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jbannon
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Welcome AltLore, I recently joined a rope bondage group in my area and find bondage art fascinating.I usually loath these as I am a generally a private sort. Here for a chat a laugh and some brain food.
Twenty eight, male, I had an account here for a while sometime ago. Felt like getting involved again so here I am.
I suppose I am what one would call a part timer, the lady in my life and I enjoy aspects of BDSM and power exchange. My fascination with all things "bondage" stretches back years and a few relationships. I have been lucky enough to make some great friends with a similar taste and interest.
Always enjoyed reading these boards and looking forward to some good chats and spirited debates via them.
Thanks for having me
Et_Tu_Brute
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Hello there, I'm 22 year old male in England. I've always been interested in BDSM, but I only decided recently to start exploring the lifestyle, as I'm getting into shape and having a general life shake-up. I'm a dom, and I'd be very interested in talking to others about things on a practical and personal level, as I'm a newbie and (I will admit) more than a little nervous about diving head-first, as it were.
I hope to start talking to people and maybe even making some friends on this board
Cheers!
I hope to start talking to people and maybe even making some friends on this board
Cheers!
magic_elly
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I have a question, please advise where else fetish games can be played besides your own house. Is there some kind of places that make you start feel the excitement, that will turn you on just by realization that you are there? 
rbijon
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I have a question, please advise where else fetish games can be played besides your own house. Is there some kind of places that make you start feel the excitement, that will turn you on just by realization that you are there?
Come on over to the BDSM Word Association..for fun
thread....you might enjoy it! It's all in fun!
jbannon
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Welcome magic elly! I guess I'm confused on the question....maybe...I think. If you are looking for local play scenes I suggest you find and get involved in your area munch group. If you are a member of FetLife you can easily find events in your area. Munches are social gatherings in what is usually a vanilla setting but they provide a way to find out about the local bdsm clubs, private parties and member events. Good luck in your search.I have a question, please advise where else fetish games can be played besides your own house. Is there some kind of places that make you start feel the excitement, that will turn you on just by realization that you are there?
FurryFury
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I have a question, please advise where else fetish games can be played besides your own house. Is there some kind of places that make you start feel the excitement, that will turn you on just by realization that you are there?
There are some fetish clubs, also demos and play parties.
magic_elly
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thanks a lot for the advices
Blueaftershock
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Hello everyone,
im Rob Blueaftershock, im 34 year old bloke from England,
im quite new to forums, ive been here few days and am enjoy it lots,
allways been on the kinky side been single for awhile but now sort of seeing a bird just sex at the mo, big built women in rubber make me weak at the knees, ill try almost anything once, ok the maybe twice, hope to chat to you all soon,
im Rob Blueaftershock, im 34 year old bloke from England,
im quite new to forums, ive been here few days and am enjoy it lots,
allways been on the kinky side been single for awhile but now sort of seeing a bird just sex at the mo, big built women in rubber make me weak at the knees, ill try almost anything once, ok the maybe twice, hope to chat to you all soon,
Hi every one, made a few posts thought I'd better introduce myself. Am 52 sexually Dominant male although not a bulldozer in normal life. Have a submissive collared pet female met after a long search for the right type for me and am in an exclusive relatoinship with them. enjoyed the stories on here for years never seemed to of got as far as the forum before although no stranger to forums. Been involved in D/s relationships for a long time .
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Chainedesire
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1st time posting
I'm very new to this site and BDSM so most of the lingo in the previous post were noggin scratchers to me. Any hoo. I'm a 28 bi female in a long term relationship with a another female. I read my first BDSM themed novel about a year ago that threw my preconceived notions of what turned me on threw a loop. Who knew that being restrained got me feeling all twitchy...not me that was for sure. Well my gf has tried a few times to boss me around in the bedroom...but as she is a little thing...it usually ends up with us wrestling for who gets to be on top. Does this mean I'm a 'switch'...inane baseball clips popping up in my head ay batter batter...ohkay so I'm a little ADD too...sparkles are distracting....dang it oh kay back to original thoughts. So back to meet and greet...in the GLBT world I would be considered a 'fem' b/c of the heels, makeup and over all girly appearance. However I do love to play rugby when I get the chance. I'm a BBW (woot woot) although my trainer at 24hrfit is helping me to trim off the 'B'. I'm kind of sad about slowly losing the T&A... so where was I in this though process...Bi, female, fem, BBW, oh and I was once told that in the BDSM world I would be a complete BRAT! I do like to get my way…(insert mischievous giggle here)..so that is me...HI YA'LL....
I'm very new to this site and BDSM so most of the lingo in the previous post were noggin scratchers to me. Any hoo. I'm a 28 bi female in a long term relationship with a another female. I read my first BDSM themed novel about a year ago that threw my preconceived notions of what turned me on threw a loop. Who knew that being restrained got me feeling all twitchy...not me that was for sure. Well my gf has tried a few times to boss me around in the bedroom...but as she is a little thing...it usually ends up with us wrestling for who gets to be on top. Does this mean I'm a 'switch'...inane baseball clips popping up in my head ay batter batter...ohkay so I'm a little ADD too...sparkles are distracting....dang it oh kay back to original thoughts. So back to meet and greet...in the GLBT world I would be considered a 'fem' b/c of the heels, makeup and over all girly appearance. However I do love to play rugby when I get the chance. I'm a BBW (woot woot) although my trainer at 24hrfit is helping me to trim off the 'B'. I'm kind of sad about slowly losing the T&A... so where was I in this though process...Bi, female, fem, BBW, oh and I was once told that in the BDSM world I would be a complete BRAT! I do like to get my way…(insert mischievous giggle here)..so that is me...HI YA'LL....
Chainedesire
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books
I was introduced to an author named Lora Leigh and her Bound Hearts series....that was the small wave that started the tsunami.
Welcome Chainedesire
I'm curious which novel was it? I run a BDSM Book of the Month Club here.
I was introduced to an author named Lora Leigh and her Bound Hearts series....that was the small wave that started the tsunami.
FurryFury
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Saying Hello and hoping for some info...
Hi there,
I am a 31 year old, bisexual woman with what seem to be recently discovered submissive leanings; I'm VERY new to this whole BDSM world and not even sure what some of the terms mean! LOL! However, I have ordered my copy of "Screw the Roses" since that seems to be required reading, so hopefully I will be up to speed soon. I recently got divorced after a 7 year relationship that was unhappy and unsatisfying in many ways, so I am very much enjoying being single again; I'm trying to take the time to really find myself and discover what it is I want from all areas of life, including my sexuality.
I have always had fantasies about being dominated by both men and women and I have always gotten off by reading or looking at porn with bondage, spanking, etc. but I had never had any experiences as such in real life...UNTIL LAST NIGHT! WOW!!!!
I just met a man who has been a dom for many years; we met on a regular dating website and hit it off wonderfully on an emotional level. When we met for the first time, I had NO idea that he would be the person to take me to the place I had only fantasied about. As we got to know each other more, he revealed this side of himself and I seriously couldn't believe it. The first time we slept together, it was just some light bondage, but after talking more and deciding that I really wanted to go for it, last night I had my first real scene and it was AMAZING! I'm still all blissed out and I can't believe this is really happening to me. (I submitted a story on here about it that I hope will be approved)
Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and that I'm here hoping to learn more about this lifestyle and I am open to any advice that you all might have; and if I say anything inadvertently stupid or offensive, please feel free to correct me as I am pretty clueless!
Hi there,
I am a 31 year old, bisexual woman with what seem to be recently discovered submissive leanings; I'm VERY new to this whole BDSM world and not even sure what some of the terms mean! LOL! However, I have ordered my copy of "Screw the Roses" since that seems to be required reading, so hopefully I will be up to speed soon. I recently got divorced after a 7 year relationship that was unhappy and unsatisfying in many ways, so I am very much enjoying being single again; I'm trying to take the time to really find myself and discover what it is I want from all areas of life, including my sexuality.
I have always had fantasies about being dominated by both men and women and I have always gotten off by reading or looking at porn with bondage, spanking, etc. but I had never had any experiences as such in real life...UNTIL LAST NIGHT! WOW!!!!
I just met a man who has been a dom for many years; we met on a regular dating website and hit it off wonderfully on an emotional level. When we met for the first time, I had NO idea that he would be the person to take me to the place I had only fantasied about. As we got to know each other more, he revealed this side of himself and I seriously couldn't believe it. The first time we slept together, it was just some light bondage, but after talking more and deciding that I really wanted to go for it, last night I had my first real scene and it was AMAZING! I'm still all blissed out and I can't believe this is really happening to me. (I submitted a story on here about it that I hope will be approved)
Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and that I'm here hoping to learn more about this lifestyle and I am open to any advice that you all might have; and if I say anything inadvertently stupid or offensive, please feel free to correct me as I am pretty clueless!
nighthawk722
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Hi there,
I am a 31 year old, bisexual woman with what seem to be recently discovered submissive leanings; I'm VERY new to this whole BDSM world and not even sure what some of the terms mean! LOL! However, I have ordered my copy of "Screw the Roses" since that seems to be required reading, so hopefully I will be up to speed soon. I recently got divorced after a 7 year relationship that was unhappy and unsatisfying in many ways, so I am very much enjoying being single again; I'm trying to take the time to really find myself and discover what it is I want from all areas of life, including my sexuality.
I have always had fantasies about being dominated by both men and women and I have always gotten off by reading or looking at porn with bondage, spanking, etc. but I had never had any experiences as such in real life...UNTIL LAST NIGHT! WOW!!!!
I just met a man who has been a dom for many years; we met on a regular dating website and hit it off wonderfully on an emotional level. When we met for the first time, I had NO idea that he would be the person to take me to the place I had only fantasied about. As we got to know each other more, he revealed this side of himself and I seriously couldn't believe it. The first time we slept together, it was just some light bondage, but after talking more and deciding that I really wanted to go for it, last night I had my first real scene and it was AMAZING! I'm still all blissed out and I can't believe this is really happening to me. (I submitted a story on here about it that I hope will be approved)
Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and that I'm here hoping to learn more about this lifestyle and I am open to any advice that you all might have; and if I say anything inadvertently stupid or offensive, please feel free to correct me as I am pretty clueless!
you don't have a contact name to pm. get it done if you wanna submit to me
Ariel_Marie
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straight girl wearing a dress...
I'm straight but curious I guess...new to the whole girl or girl scene. Interested I suppose not sure what to do... if you'll willing to help a straight girl test the waters PM me. Xoxo
I'm straight but curious I guess...new to the whole girl or girl scene. Interested I suppose not sure what to do... if you'll willing to help a straight girl test the waters PM me. Xoxo
FurryFury
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Heels_Lover
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Hello everyone. I didn't see this intro thread lol. Anyway, I'm a 31 y.o. male and I have a major fetish for women's feet and high heels...I guess you can tell by the name. I also have other fetishes......
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