JMohegan
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Except that for some inexplicable reason, you interpreted me saying "Really? I prefer Mounds 'cause of the coconut" as saying that you should like Mounds bars, too.
Homburg, you have described yourself as "socially dominant" many times. You say you "project" dominance, even when you walk into a non-kinky setting. You describe your male friend as submissive, and say you tell him to fetch drinks for you, and he does it. After spending the evening groping some young woman's ass during the course of ropework, you tease your friend by pronouncing "I'm more dominant!" and you celebrate his frustrated response.Tone.
*shrug*
Last night a girl told me the best tip. Ask him to pleasure himself and then pay attention. I did and it informed my cocksucking. Although my wrist can't seem to do the same twisty thing his does in the same rhthym. Mister Man says it takes "years of practice."
Last night a girl told me the best tip. Ask him to pleasure himself and then pay attention. I did and it informed my cocksucking. Although my wrist can't seem to do the same twisty thing his does in the same rhthym. Mister Man says it takes "years of practice."
*giggles and grins*
I know that twisty thing. *ebil grins* A few months of dilligant work maybe...not years.
This is the second time that you have projected a tone onto my posts, making the assumption that I am challenging you in some way. I am not.
Homburg, you have described yourself as "socially dominant" many times. You say you "project" dominance, even when you walk into a non-kinky setting. You describe your male friend as submissive, and say you tell him to fetch drinks for you, and he does it. After spending the evening groping some young woman's ass during the course of ropework, you tease your friend by pronouncing "I'm more dominant!" and you celebrate his frustrated response.
I understand that miscommunication happens all the time. I am not criticizing you for your misperception; I am, however, trying to prevent it's recurrence.I accept that. I've accepted it before. That doesn't necessarily cause the basal reaction to go away. It just means that I tend to check myself before I lay into what I perceive as a challenge because I rationally understand that it is not.
I am not perfect. All I can claim is that I understand myself and my reactions well enough to attempt to work around them. In this case, I should have known better than to respond to something like after lifting, as hormonal levels are all kinds of out of whack and aggression levels are high. This is why perceived tone elicited comment last night, and similar tone warranted a *shrug* this morning.
Not accusatory, just a paraphrase of this post.While you may not be challenging, there is some misrepresentation here. The fetch a drink scenario was one where I said "Hey man, can you get me a drink while you're up", and he did so. I did not tell him to fetch a drink (assuming it is the post I'm thinking of).
As to the second part, it was humour. Representing it as you did paints a radically different, and innaccurate, picture of the event. Said friend laughed about the whole thing once he got over his initial frustration.
The comment about 'non-kinky setting' is pretty accusatory, but as I'm talking non-sexual dominance here, I'm going to chalk it up to perception and move on.
Total hijack but this reminds me of a game the stud and I used to play. I'd sit behind him, pressed up against his back and reach around and he'd spew all kinds of lovely filth about pretending it was my own dick literally ie: attached to me. I'm sure he got the best HJ's of his life from exploiting my sense of genderfuck. Smart man.
Carry on, don't mind me...
wench and reign - All right. The gauntlet has been thrown down! Now I have to practice.
I understand that miscommunication happens all the time. I am not criticizing you for your misperception; I am, however, trying to prevent it's recurrence.
Not accusatory, just a paraphrase of this post.
As for the drink thing, the post I remembered was this one: "D/s aside, I have plenty of friendship that are clearly inequal. When you are socially dominant and you are friends with someone who is socially submissive, the relationship is going to be somewhat unequal by matter of course. Sure, there is no official power exchange, by if I tell my friend Alan to grab me a soda, he's going to do it simply because it is in his nature to follow commands."
I am not criticizing you, Homburg. I am trying to explain the difference in our M.O.'s, our styles, and our perceptions --- in an effort to get *you* to stop misinterpreting *me*.
Unfortunately it can work to your disadvantage. I can't remember the last time I had intercourse...
God I'm cranky!
Good luck girl!
Don't mind you, my ass! I want more details. What were the kinds of things he said?
Yeah, well. Be careful what you wish for. Mister Man can go for hours. Sometimes there are multiple rounds, and they each last hours.
We often have this exchange:
Me: Oh you are NOT hard again. Come the fuck on.
Him: 'fraid so, baby girl. (maniacal laughter ensues)
Me: That is just not normal.
*giggles* reign's still right. I've gone multible rounds with out being vaginally penitrated by his cock. blow after blow after blow.....
Seeing how I orgasm from blowing him...I don't mind so much.
*giggles*
It's been eons. Since I'm such a good little showoff faggot show him how I beat off for him, that kind of thing.
Yeah, well. Be careful what you wish for. Mister Man can go for hours. Sometimes there are multiple rounds, and they each last hours.
We often have this exchange:
Me: Oh you are NOT hard again. Come the fuck on.
Him: 'fraid so, baby girl. (maniacal laughter ensues)
Me: That is just not normal.
It's been eons. Since I'm such a good little showoff faggot show him how I beat off for him, that kind of thing.
The best way for you to find someone who is interested in *you*, the whole package, is for you to behave as if you are interested in a guy, the whole package, too.Okay, why is it so hard to find a guy who will pay attention to me, let me suck his cock at least once every other day (min) and is actually interested in *me*?
The best way for you to find someone who is interested in *you*, the whole package, is for you to behave as if you are interested in a guy, the whole package, too.
Are you seeking a cock with a guy attached to it, or a guy with whom you can share your interests in whatever it is that you like to do? If the latter, are you looking in the right places? If you like hiking, I would suggest joining a trail club. If you like politics, I would suggest volunteering for a campaign. You get the idea.
Look for someone with similar interests, ethics, and goals. Get to know the whole package, and let cock worship ultimately be about appreciation for the man himself.