editorinwork1
Experienced
- Joined
- Apr 7, 2015
- Posts
- 35
Hello everyone.
I have been on the site for past 3 years. But never have been in forums or created an account. I recently decided to be active.
I created this thread in realization that there may be many people like me, who are curious, wants to gain knowledge.
OR Some maybe newcomers and may have loads of questionnaire in their mind.
Midwestyankee has given me an advice to read through the BDSM library. It was an explosion to my mind. I sat 3 hours reading it. I would obviously continue to explore the library section and would advice everyone to do so too.
NewDaddyDom solved some of my questions yesterday in private messages.
I realised that the stories that i read in bdsm section is a bit different than real life.
As in the story although is based on bdsm, but the writer obviously has used some imagination mixed with his/her fantasies.
On forum, reading through the library section made realize its different. Each couple has their own rules.
I would like to pose basic questions and continue asking them as and when i explore more library section.
I m assuming that most of the people here may have been vanilla & have then come to embrace bdsm.
So my basic question would be: What made them realize that they are Dominant/Submissive or likewise.
How does switch work in monogamy?
How does a newbie over come their fear while being single?
Isnt complete dominance or submission a bit scary first time around?
Thank you in advance
I have been on the site for past 3 years. But never have been in forums or created an account. I recently decided to be active.
I created this thread in realization that there may be many people like me, who are curious, wants to gain knowledge.
OR Some maybe newcomers and may have loads of questionnaire in their mind.
Midwestyankee has given me an advice to read through the BDSM library. It was an explosion to my mind. I sat 3 hours reading it. I would obviously continue to explore the library section and would advice everyone to do so too.
NewDaddyDom solved some of my questions yesterday in private messages.
I realised that the stories that i read in bdsm section is a bit different than real life.
As in the story although is based on bdsm, but the writer obviously has used some imagination mixed with his/her fantasies.
On forum, reading through the library section made realize its different. Each couple has their own rules.
I would like to pose basic questions and continue asking them as and when i explore more library section.
I m assuming that most of the people here may have been vanilla & have then come to embrace bdsm.
So my basic question would be: What made them realize that they are Dominant/Submissive or likewise.
How does switch work in monogamy?
How does a newbie over come their fear while being single?
Isnt complete dominance or submission a bit scary first time around?
Thank you in advance