howtogethard
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Hi all,
Late 30s male here and I would like the advice of this community. I have been lurking for a while so I am familiar with it.
Over the past couple years, I have noticed a gradual loss of desire with my wife. I am not sure how much of it is due to my age, genes, lowering T, or lost attraction with my wife. Before, I could get hard easily and now it is a struggle to be intimate.
It could be psychological since apparently I have no problem in my sleep, or with some effort I can read stories or posts here and get excited, but nothing in the bedroom. I don't want to look/read too much here lest I cause an addiction making me have to go to NoFap, but it is nice to know that the equipment still works.
It could be biological because I got a test a year back that showed a lower than usual count. And I also notice that I can tell when women are pretty but not be attracted, more often, which was initially welcome as long as any lust could be directed at my wife, but it seems to be hurting that too.
I don't want to be the guy version of a dead bedroom. I don't want to take Viagra and I don't want to see if it is just lack of attraction or familiarity by cheating. If it is low T, any suggestions? If it is psychological, any ideas as to what I can do to fix that too?
Thanks in advance.
Late 30s male here and I would like the advice of this community. I have been lurking for a while so I am familiar with it.
Over the past couple years, I have noticed a gradual loss of desire with my wife. I am not sure how much of it is due to my age, genes, lowering T, or lost attraction with my wife. Before, I could get hard easily and now it is a struggle to be intimate.
It could be psychological since apparently I have no problem in my sleep, or with some effort I can read stories or posts here and get excited, but nothing in the bedroom. I don't want to look/read too much here lest I cause an addiction making me have to go to NoFap, but it is nice to know that the equipment still works.
It could be biological because I got a test a year back that showed a lower than usual count. And I also notice that I can tell when women are pretty but not be attracted, more often, which was initially welcome as long as any lust could be directed at my wife, but it seems to be hurting that too.
I don't want to be the guy version of a dead bedroom. I don't want to take Viagra and I don't want to see if it is just lack of attraction or familiarity by cheating. If it is low T, any suggestions? If it is psychological, any ideas as to what I can do to fix that too?
Thanks in advance.