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RacyWilde

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HO LEE SHIT! That was painful just to watch it!!

I recommend you start smaller than that!
 
RacyWilde said:
k.... so I'm looking for some insider knowledge about fisting training. I've got this very adventurous guy who wants to be destroyed... (but really, I want to take care of him during the process...lol.) Any advice or links that are frank, real, safe and sane is much appreciated.

Just so we understand what I'm talking about:

https://xhamster.com/movies/2087743/mistress_with_strapon_fucking_and_double_fisting_her_sub.html

Cheers

x
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good to see you posting, but i can't help you here....
 
crashD said:
wait, someone is more advanced than you on some sexual kink?? hard to believe..
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Yeah, I only use thunder dildos that can still support their own weight...lol. I haven't tried one where you need a neck harness to balance out the weight - this dude is hardcore! lol.
 
She did me recently

She recently fisted my hungry ass! One finger at a time, with gloves. It's not as difficult as one might think. Once past the thumb, the rest is amazing!! The connection....
 
I've tried it but it didnt work out. I've had very large items in my ass but his fist just wouldn't fit in.
 
I haven't been fisted yet, wife isn't into it. We have used toys thou, start small and work your way up, I have taken the Jeff Stryker attachment toy, the toy is like 12*6 I think. To me the pleasure is in feeling the opening opened.
 
chapelsknight said:
I haven't been fisted yet, wife isn't into it. We have used toys thou, start small and work your way up, I have taken the Jeff Stryker attachment toy, the toy is like 12*6 I think. To me the pleasure is in feeling the opening opened.
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I agree...the pleasure is being opened! That's why I prefer larger and larger girths, rather than extreme lengths! I'm working on taking the head (3-1/2 inch diameter) of my Jolly Good Giant Dong.

LOTS of the best lubes you can get and plenty of prep stretching!
 
use butt plugs and dildoes for training.
Leave a large butt plug in for 20-30 minutes.

Thing is, with fisting, it's pretty much not you who's supposed to be training. It's the recepient. The trick to any rough anal is knowing your body and learning to relax the sphincter and accept the toys in.

The firsat step would be when he learns to accept standard-sized dildoes and butt plugs easily, so that they slide in just after several pushes.

Then you start fucking his ass with a dildo for a few minutes.

Switch to two fingers, but concentrate not on sliding in and out, but on pulling down, kind of. You can give him a prostate massage while you are at it.

After a minute, slide the third finger in. Play with him a bit more.

When he relaxes enough that it stops being very tight, slide the fourth in, and slowly work your way to put your entire hand in, up to the thumb, without a thumb.

When it feels more loose, try sliding your hand (4 fingers) in and out a few times.

Then hold your hand in a kind ofpinching position, like you are holding a pinch of salt with all five fingers. Slide your thumb back a bit until it reaches about the middle of your fingers, and your other fingers wtap around it.
Your aim is to make your fist into a long and narrow straight object, with all fingers straight and pointing in the same direction.

Slowly work that in him. Your aim is to get past the knuckle of the thumb, because that's the hardest part. Once you work that in, the rest follows. You can bring your fist in more sort of a ball and fuck him with it more roughly, even continue working to get it deeper.

Now, a few other things to remember.
1) Use lots of lube. LOTS.
2) Be very very careful with long nails, if you have them.
3) Be patient. It will take 30-40 minutes even with a trained person. In porn they do up to an hour prep before the shoot.
4) Your sub needs to know when his bowels are empty. Wash, use enema.
5) wash your hands thoroughly before the playtime, and try not to touch other things to reduce the risk of bacteria on your hand.
6) Be very mindful of where you put your hand when you take it out and what you touch. Anal is a very dirty place, bacteria-wise. There are lots of bacterias in your digestive system that are harmless to you while being extremely toxic and harmful to everyone else. Thus, don't touch your pussy or your mouth with that hand
7)In fact, avoid ass-to-mouth. The person himself may get sick too. People do that, but technically it's still a health risk, even though not a huge one. Up to you.
8) Don't expect it to work the first time.
9) Ass is quite large when stretched all the way, actually. It doesn't "stretch" with practice - you just learn how to relax it enough to allow it to be stretched.
10) That said, it can be ripped or damaged. so be careful. Only make the next step when you feel he's loose enough to take it. If it's too tight - don't put more fingers in.

good luck!
 
I have long had the desire to be fisted. Having someone massage my prostate till I explode and pass out from the forced orgasm!
 
Carnevil9 said:
HO LEE SHIT! That was painful just to watch it!!

I recommend you start smaller than that!
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I completely agree! I actually couldn't watch most of it. While I try to never judge someone else's fetish or kink, I sometimes struggle to understand how somethings could be enjoyable. Worse, the side/length of that dildo, seems like it could cause a serious injury. Maybe I'm just ignorant.
 
RacyWilde said:
lol... yes... but the guy is more advanced than I am. He's up the the wrist deep part...lol.
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Well, then the "hard" part for you is done ;) but slow and steady is always the best way to proceed anyway. Use PLENTY of lube, when you think you have lubed him enuff, put on a bit more.

Keep your nails trimmed, you REALLY dont want give him a tear or anthing in there as first it hurts like hell, and it can cause an infection if you draw blood from it, and it can also give him hemoroids later.

Just treat his ass like you would your own, for the most part atleast ;) And trust me, he is gonna let you know if you are doing something wrong ;)

And one last tip, after a fisting session, give him some time to recoup after, let his muscles have some time to "heal" ;)

Other then that, enjoy it as much as you can. I got fisted once before, and it gave me my most powerfull orgasme Ive ever had in my life. Oozed ALOT of precum, didnt shoot as much cum as it was my second(or third orgasme that night) but if felt fucking amazing! :)
 
Nezhul said:
Now, a few other things to remember.
1) Use lots of lube. LOTS.
2) Be very very careful with long nails, if you have them.
3) Be patient. It will take 30-40 minutes even with a trained person. In porn they do up to an hour prep before the shoot.
4) Your sub needs to know when his bowels are empty. Wash, use enema.
5) wash your hands thoroughly before the playtime, and try not to touch other things to reduce the risk of bacteria on your hand.
6) Be very mindful of where you put your hand when you take it out and what you touch. Anal is a very dirty place, bacteria-wise. There are lots of bacterias in your digestive system that are harmless to you while being extremely toxic and harmful to everyone else. Thus, don't touch your pussy or your mouth with that hand
7)In fact, avoid ass-to-mouth. The person himself may get sick too. People do that, but technically it's still a health risk, even though not a huge one. Up to you.
8) Don't expect it to work the first time.
9) Ass is quite large when stretched all the way, actually. It doesn't "stretch" with practice - you just learn how to relax it enough to allow it to be stretched.
10) That said, it can be ripped or damaged. so be careful. Only make the next step when you feel he's loose enough to take it. If it's too tight - don't put more fingers in.
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Best real-life advice I've seen. Fantasy is one thing. For-real takes effort.
 
@Alle

Thanks everyone! :kiss:

I've had the pleasure of being intimate with a few boys now and I must say, I love it. It's really nice to be with a guy who is aware of his body and who gets so much pleasure out of it.

xx
 
I must admit, I have had a lot of anal sex with a lot of men and women, and had some really big cocks up my ass, but I have never been fisted or fisted anyone else, that looks like it would feel great.
 
RacyWilde said:
k.... so I'm looking for some insider knowledge about fisting training. I've got this very adventurous guy who wants to be destroyed... (but really, I want to take care of him during the process...lol.) Any advice or links that are frank, real, safe and sane is much appreciated.


x
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Why do people keep using the term "destroyed" in various threads about anal sex? I've been into anal play, and BIG anal play including being fisted, for 45+ years and nothing has been destroyed.

Slow and easy, with plenty of lube, and it all "works out in the end"....LOL

Here's a nice tutorial and largely from a hetero point of view. The Slut Academy, TECH 105: Anal Sex Techniques
 
Working up

I would love to be fisted. I’m happy we are at 9 inch strapon. I’m still trying to get that from her more than once. While wifey was asleep today I throated that 9 inch and then took it all up my ass. Just trying to stay loose when she’s ready to take the next step.
 
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