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I used to use xdress.com a lot until i realised I could find their stuff or at least very similar for cheaper prices with a little browsing. They do have nice stuff though
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I used to use xdress.com a lot until i realised I could find their stuff or at least very similar for cheaper prices with a little browsing. They do have nice stuff though
SuperSissy
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I'm with you, sister. I love a soft nightie for bed, usually baby doll style, no g-string or panties. I just don't want to take it off. In fact, it's almost 3 pm and I'm still sitting around in my baby doll!!!
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sexy but lacking cock
Yeah, we've bought a few things direct from them mostly to support them. But certainly cheaper prices to be found for the same exact things on amazon/ebay/etsy and other resellers.
Seasonal question:
Anyone used Halloween to take their crossdressing public or semi-public? I've had my eye on a Dorothy costume...but am 6'7 and totally not passable. Or just going with the Rocky Horror look.
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irishblade
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How do y’all hide it from your SO if they aren’t comfortable with it? I’d love to explore more but very scared of being outed.
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Don't. Open communication is key to a successful marriage. It may take time to work up the courage or drop subtle hints to gauge the reaction. But hiding something like that from someone you love and accept and who should love and accept all of you is not a way to go through life.
Relevant article I stumbled on today:
http://www.chicagonow.com/shades-gender/2015/05/could-your-husband-be-a-cross-dresser/
I assure you it’s much more common than you may think. Just don’t go overboard and still be that man she fell in love with most of the time.
Do you think she would rather have a husband that can be totally honest with her, and crossdress on occasion, or one who appears ‘manly’ 100% of the time but hiding a big secret she may just stumble on out of the blue someday?
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bimori
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Very good point but I’m sure he has the fear that she may just reject him. I say take it so with her. Show her some xdressing pic and ask her how she feels.
Personally I’d go more with something more light hearted. Jokingly put on a pair of her panties if they’ll fit or use her nail polish or something as a laugh when she’s in a good mood and gauge reaction to that. Throwing a porn pic up of another person is entirely different than accepting an odd behavior of your s.o.
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That would good also. She may get the idea that you like it when you cum in her panties.
Coming out
I started with some panties from xdress and bodyaware that leaned towards the femine. I slowly transitioned over to gender neutral panties and colors such as the Jockey NPLP line. Now I wear panties 24/7 with alot of them being very pretty and feminine. Take it very SLOW. Let your SO slowly realize that despite your choice of underwear you are still you, the man she fell in love with. My wife says that since I've been wearing panties that I am much more attentive and loving. I started this whole transition about 10 years ago. Remember SLOW.
Never wear her lingerie unless she asks you too. Get your own. Either go online and shop or better yet just go to store and purchase yourself some panties. I now do 99 percent of my purchases in store and have never had a negative response.
My SO has slowly accepted my preferences for underwear to the extent that one time while shopping at a Jockey outlet store as I was finding some NPLP bikinis in neutral colors she came up and picked a pair of black with red flowers and stated that they were very pretty.
We made our purchase and left the store, without the pretty ones. I returned a couple days later and purchased the pretty pair. I did not go home and announce that I had gone back and purchased them and model them. I simply put them in the bottom of my drawer and saved them for a later date. While on vacation about a year earlier I put them on after my shower and joined her in bed. She was somewhat shocked when I came out with them on, but stated that she remembered them in the store and they looked very pretty on me. SLOW.
She knows of my crossdressing and wishes to take it further. Very recently one evening we were getting ready to go out to dinner and she came out of the bedroom and lifted up the back of her top and asked me to adjust her bra strap. As i commenced to straighten and tighten it I commented to her that maybe some day she could do the same thing for me. She just laughed and told me I'm crazy. GO SLOW AND KEEP IT LIGHT!
Life is short. Enjoy yourself and have fun.
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BTW. The attachment above is the exact pair of panties I went back to purchase
I started with some panties from xdress and bodyaware that leaned towards the femine. I slowly transitioned over to gender neutral panties and colors such as the Jockey NPLP line. Now I wear panties 24/7 with alot of them being very pretty and feminine. Take it very SLOW. Let your SO slowly realize that despite your choice of underwear you are still you, the man she fell in love with. My wife says that since I've been wearing panties that I am much more attentive and loving. I started this whole transition about 10 years ago. Remember SLOW.
Never wear her lingerie unless she asks you too. Get your own. Either go online and shop or better yet just go to store and purchase yourself some panties. I now do 99 percent of my purchases in store and have never had a negative response.
My SO has slowly accepted my preferences for underwear to the extent that one time while shopping at a Jockey outlet store as I was finding some NPLP bikinis in neutral colors she came up and picked a pair of black with red flowers and stated that they were very pretty.
We made our purchase and left the store, without the pretty ones. I returned a couple days later and purchased the pretty pair. I did not go home and announce that I had gone back and purchased them and model them. I simply put them in the bottom of my drawer and saved them for a later date. While on vacation about a year earlier I put them on after my shower and joined her in bed. She was somewhat shocked when I came out with them on, but stated that she remembered them in the store and they looked very pretty on me. SLOW.
She knows of my crossdressing and wishes to take it further. Very recently one evening we were getting ready to go out to dinner and she came out of the bedroom and lifted up the back of her top and asked me to adjust her bra strap. As i commenced to straighten and tighten it I commented to her that maybe some day she could do the same thing for me. She just laughed and told me I'm crazy. GO SLOW AND KEEP IT LIGHT!
Life is short. Enjoy yourself and have fun.
View attachment 2056077
BTW. The attachment above is the exact pair of panties I went back to purchase
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Yeah essential to keep yourself from going full blown horn dog right out of the gate. You need some slow foreplay to build up the idea essentially. For us now, she wants to be involved with every purchase and would get more upset if I went off and bought something myself. She regularly buys me something as gifts though.
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irishblade
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Thanks everyone. Very good and valid points. I wish my wife was fun and open minded but I’m not that lucky. She’s made it very clear in past discussions so it’s a no-gray area topic for her.
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Yep, I'm right there with you! My wife found my stash a few years ago and went ballistic. I don't want to lose her so I threw it all out {sigh} but have since then replenished it and are 10x more discrete. I'm fortunate enough to have plenty of good secure hiding places. I was too nonchalant before and actually was air drying a bunch of clothes in an upstairs bedroom she rarely ever entered.
bimori
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Did your wife know they were yours or did she think they were trophies from other girls?
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Good advice and good luck
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Those are so cute!!! I'm jealous! I bet you look so sexy in them.
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I can see why looks amazing and id be running my hand over them too
Gorgeous
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There are loads of threads on here about crossdressing, but specifically dressing girlie is a big part of it for me.
I love the overgrown schoolgirl look. Probably my favourite look is a short blonde wig, white knee high socks and hotpants or pleated skirt. I wear a skinny hoodie and mirror shades, and smoke a cigarette to complete the look.
Of course, you have to have pink bra and panties on underneath. I'd love some patent leather Mary Jane shoes in black or baby pink, too.
I love the overgrown schoolgirl look. Probably my favourite look is a short blonde wig, white knee high socks and hotpants or pleated skirt. I wear a skinny hoodie and mirror shades, and smoke a cigarette to complete the look.
Of course, you have to have pink bra and panties on underneath. I'd love some patent leather Mary Jane shoes in black or baby pink, too.
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There are loads of threads on here about crossdressing, but specifically dressing girlie is a big part of it for me.
I love the overgrown schoolgirl look. Probably my favourite look is a short blonde wig, white knee high socks and hotpants or pleated skirt. I wear a skinny hoodie and mirror shades, and smoke a cigarette to complete the look.
Of course, you have to have pink bra and panties on underneath. I'd love some patent leather Mary Jane shoes in black or baby pink, too.
better with pics
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