MeekMe
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This is a difficult question to answer. I used PYL because everyone here is different and every relationship is different.
I had an experience tonight that made me ask a lot of questions. What makes a Dom/me? What makes a Sub? I'm a bit confused I suppose.
Is a sub selfish if they want to get something in return?
Can someone be dominant if dominating someone doesn't do it for them? Like say the only thing they get out of it is that the person they are "doming" gets turned on by it and that person (the sub) being turned on is what gets the "dom" turned on. (>_<)
Is it even D/s at that point?
Since this is difficult, and one answer doesn't fit all, please just give your honest opinion of how you feel. Personal experiences are welcomed. I looked around but didn't find a post on this. I can only assume this is something that's been asked a million times. ^_^ I'd appreciate if you'd give an answer one more time.
I had an experience tonight that made me ask a lot of questions. What makes a Dom/me? What makes a Sub? I'm a bit confused I suppose.
Is a sub selfish if they want to get something in return?
Can someone be dominant if dominating someone doesn't do it for them? Like say the only thing they get out of it is that the person they are "doming" gets turned on by it and that person (the sub) being turned on is what gets the "dom" turned on. (>_<)
Is it even D/s at that point?
Since this is difficult, and one answer doesn't fit all, please just give your honest opinion of how you feel. Personal experiences are welcomed. I looked around but didn't find a post on this. I can only assume this is something that's been asked a million times. ^_^ I'd appreciate if you'd give an answer one more time.