Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

curious_newbie said:

Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

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hulmule said:

I'm one to just get a blow job and leave. Dont get that from wife. Want to slide my 8" cock in down someones throat and fuck their mouth. wife gets upset when i try to talk about things i need and talk dirty. So as always come to Lit and try and catch a little excitement.

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CuriousTxGuy said:

Nice. Keep it simple. Short and sweet.

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Southernguy47 said:

I know that the original post is awhile back but I just found it and wanted to comment.
My preference is definately giving. I do enjoy receiving but I learned long ago that giving is so much pleasure. I was sort of "force fed", or tricked into giving, many years ago by a friend and I learned from that experience how I love the taste of giving and the taste that I receive at the end it is, well so warm and silky smooth, oh my....wish I had some right now, especially an uncut one, but they are so hard to find. But truth is, I've never seen one, or met one, that I didn't enjoy so much

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4yourpleasureiam said:

Not in the least. Many men want to get blow jobs and do nothing in return. Just be nice and let the man giving yo the bow job how much you enjoy what is happening. A few moans and groans, some pushing with your hips and a nice big load with perhaps a "eat it all" is so nice to hear.

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Kantarii said:

The entire time I dated guys, I was a total bottom and willingly assumed the woman’s sexual role in bed. If a guy wanted to suck my dick, it was an instantaneous sexual turn off to me - the same if he asked me to fuck him. Never happened. Every guy I was with was happy that I was a total bottom
Kant

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photobuff56 said:

I do enjoy both, but have been on the reciving end. 69 relax enjoy cum together. Im married And Bi.

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HonkOnBobo said:

you must make for one f@$RK hot bottom...

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joelafayette said:

I think more people want to give oral than receive, at least when it comes to m/m. I don't think you'll find yourself short of willing suitors.

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sub2femdom said:

I got into wearing male chastity because it turned me on.

At first it was about a mistress having control over my cock, and when or if it gets released / pleasured.

After I lost my mistress, I started going to a gay-ish glory hole club. I found that getting oral from a guy did absolutely nothing for me, but giving head gets me off big time. I identify as bi, but I take no pleasure from receiving oral from men, I get all of my pleasure from having a cock in one hole, or the other.

Any time I go back to the glory hole club, I now wear chastity, so there's no way I can receive. I get mixed results when guys try to feel me up.

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Kantarii said:

Hmmm... depends on what’s being given/received. Money, a blowjob, or Thanks/Praise
Kant

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Kantarii said:

Hmmm... depends on what’s being given/received. Money, a blowjob, or Thanks/Praise
Kant

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hornyguy888 said:

Id much rather eat pussy than get a blowjob

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curious_newbie said:

Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

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