New faces, come say hello....

Hi everyone. New to these forums and new to the scene. My SO just recently told me that she wanted to be a sub in a D/s relationship. This kind of shocked me as she seems to need to control everything in the day to day. I on the other hand, am very timid in the day to day and like to go with the flow. This idea of hers intrigued me though and I've been dabbling with it a bit over the last few days. Came here looking for ideas and opinions. Hope I find what I'm looking for.
 
Hello!

Totally new here. I've know about/been interested BDSM a while. I'm actually most interested in the D/s in a non-sexual manner. The trust and intricacies that go along with it. I think i'd like a D/s relationship eventually, however, i doubt it happens because of my disinterest in sex. So, for now i'm here to talk and hopefully make friends! :cattail: Messages welcome! And the questions, obviously.
 
Not a newbie, but a returner. I used to hang out on this thread about 10 years ago (thats a scary number).

Life changed ALOT, but I'm back in a possible relationship which has definite D/s potential.
I'd love to hear from anyone from the old days who is still around: Cymbadia, James, RisiaSkye, Caroline, Doctor Blue and others.
I'm also hoping to find a group of kinkster friends to help support my return to the scene
 
It's nice to meet someone like me, though it's been more time for me and the lifestyle. I was in several D/so relationships years ago, but met someone not interested and I left the lifestyle over 20 years ago. We recently went our separate ways and I have found myself gravitating back to a Dominant life. I've been lucky enough to find a wonderful sub and am enjoying my days much more.
It's great to meet you petrel, I hope you find some of your old friends.
 
Totally new here. I've know about/been interested BDSM a while. I'm actually most interested in the D/s in a non-sexual manner. The trust and intricacies that go along with it. I think i'd like a D/s relationship eventually, however, i doubt it happens because of my disinterest in sex. So, for now i'm here to talk and hopefully make friends! :cattail: Messages welcome! And the questions, obviously.


Welcome! Know that you're among others that also feel this way. :) Sex does not have to be included when talking about d/s relationships. There are plenty of us interested in the non-sexual side.
 
Hello!

I'm totally new to Literotica - just joined today - but I'm a long-time erotica reader. I've written my first piece and submitted it, so we'll see how that goes.
I've been researching and learning about D/s for about a year now, but I've never been in a D/s relationship.
I'm somewhat different from some of the online D/s community in that I'm all about monogamy and the traditional gender roles - male dominance, and female submission. That doesn't mean I don't respect those who feel differently, just that I know where my interests are.
Anyway, I'm here to learn and continue to grow. I look forward to reading posts and hopefully making some new friends along the way.
 
Hi! I'm new here, and trying to get started. I've know about bdsm for awhile it always seems to be my go to porn. I've been with boyfriend for almost 3 years and I don't know how to tell him that I like when he puts his hands around my throat and tasks control when we have sex. I have always been pretty shy throughout my life and I guess now I'm just trying to bust out of my shell. ☺️
 
Hello, not sure I've ever posted here but just saying hello to both new and old faces. I'm a submissive straight male.
 
Hi to all -- new faces and older ones

Hi --- A word to people new to Literotica - remember to enable PRIVATE MESSAGES in your profile here if you want to be able to send/receive from others.

Gabriel
 
Howdy all,

Lurker who enjoys the stories and finally decided to check out the forums. I had a SO once upon a time who tied me up and I loved it. Apparently too much because he never did so again :(

Currently just wanting to chat and explore and learn. I am stimulated by books, movies, philosophical discussions, and more! Looking forward to interacting with folks.
 
Howdy all,

Lurker who enjoys the stories and finally decided to check out the forums. I had a SO once upon a time who tied me up and I loved it. Apparently too much because he never did so again :(

Currently just wanting to chat and explore and learn. I am stimulated by books, movies, philosophical discussions, and more! Looking forward to interacting with folks.

Howdy and welcome! Be sure to come by the Texas Thread as well :)
 
hello new friends!!!

how are you all? been a huge fan of this site for years but just became a member... happy to be here!
 
Hi. New here. This is a great site. I'm meeting great people. It's nice to know there's so many guys out there like me. It's not only fun, but therapeutic joining in here. Thanks y'all!
 
Not new to Lit, but very new here

Hey y'all! I'm a 45 year old bi woman who is just getting out of a 20 marriage. I haven't been able to explore any of the fantasies that have been lurking in my mind. I've been mostly in the Fetish board until now. But, new bf, new and interesting kinks lol. I'm a switch but leaning strongly to submissive. I never had anyone I trusted enough to surrender control completely to. Especially not my soon-to-be-ex husband. But there is already a good amount of trust between us because we've been friends a very long time. We've discussed it and we're going to go into it slowly and find out just where my boundaries are. In the meantime, I'd like to learn everything I can about it. I can't handle pain, I've had some bad experiences in the past Lucky for me, it's the bondage and domination that he likes. I'm generally a dive in feet first kinda gal but I think with this, that's not a good idea.
 
Hey y'all! I'm a 45 year old bi woman who is just getting out of a 20 marriage. I haven't been able to explore any of the fantasies that have been lurking in my mind. I've been mostly in the Fetish board until now. But, new bf, new and interesting kinks lol. I'm a switch but leaning strongly to submissive. I never had anyone I trusted enough to surrender control completely to. Especially not my soon-to-be-ex husband. But there is already a good amount of trust between us because we've been friends a very long time. We've discussed it and we're going to go into it slowly and find out just where my boundaries are. In the meantime, I'd like to learn everything I can about it. I can't handle pain, I've had some bad experiences in the past Lucky for me, it's the bondage and domination that he likes. I'm generally a dive in feet first kinda gal but I think with this, that's not a good idea.

Welcome honey. Muah.
 
Hey y'all! I'm a 45 year old bi woman who is just getting out of a 20 marriage. I haven't been able to explore any of the fantasies that have been lurking in my mind. I've been mostly in the Fetish board until now. But, new bf, new and interesting kinks lol. I'm a switch but leaning strongly to submissive. I never had anyone I trusted enough to surrender control completely to. Especially not my soon-to-be-ex husband. But there is already a good amount of trust between us because we've been friends a very long time. We've discussed it and we're going to go into it slowly and find out just where my boundaries are. In the meantime, I'd like to learn everything I can about it. I can't handle pain, I've had some bad experiences in the past Lucky for me, it's the bondage and domination that he likes. I'm generally a dive in feet first kinda gal but I think with this, that's not a good idea.

Welcome!!
 
Hello

Hi everyone,

I'm new to the site and new to BDSM. I have D/S qualities that I will be exploring in my additions to this site. I look forward to meeting new people and learning things while I'm here. :)

Currently in CA!! :cool:
 
Heyyy. I'm a legit guy on here I'm 23 and I get told I'm very young looking. I have insane desires and dreams and what not but I'm for the most part straight. I only say that cuz I enjoy and love being with females and I just idk I get into a mood where I just crave a cock or something of RP. I am brand new to this site and would check it often. Soon as I can figure out how to post a pic on here. Pm me anything guys :))
 
Hello

Hello everyone. I am brand new to these forums, they were highly recommended to me by someone in my local scene. I trust they will not disappoint. I am 35 year old hetero male. Looking forward to hearing from new people.
 
Hello everybody! I'm kind of new here, looking for some tips for a fellow newbie at this..

I was (admittedly) afraid at first, but have started to take a liking to BDSM in general. And I know someone who likes it as well.

What to do?
 
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