KoPilot
Obscene Epicene
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Welp, I unintentionally bumped the thread this post was from. Oh well!
Stella, I found this comment of yours and I gotta say I've been thinking along these lines a lot lately. It's occurring to me that an Owner/owned dynamic can exist entirely separately from D/s, M/s, S/m, B/l, though it borrows aspects from them.
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Another thing--though I can't find the thread, it's probably still on the front page--this whole conversation has had me thinking about is the fact that it makes kinksters so incredibly uncomfortable to not be able to visually distinguish a PYL and their pyl "on the street". I've got a hunch that this discomfort especially strong for M/f couples.
And there aren't many slave owner types out there-- not that can turn off the ownership when it isn't needed. It could be dicey IRL.
Stella, I found this comment of yours and I gotta say I've been thinking along these lines a lot lately. It's occurring to me that an Owner/owned dynamic can exist entirely separately from D/s, M/s, S/m, B/l, though it borrows aspects from them.
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Another thing--though I can't find the thread, it's probably still on the front page--this whole conversation has had me thinking about is the fact that it makes kinksters so incredibly uncomfortable to not be able to visually distinguish a PYL and their pyl "on the street". I've got a hunch that this discomfort especially strong for M/f couples.