimic what you watched, so you get a hair brushing
and he the pleasure of oral.
You would tell him that every time he spanks you he receives oral.
You could try a second DVD with a belting and anal, the options are many and the DVDs readily available free on line.

A second plan would be naked on all fours on a coffee table for when he comes home and have a belt resting over your waist
.Tell him you have been naughty and need to be punished. Explain you have 3 holes he can use by walking around the table, using one as he gets to it,
but after oral he can only use a `back` hole every other time, the other time he has to either spank you red or belt you red. It really is up to you which
instruments you choose.

If it looks as though its working tell him a sub Taken in Hand, also wakes her Master/Sir up each morning with her hand and mouth, as mine still dose after
40+ years.

All the above said, let`s look alternatives, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline
Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even someone`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as jillbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.

Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.

Donbrown190@yahoo.co.u






Don Brown 2017

Advice for a boy finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a boy `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the worst case scenario you could have.

It does happen in some successful DD relationships, the problem is having a Dominant partner to start with.

All the above said, let`s look at an alternative, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even some one`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

All respectable meets or munches will provide a boy on his own with a chaperone for her first visit, just ask.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email us at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as billbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.


Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.
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Old 04-01-2018, 01:53 PM   #4
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Don Brown 2017

Advice for a girl finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a girl `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the best case scenario you could have second only to having a Dom partner..

It is the most natural partnership in the world, a girl sub over her Master/Sir`s knee for the start of selection of punishments.

It does happen in many relationships, the problem is having a Dominant husband/partner to start with.

It is well known you can "turn on" a man in seconds with the female body; this is the beginning of how to try to convert a vanilla into a Dom.

You need to devise games to tempt him. A good one is to download a DVD with the storyline you would most love to be happening to you, example, it
could contain a hair brushing over the knee and the girl giving oral.

That would be a plus for you and him, the game is watch the DVD together and to you stop the DVD and mimic what you watched, so you get a hair brushing
and he the pleasure of oral.
You would tell him that every time he spanks you he receives oral.
You could try a second DVD with a belting and anal, the options are many and the DVDs readily available free on line.

A second plan would be naked on all fours on a coffee table for when he comes home and have a belt resting over your waist
.Tell him you have been naughty and need to be punished. Explain you have 3 holes he can use by walking around the table, using one as he gets to it,
but after oral he can only use a `back` hole every other time, the other time he has to either spank you red or belt you red. It really is up to you which
instruments you choose.

If it looks as though its working tell him a sub Taken in Hand, also wakes her Master/Sir up each morning with her hand and mouth, as mine still dose after
40+ years.

All the above said, let`s look alternatives, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline
Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even someone`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as jillbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.

Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.

Donbrown190@yahoo.co.u






Don Brown 2017

Advice for a boy finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a boy `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the worst case scenario you could have.

It does happen in some successful DD relationships, the problem is having a Dominant partner to start with.

All the above said, let`s look at an alternative, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even some one`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

All respectable meets or munches will provide a boy on his own with a chaperone for her first visit, just ask.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email us at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as billbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.


Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.
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Don Brown 2017

Advice for a girl finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a girl `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the best case scenario you could have second only to having a Dom partner..

It is the most natural partnership in the world, a girl sub over her Master/Sir`s knee for the start of selection of punishments.

It does happen in many relationships, the problem is having a Dominant husband/partner to start with.

It is well known you can "turn on" a man in seconds with the female body; this is the beginning of how to try to convert a vanilla into a Dom.

You need to devise games to tempt him. A good one is to download a DVD with the storyline you would most love to be happening to you, example, it
could contain a hair brushing over the knee and the girl giving oral.

That would be a plus for you and him, the game is watch the DVD together and to you stop the DVD and mimic what you watched, so you get a hair brushing
and he the pleasure of oral.
You would tell him that every time he spanks you he receives oral.
You could try a second DVD with a belting and anal, the options are many and the DVDs readily available free on line.

A second plan would be naked on all fours on a coffee table for when he comes home and have a belt resting over your waist
.Tell him you have been naughty and need to be punished. Explain you have 3 holes he can use by walking around the table, using one as he gets to it,
but after oral he can only use a `back` hole every other time, the other time he has to either spank you red or belt you red. It really is up to you which
instruments you choose.

If it looks as though its working tell him a sub Taken in Hand, also wakes her Master/Sir up each morning with her hand and mouth, as mine still dose after
40+ years.

All the above said, let`s look alternatives, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline
Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even someone`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as jillbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.

Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.

Donbrown190@yahoo.co.u






Don Brown 2017

Advice for a boy finding a DD partner or converting the partner you have into your Dom.

Being a boy `spankee` in a `vanilla` relationship is actually the worst case scenario you could have.

It does happen in some successful DD relationships, the problem is having a Dominant partner to start with.

All the above said, let`s look at an alternative, the obvious is to visit a Disciplinarian.

Decide first if you want a Dom/male or Domme/female disciplinarian.

Then Google - Disciplinarian Yorkshire - Obviously your area, city or town. Simply choose your tormentor.

The second option would be to find a local Domestic Discipline meet (as in meeting, usually at a local pub and pretty low key) or local Domestic Discipline Munch (More of a gathering in a local hall, hotel or even some one`s home)

"Google" Domestic Discipline group in your area type in those words and your city if nothing comes up try Googling BDSM and your city.

All respectable meets or munches will provide a boy on his own with a chaperone for her first visit, just ask.

If the last method did not work, think about forming your own group. Over the years I have formed 3 groups.

Simply place an advert in your local paper as below;
We are a small group of people who live a Domestic Discipline, DD, life style and wish to form a group to meet once a month, anyone interested email us at.

You would have obviously made up and set up a new anonymous email address, nothing smutty, simply anonymous.
Try adding a name in it so someone who answers would call you the name, such as billbrown@hotmail.co.uk see what I mean, then wait for replies.

You could try DD instead of the full words on a first attempt to see what happens, if no results add the full words.

Another option is to join an internet chat room such as Spankingchat.com or Alt.com , plenty more sites available worldwide.

With an online relationship its pretty important to ensure who you speak to is who they say, if they send you a photo, supposedly of them you can check.
Go to Google Image, click the camera on the search line then copy the photo and pate it in the image sections and search. If its genuine no results would come up, if a stock photo all the places it has been posted on will appear, a lot of phony chancer`s about, be careful.


Good luck and please keep me posted with your results and other suggestions.
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